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what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?

He tells me this sometimes, but he never tries to leave me..he has cheated on me in the past so i assumed that but it makes me question his fidelity


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09-17-2009, 03:59 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Old what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
He tells me this sometimes, but he never tries to leave me..he has cheated on me in the past so i assumed that but it makes me question his fidelity as well...


 
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09-17-2009, 04:03 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
That he knows he aint sh*t for cheating on you and your a better person than he is and that includes you taking him back..... So he means exactly what he said.... (or he is still f*cking around on you and he feels bad cause your sooooo good to him he knows he's sh*t) Either way.....
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
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He tells me this sometimes, but he never tries to leave me..he has cheated on me in the past so i assumed that but it makes me question his fidelity as well...
Wait..what? If he cheated the his fidelity should no longer be in question..
Anyways does it really matter? He's cheated on you. If he said he doesnt deserve you he probably doesnt so move on..quickly.
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
He's trying to guilt trip you & make you feel sorry for him. He's also indirectly telling you that he's cheating on you... Good way to make himself not feel so guilty...


 
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
It means he's doing something dirty and is giving you a heads up without confessing. There's a difference between "I'm so lucky to have you", and "I don't deserve you." Now, if a man tells you the latter (especially, repeatedly), listen to him & GO! >>>>>>


 
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09-17-2009, 04:05 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
you could probably do better but thanks for sticking with my dumbass anyway... *goes n fucks another chick*


 
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09-17-2009, 04:06 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
sooooooo many things that can mean.

he's giving you a subliminal message about his wrongdoings

he's actually being honest , he doesnt feel he's worth it.

he could just see the goodness in you and feels DAMN I GOT LUCKY . i mean who knows. so many reasons
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
Yeah I heard that in the past when I was younger. Stayed and he did me dirty. run girl


 
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09-17-2009, 04:08 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
It means you need to get the fuck out of dodge. When a man tells you he doesn't deserve you, believe him.


 
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09-17-2009, 04:10 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
it means just what he said..literally..

and OP, if he says you're too good for him--tell me WHY IN THE DAMN HELL!!!!..

"he would tTRY to leave you" as you stated..

he is a lying and cheating loser..lawd!!!


 
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
That when things really hit the fan, he can pretty much tell you to blame yourself, for you not believing him when he told you that he wasn't good for you..


 
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It means you need to get the fuck out of dodge. When a man tells you he doesn't deserve you, believe him.
Yep. Men are not like women. When they say something, they mean EXACTLY that.
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Why is he saying that he does not deserve you?


 
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that he knows he aint sh*t for cheating on you and your a better person than he is and that includes you taking him back..... So he means exactly what he said.... (or he is still f*cking around on you and he feels bad cause your sooooo good to him he knows he's sh*t) either way.....
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Old Re: what does it mean when a man tells you he doesnt deserve you?
He's trying to tell you to leave him cos he isn't ever going to do right by you, and stop holding on and let him go.


 
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