One of my good friends cut me off. Out of nowhere. He won't answer my calls, I texted him telling him I had a card for him for vday and he ignored me. He's gay so I know he's not in love with me. It's just so sudden. Last week we were cool and now he cut me off. I'm hurt because I thought he was one of my best friends. We never fight. I just don't understand. One of our other friends called him & he answered for her so I know he has his phone. Why did he do this?

You're asking US WHY he did it? LSA is many things, but no one here has a crystal ball!!! Just give him a minute & he'll come around.

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^^^What she said.

I think he's scared that you'll find out he lost your favorite pair of shoes, so he is ignoring you to stall to replace your payless shoes?

Maybe you unintentionally did something and he felt it was the last straw...or maybe someone lied on you possibly a mutual friends lied on you..it could be anything

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If you haven't done anything offensive to him, don't sweat it. What ever he's upset with you about, he should tell you what you've done to make him ignore your calls.

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Yeah, yeah. What they said.

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you must have done something in his mind. if you have no clue at all maybe one of the reasons he don't eff with you anymore is bc you're self-absorbed. my thing is, i don't care who it is, if i keep trying to contact you and you ignore me, i'm leaving your ass alone, best friend or not. obviously i can't make someone talk to me that doesn't want to.

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Either he has found out something you said in the past or he you did something that you didn't think was wrong but he thought it was and cut you off. That's all I could think of.

I dunno. Sounds strange if you all have a grea relationship.

you may have done or said something that offended him....think real hard...

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Maybe you call too much, or your conversation is tired and he doesn't want to hear it anymore or maybe you need to get off your high horse and stop thinking your better than everyone else with your wack boyfriend and family....ok, wait this is rant about one of my friends disregard all of that and just go ask the young man.

You did something, just think about it. If you guys don't fight, then it will blow over........like it always does.

I'm sorry. I know that feeling sucks but it might not be about you. He may have had a fall out with his S/O or something that makes him not want to talk to anyone. Although it is wrong to leave a friend out in the cold. When he does come around, you make sure you let him know how much he hurt you and you will give him another chance but he no other chances.