well snitch on her, tell her she plays with men, warn him, if he still goes after her, watch your hands of the situation.

Or explain to her that she may heurt him, and karma sucks

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Attention. Some people like to see how far they can take others, and some like to figure out what makes other people tick.

I will say that I was in a similar situation but reversed
I would play it off like I had no interest in the guy or would brush it off like I did not care too much for him when my friend asked if me and him talked lately. But we did like eachother. Its just that when my friend told me it was okay, I kind of knew that she did not mean that (because I've been that friend who said sure but really wasn't) and wanted to protect her feelings so I would play it off like I was not into him. Maybe your friend is also doing that?

Maybe SHE is INTERESTED and SHE just isn't keeping it "Real" with YOU!

I would imaging that TEASING is still requires alot of work form a girl. Teasing also takes time, who spends time with someone they aren't at least half way interested in..........

i think you have the answers already

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I gotta ask... why are you all up in their business?

I know you say you are over him, but maybe your vibe leads your friend to believe something else.

You and your friend are already in a double-dipping type situation so maybe she feels like she will keep the sorted details to herself especially since you can "relate and visualize". People often deny their romantic interests to mutual friends in hopes of preserving both of the relationships. Besides, your male friend isn't complaining about it. Why are you?

So, your question in this instance may not apply, but even so, I think there is a much more important question to ask yourself than to question the dynamics of two willing adults... why, oh why are you all up in those grown folks business?

For a free meal and movie ticket!

OP, your friend has deep emotional issues. She probably has no self esteem and feels bad about herself. If she really didn't like your friend, she wouldn't be doing this. She would just move on. She probably does like him, but is concerned with what others will say. Maybe because she doesn't think he's cute, she thinks people will make fun of her. And the fact that the outside can influence her personal decisions says that she's a follower and not a leader.

Also, if she's not physically attracted to him, why not keep him in the friend zone? If he's a good guy, keep him in the friend zone. She doesn't have to go out with him. And someone has probably done this to her as well. Any person that thinks it's fun to wound another person's spirit is a very emotionally disturbed individual. Maybe she was abused as a child. Because people who hurt others are probably screwed up themselves. Like the bully in school everyone was afraid of. The bully is actually the most insecure person in the whole school, which is why they will kill or be killed.

WTF. She has a boyfriend OP. Well, now I can't feel bad for your guy friend. Why is he even investing and putting energy into that situation? Have you tried talking with him? Ask him how he thinks it's going. And take it from there. If she has a man and he's still talking to her, then IMO, he's setting himself up to be played.

Not OP, but it's funny because I was in a situation like this but a little different. There was a guy who was playing with my emotions like OP's female friend. But he never violated me sexually and everytime we went out he paid. The funny thing is, I wasn't using him but I could have been because I wasn't violated. Eventually, I dropped him because I couldn't deal with his emotional screwiness. But he always paid, so I actually think he lost more.

I noticed alot of ugly females do this..cuz they dont get attention on the reg.

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True, that's why I don't fuck with women like that. We can be too damn catty.

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WOW you mad huh??

Women are teases

Ain't nothing to it

I am a total tease/flirt

I do it cause I can

There are guys I just see as friends and there are guys I really wanna be wit

Each one I'll tease till I feel like he is worthy of me dating him for a while

Don't hate the playa hate the game

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