I have a minor crush on this cute white boy in my class...I feel like a slut because I've been with my man for over 3 yrs and love him dearly...I have not had a "crush" in 1.5 years...the first crush I had while with him in a relationship was this really attractive international student from Jamaica...but I grew out of it. Back to this recent crush, its embarrassing...my thirst. I maneuvered my way to be put in a group with this boy in class (for a group project) and nonchalantly collected all the team members numbers.

I occasionally text him about stuff not related to the team project...I started texting him too often and appeared too thirsty and I think he noticed. So to cut this thing off deleted his number and haven't tested him for 2 weeks.. yesterday I got desperate and spent two hours online looking for his number...atlas I could not find it..almost paid this people search website to get it but I decided not to..I'm glad I didn't get it because I need to get over this cutie. I don't remember how I got over the Jamaican boy but I eventually did...how do I get over this new boy ladies??? Help!!! I hate being thirsty :-( , I keep day dreaming about him :-(

Well you have just walked all off the ledge into the land of trouble haven't you?

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I have a crush too and hes in a relationship

But I also have another crush and he lives upstairs I feel like a slut too. But I like it


Back to your story though @ you searching for his number and texting him too much. If you gon be pressed dont appear it! Just try to push him out your mind. Focus on the flaws and the whole nine

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Well for what it's worth he doesn't sound the much in to you (if any) as you are in to him.

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Sorry but "Atlas" made me giggle. I know what you meant though.

I was going to say it's just a crush and as long as you don't act on it, you're cool. But after reading more of your post, I think you are getting a bit weird with it...I don't really have any good advice for that, other than to say stalking is a turn-off to most men.

I guess if you like him, dump your BF and go for it? Or stay with your boyfriend and leave the other dude alone

Good luck.

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@Roxie I was going to say the same thing. I'm married and still have crushes but my dear you have crossed the line.

Maybe is time to reevaluate your relationship, there's something you're missing and seeking. Before you break off a 3 year relationship, communicate with your boyfriend and see if you can spice things up. If not move on. But stalking isn't cute,could get you 5 to 10. good luck.

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Tbh... This is common for alot of people believe it or not. They just choose not to speak on it.

I can bet you that everyone whether they are in a serious relationship or just talking to somebody that they are feeling has had an attraction to someone else besides their mate. But this is where TRUST, HONESTY, LOYALTY AND RESPECT comes into play.

You have to put yourself in your boyfriends shoes and imagine how he would feel if he knew you were going to great lenghts at keeping tabs on someone who is not your man.

How would you feel if your man did this with another girl behind your back?

Not saying you did anything wrong but you need to maybe limit the time you see and talk to the boy your crushing on.

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Arent you the same old married bitch talking about how your husband cheats on you? Bitch get out of here...i hope your husband divorce your sour cream smelling pussy and leaves you with nothing #basicbitchtrolling

That's more than a crush. You went and searched for his number online after you deleted it ( hell I didn't know you could do that ). Just stop, nothing to it, unless you want to lose your boyfriend for over three years.

...stop spamming the icog.