Re: I usually dont post but theres some nfl wife beefing with khloe kardashians bff on twitter
Yeah the bff was fucking him.
There is a thread where this is discussed.
"Affection is only one ingredient of love. To truly love we must learn to mix various ingredients—care, affection, recognition, respect, commitment, and trust, as well as honest and open communication.
Most of us learn to think of love as a feeling. When we feel deeply drawn to someone, we cathect with them; that is, we invest feelings or emotion in them. That process of investment wherein a loved one becomes important to us is called “cathexis.” In his book M. Scott Peck rightly emphasizes that most of us “confuse cathecting with loving.” We all know how often individuals feeling connected to someone through the process of cathecting insist that they love the other person even if they are hurting or neglecting them. Since their feeling is that of cathexis, they insist what they feel is love.
When we understand love as the will to nurture our own and another’s spiritual growth, it becomes clear that we cannot claim to love if we are hurtful and abusive. Love and abuse can not coexist. Abuse and neglect are, by definition, the opposite of nurturance and care."
--bell hooks, all about love
She was going back and forth with a random girl who happened to have mentioned (and @'d) Malika and the relationship to the NFL player to the wife. She's not going back and forth with Malika per say because Malika hasn't even tweeted the whole day. She just has her @ name in the tweets because of the girl who she is arguing with.