Originally Posted by MadamX

Veman96054; True, but I have learned so much more than not to loan money. I have learned to fight for what is mine, even if it is unpopular. I have learned about on-line dating (the good, bad and ugly). I have learned that my true friends will always stand besides me. I have learned how many people truly "care". I have learned to tell the truth even when embarrassing or painful. I have learned that ANYONE can fool me, that I am not infallible. I have learned that religion can be used as a "tool" to justify almost any behavior. I have learned that "turning your cheek" in the face of wrongdoing makes you a part of the problem. I have learned to never give up hope. I have learned to ALWAYS trust my gut, even when it makes no sense. I have learned not to give trust away..people must earn it over time. I have learned that not everything is how it appears to be. I have learned that I am Ok "all by myself". I have learned the pitfalls of long distance dating (I will not venture there again). I have learned to develop thick skin. I have also learned to ask for help. Yes, the money was a very small part of the lesson:-)