The above post is in responce to this comment

For the record, I have never tried to paint a pretty picture of the situation. The thread started out as chat about the wedding and i stated at that time that this is a sad and hurtful situation for everyone involved. I never said they were the perfect couple (you can check my post). I do however feel that this is a private situation and that given the delicate nature (kids, family, home) people should show a little more empathy, because this could have been anyone of us.

I have not been decieved in anyway. Some of the stuff that has been written (that is actually true) I am very aware of. Like i said before, as a friend i chose to respect those aspects of thier life that were shared with me. However, I will say this, the kid in Texas was the result of a one night stand (the child is named Millionaire for GOD sake) which dosent mean that they werent together at the time, it means that there was a indiscresion/mistake, and they worked thru it. The lastest child by the babysitter hasnt been proven to be his (she refuses to take a DNA test for the kid). In addition i wouldnt say they had a relationship, she was the nanny for one of his team mates and actually she was living with and had been in a Real relationship with another one of Stephens team mates brother (Jason Terry's brother) for the past 3 years, actually she didnt even moved out from the boyfriend while she was pregnant until January during her 6th month. So that child is still in question. Either way I dont feel that those indiscretions mean that Stephen and Imani werent together during the past 6 years as I stated. Cheating, I wouldnt put up with it but again it isnt my choice its thiers. Some men cheat, some women allow it but I dont think it takes away from the fact that they love each other.

And for the record. She loves him and did sign the pre nup (for the socalled insiders who have no clue). She did resist initally because she never saw heard of or had time to read it (they sent it to her room 25 mins prior to the service. which left no time for discussion or negotiation or interpetation which is why the wedding had to be postponed) Who of us would sign a 70 page contract (essentially that is what it is) that could potientally determine the future and well being of you and your children without reading it?

The moral censes is that they both leave alot to be desired, but we cannot be the judge, that is not our place. My whole point is if something tragic happened to me I would hope my so called friends would be there for me instead of digging all of the dirt of my personal life to put on display to basiclly kick me while im down. I believe that outside of them only GOD knows the whole truth and even if all of the ugly things about them are accurate He is the one to judge and im sure he still loves and forgives them. (Only the devil likes broken homes) Im not handling PR as stated before, Im just adding my opinion as you all are.