The fan position:
I think that this is a horrible lesson for people to go off, to live with a man have babies with a man have unprotected sex with a man, buy him a car and use the Bible to justify what you are doing. A man gives you a Gucci purse and you spread your legs *Tiny* . If he loved you so much why won’t he marry you, why does he continue to sleep around??? Why do you allow him to have kids with other women if you truly want him *Toya* Why do you live with a man, have premarital sex, but wont marry him *Monica*


This illegitimacy that's going around is ruining black families everywhere and that is the reality, like [someone] said to me, to those who are given much more is required. These girls talk about how they want to be role models and how they want people to look up to them, but are they not aware of the negative example they are setting?? And once again why is this the examples kids are supposed to look up to. I would be so proud and happy if Diddy married Kim Porter, if Monica married Rocko, if Tiny married TI instead of playing house.


If you want to live a life of sin that’s fine, but don’t be upset when people judge you and if they do, don’t throw out bible versus to justify what you do or don'tt. Because people could easily turn the next page and find something demeaning to you and your lifestyle.

Monica's reply:
Someone just brought to my attention that u are conversing with me & posting it on your site. I wouldn't mind had u been as open about that as u are your opinions about the way that different celebrities live. I actually respected the fact that you had your own opinions and stood by them but using our convo with the holes that people will log in is NOT an option. If u want to know why I quote scriptures, it's because they are what I read to help me to grow. I am a role model, just not the type that pretends to be something she is not. Each day as I learn I share, the celebs who pretend they are without flaws I know and trust they are no better. These kids know when I speak now I speak from experience and can assist them in NOT making the same mistakes. We all take different paths. My journey isn't just for me. In order to get to you must go thru. So until our paths cross face2face be blessed. (Editors Note - Uh Oh, what is that supposed to mean??)What was read to me was degrading and unnecessary. Trust Charles, if I wanted to be married I would be, just like Halle Berry and many others this life was my choice. Hold no pity party for me. Don't stereotype or group me into categories. People didn't do it to Goldie Hawn or Madonna who had her first daughter on her own terms. I am very displeased that the label had to call and tell me it was up. I would have rather u told me & properly address my view. Don't group me with others because all of our situations differ.

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did they name the source for the "fan's position"? Sounds like a post from LSA....

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She's used Halle Berry for justification... and I just read the Tea thread....

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Where's the lie?

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and who is this who "put them on blast" and why should anyone of us give a random fuck about this person's opinion?

Black folks need to stop, just stop. Make sure your own house is in order. Work from WITHIN!

I ain't never heard Angelina Jolie or Halle Berry called a baby-mama.

They are worried about the wrong people.... Get on the soap box at your local walmart

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I'm tryna figure out whats goin on here...........

Why did she answer this person and where was this posted?

whatever. i was just reading an article on essence.com the other day about a woman who graduated from college, became a lawyer and got married to have her husband walk away after their first child was born. She tried to couple with her former childhood sweet heart, and he did the same thing, got her pregnant and left...

you have women out here married, yet still raising their children alone. some get no spousal support be it moral or financial.

there are some women, married, who cannot have kids.

at least these women sewed their seeds.... at the rate of family dysfunction, misogyny, infidelity, and divorce world wide... it seems that this is all a woman can hope for when it comes to starting a fam - at least someone is carrying on the bloodline and she has the opportunity to pass all the GOOD and LOVE she knows to the next generation. Someone will likely remember them, the person the world could never know, in future decades.

I wish people would quit calling women baby-mamas. they are women, they are mothers, they have children - they are humans, not objects. Life is a gift; a baby is not an object.

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Okay. Halle Berry is that random dude's babymama and Angelina Jolie is a homewrecking slut. Happy?! Personally they don't pay nan bill in my house so they can screw their way thru life with no remorse for all I care. Just keep posting this when you see it so I can have something entertaining to read at work.

Toya is wayne's ex wife.

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I really really don't like Monica.

ETA: She know she wanna marry that dude too. What's up with her low key threatening the person that wrote it? 9 times out of 10 when you spend that much time typing up a rebuttal you don't feel good about your situation. Why not keep it moving?

Uh I can't stand her!

People just got too much time on their hand if Monica and the rest want hunt and force their men into something lol, Let them lol Let them get a lesson learn.

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