Re: How soon after Man is released from Prison do you date him?
Make sure all his release paperwork is in order and he is on point with his PO visits. Check to see if he is pissing clean and up to date on his SDT checks before you-
JUST KIDDING!
Hayle no I wouldn't. 10 years in the PENN could be manslaughter, drugs, robbery, child molestation, assault, burglary, grand theft,.. did I mention he could have been a rapist??? You never know, and he doesn't have to tell you so you could be getting lied to.
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Re: How soon after Man is released from Prison do you date him?
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I didn't ask him. I actually was going to tell him to stop calling me because even though he's a nice guy and he seems to like me a lot, I don't feel the chemistry. Then before i even said that he told me about he just got out. He just told me and I didn't say anything, he just kept talking. When I met him, I just thought, wow, a nice, older, quiet man with no kids? (i'm in my 20s, he's in his 30s)
now if i tell him to stop calling, he will think it's because he just told me that he got out of prison.
I would not entertain the thought of dating him if I were you, maybe it's best you stay platonic friends.
Re: How soon after Man is released from Prison do you date him?
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How soon after Man is released from Prison do you date him?
Let's say you meet a man tall, attractive, no kids, and then he drops the bomb I have been in jail for the last ten years and just got out 8 months ago. What do you do? Would you immediately stop talking? Would you be curious about if he had sex with another man? Is him being released so recently an issue?
Would anyone date a man just freed from prison?
Only if the Father, Son, Holy Spirit and a host of angelic beings repeatedly told me to do so in a 3 dimensional vision on a Bose sound system.
Nonetheless, not all men who have done time in prison have engaged in sex with other men. I would be more concerned about the time it would take for him to "renew" his mind to outside living!
Re: How soon after Man is released from Prison do you date him?
Incog, 8 months is too short a time to know if he can rehabilitate(sp) back into society.It's very important as a woman that before you get into a relationship with someone you see that there are no warning bells. If he has done hard time for 10yrs & he turns around & grabs your mother's purse or titties at thanksgiving, can you honestly say you did not see it coming?Avoid "high risk" people when you enter into a relationship.And frankly after 10yrs in the pen, 8months is too soon even for him. He should be trying to get a job maybe even two, updating his computer skills(I bet guy can't even go on LSA let alone updated software at work), building his credit etc.If you are that desparate for a man, at least start off as friends.Don't jump into bed with him till you have seen HIV test results.
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Re: How soon after Man is released from Prison do you date him?
Nope, never. Times are hard enough for us regular folks. Can u imagin how to tough it will be for him as a convicted felon? Ten years....major time for a major crime.
Re: How soon after Man is released from Prison do you date him?
oh hell nah i wouldn't be talking to any dude that was in prison. and i damn sure wouldn't be talking to him if he been in 1 - 10 or hell even 20. eww.
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