Okay first of all I am also a woman but I still don't get the whole teasing thing.

Here is the scenario:

There is this guy that I used to be with. He is smart, funny, cute, and really quiet. I broke up with him because I was dealing with some internal problems and I knew he just wouldn't understand, plus my mind just wasn't in it anymore. But after we broke things off we became distant friends.

A few years later I find out that he has a huge crush on one of my friends and is falling for her. I think it's cute and I want him to be happy.

The only problem is that my friend is a total teaser. She doesn't even like him but she teases him for her own pleasure. She gets a big kick out of doing it too.

When asked about what she thinks of him she says that he is unattractive and a total cornball. She says that he is not her type and that she could never find herself with a guy like him.

So I'm like why are you constantly flirting with him and touching him if you have no desire to be with him.

Her response:"it's fun."

So I'm upset because the guy has it bad for this girl. I mean he wants her and she is just taking him all for granted.

It's sort of sad because she will flirt and touch and tease him and then she'll laugh about it later when he is gone, making him look like a total fool.

It's like she enjoys the attention she gets from him, and she likes the fact that she can flaunt herself before him and then push him away.

I'm serious when I say that she gets a big thrill out of it.

The funny thing is that when he got a girlfriend she was jealous.

So I was like why are you acting so jealous when you don't want him in the first place. Her response: "I like having him around to play with."

To play with? So he is only a toy to you? I am just floored.

Why do you want the attention so bad that you are willing to play with his emotions and string him along when you KNOW that you have no desire to actually be with him?

Why crush this guy's heart all because you only want the attention he gives you?

It's just sad.

And then I started to notice that the same thing is happening with one of my male cousins.

He was also into a girl who teased him but had no desire to be with him.

And then these girls have the nerve to say "I don't know where he got the idea from that I wanted to be with him."

WHAT????

How could you NOT know when you are constantly touching him, playing with him, flirting with him, and giving him sexual hints?

I mean come on!!

i cnt read this shit
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damn, your font son!

I just can't concentrate hard enough to make out what you just wrote right there

Because women are evil. They're like cats.

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1. did you just out your self incog and

2. bc its fun.......:kanyeshru g:

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She has daddy issue,


take him from her

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lol you saying that reminded me of what Michael Jackson said in his tapes.

"women are like cats, when you come home they dont pounce and jump on you like dogs, they pay you no attention and make you come to them"


LOL it is true.

Cats love playing with ppl.

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I thought it was cute at first, to be honest, But I didn't like that shit when somebody did it to me. I understand how that feels.

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Have a convo. with her about it & tell her straight up.

Cause its fun!

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