Relationship questions you are too embarrassed to post under your screen name.
My husband left me for another woman
This woman was his high school sweetheart. She came back into his life and he came to me saying that since seeing her he's been wondering about what "could've been".
This woman was his high school sweetheart. She came back into his life and he came to me saying that since seeing her he's been wondering about what "could've been". He still loves me but doesn't think it's fair to string me along when his heart is torn between the two of us. So he left to be with her to try and recapture old dreams.
So I guess I'm supposed to just wait in the wings and if things don't work out he'll be like "Well at least now I know." Am I supposed to take him back?
My friends and family assure me that it won't work out between them cause karma is a mutha. But that is no consolation for me now, going through this storm of emotions. Once a person has been in your life for so long you don't really know how to function.
No he is the enemy. He was the fool who left you to recapture something that ended years ago. When it doesnt work out, he will slither back to you. Under no circumstances do you let him. He was not a real man. Your job now is to find your self confidence and esteem. Also work on being a good parent to your children and teach them morals their father obviously doesnt have. You can do this honey. No problem.
His reasoning was that kids parents divorce everyday and he would still be there for them. I will give him that, he is a very good father.
I guess I could be understanding if you and him were having problems and he left. Yes divorce happens all the time. But to just up and leave on a what if. I think that's fowl.
To answer your original question...I personally wouldn't take him back but i've never been in your shoes so I can't say. good luck to you and your kids.
Move the _____ on like he did. If you take him back...could you really love him knowing that you are not his #1??? You are the second at best....he showed you this when he walked out. So pick your ish up and file the papers... and do you. You would be waiting around for what??? Him to come back and then what??? Go back to being normal like this ish didn't happen? He doesn't love you??? If you don't believe that....Then Believe this... He doesn't love you enough.
Now that we have established that.... Let's talk about you...
Cry.... Set up your situation (move him out/move out).... get the paper work going... Cry.... Take in the lesson learned... Get strong...Be a mother to your children.... Let him be a father to his... Set your energy on being better...then you'll find a man who can love you better.
This woman was his high school sweetheart. And... How Old is he NOW?She came back into his life and he came to me saying that since seeing her he's been wondering about what "could've been". He still loves me but doesn't think it's fair to string me along when his heart is torn between the two of us. Fugg THAT LINE OF BULL!!!So he left to be with her to try and recapture old dreams.BYE!
So I guess I'm supposed to just wait in the wings and if things don't work out he'll be like "Well at least now I know." Am I supposed to take him back?You ALREADY know the answer to that question!!! He finna go off and fugg another woman, while you WAIT? Bish, please... move on.. Where is YOUR HS Sweetheart?
My friends and family assure me that it won't work out between them cause karma is a mutha. But that is no consolation for me now, going through this storm of emotions. Once a person has been in your life for so long you don't really know how to function.
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Are yall married? The answer to that question doesn't even matter... He is NOT the ONE... THE ONE... wouldn't put you on the back burner..
This woman was his high school sweetheart. She came back into his life and he came to me saying that since seeing her he's been wondering about what "could've been". He still loves me but doesn't think it's fair to string me along when his heart is torn between the two of us. So he left to be with her to try and recapture old dreams.
So I guess I'm supposed to just wait in the wings and if things don't work out he'll be like "Well at least now I know." Am I supposed to take him back?
My friends and family assure me that it won't work out between them cause karma is a mutha. But that is no consolation for me now, going through this storm of emotions. Once a person has been in your life for so long you don't really know how to function.
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