Originally Posted by Ladyis

Dear Veman96054.....

WOW - I must say, you sure have a strong opinion about something you know nothing of? Don't you?? I mean, it is one thing to have an opinion, of course and you are entitled to it as anyone is.. BUT to mock someone and put them down about a situation that you don't have facts on is - extremely low class and downright uneducated behavior on your part!!

I have read your posts today and have tried hard to understand your mocking attitude of a very, very disgusting situation - are you even aware that this man admitted on a public blog his sick behavior and endangering all of these womens lives?? Perhaps, instead of Lenscrafters, I would like to suggest to you that perhaps you should not walk, but run to your nearest university or college, or perhaps local school and get some basic education yourself and learn to look at all facts before you spout your mouth off!

I am not mocking you. You are the one that is low class and educated.
You are the one that got played by the oldest game of the playa's. The church game. THe man is not attractive. And you said it was bad sex. So why did you stay. You lent, or gave him money. Why would you want a man that is bad in bed AND broke. I am trying to get you to stop blaming him for conning you. Learn from this and make sure you won't be conned again.

FIRST OFF -There are two types of women involved in this situation.. one type is the one that does follow creeps like this one around - despite knowing how ugly of a person he is inside - and that type mostly have nothing to show for their lives because of it. There is nothing wrong with that... that is their right and they most certainly are entitled to it! One of them is so dense that she can't seem to figure out how a Canadian girl was able to get naked pictures from a webcam of this man! So that tells you what that type is like- doesn't it?

THE SECOND type is, and there were many - the types that were worked on for months and months, and in some cases for years and years TO BE TRICKED INTO THE SITUATION with him- that is not being played, duh - it is called CONNING!! perhaps your lack of education missed that point?

You were conned. Who cares what type of woman you are. You are the type that got conned. What are you doing to keep it from happening to you again?

FURTHERMORE - I know of at least two of the women that had warned this man(if that is what you can call him), that- if he was playing with their heads (one told him a couple of times straight from the get-go) that he would be VERY VERY SORRY! So, he clearly knew what would happen to him if he continued his act -which he did!! Now, FACTS and reality point to the FACT that since he intentionally set out using lies-and that he was warned - HE CLEARLY ASKED FOR all that he is getting now and even more!!

Originally Posted by Ladyis

Also, a "musician" or "Entertainer" is no better or different than any other "person" on this planet that have skills, special skills, talent and/or gifts!! So you can throw that ridiculous leaning board of an excuse out the window.....
They are just as accountable for their actions as you or I! AND EVEN MORE SO if they are out in the front lines of our nations children as a so called "role model"! Puuuuuleeease!!! Absolutely disgusting - aren't role models supposed to have these things called morals, principles and values?? Perhaps, I don't know- am I wrong? maybe it was an accident and he was he born with none?

Never said they were not accountable. What I said is Musicians and Entertainers have lots of women throwing themselves at them. THey love to catch.

Musicians are not role models. They are people.

Expecting any other human being to have morals and values similar to yours maybe naive. He probably has them. Just not the same as yours. You have to make sure the men you are with share the same morals, values, and priniciple. That is how you get conned.


IN SHORT: this man needs to PAYBACK large monies owed NOW and get his head out of the sand -sorry, I mean "God's sand" he has stuck it in! Develop some decent RESPECT for women, stop trying to spin this into some stupid show & seriously grab some REAL professional help for his sex-soaked brain!! (not that i care whether he gets help or not- but it just might protect other nice ladies in the future) A good kick in the ass might be helpful too!

It does not take a rocket scientist to figure this all out... makes you wonder why he has not done any of this?? Logical and very valid question I would say.. and yes, I do know the FACTS...

Originally Posted by ithinkyourfunny

hummmm....pretty interesting, op then font who has "been" with him.

Originally Posted by Ladyis

Correct - the world is full of cons... now, finally, you got a fact -thank you!

There was no opportunity to be taken! There was a scam - that, for sure, was taken!! There are many more than ("both" of their faults) involved here - again and again you are without facts....you seem to have no idea of the seriousness of and the amount of lies that this man said over and over and over and over again with nothing but EXTREME hard work and ill intent from him!! Get it yet?

I never said "I" gave him money? A few did though...so, not sure anymore of who you are even trying to address here because of your psycho-babble. You keep on responding to my posts with comments that I have not even said LOL

Yes, musicians are people but they are also role models to other people, ESPECIALLY young adults who look up to them - and even more so when they are involved with churches.... AND ONE MORE TIME for you, since you don't seem to digest much - he was warned severely in the beginning what would happen to him if he was lying/conning - this was made extremely CLEAR to him, more than once at the beginning as a precaution.... did you miss that fact? Therefore, he ASKED for what he is getting!

I and several others HAVE "learned" our lesson that even a so called accomplished, supposedly respectful and religious man can be such a sneaky, twisted and sick con artist... so no need to tell myself or any of the other women involved that again... but, thanks anyways... kindly stop tripping about the "learn part" - thank you

Now, I have no more interest in this topic with you since you haven't gotten the facts at all! I wish you all the very best and thank you for your opinion anyway....

Originally Posted by one2many

I was one of those women and yes he promised a lot, to include marriage. It was a head game you would never believe. The best way to describe this man would be "con". He took many things from women, outside of sex, to include money. Actually, sex with him was fair to poor. He had relationships with women for years! These were not random "booty calls" or backstage "groupie sex". Many of us had never heard of the group, Take 6 when he aggressively pursued us. He actually became very jealous when he thought I was not taking our relationship seriously or he suspected me of cheating. He always portrayed himself as a Christian man with high morales. He made sure we prayed together before every meal etc. I never really thought of this man as an entertainer, funny huh? He was a man sharing his gift received from God. He stated that singing was part of his ministry. Not your typical "rock star". We had wholesome fun: he was my best friend. He had a personal relationship with the children of these women as well. Because of our friendship, I thought the sex in our relationship would improve over time. It didn't seem to be that important. I now realize that a man with extreme narcissism would not be concerned with the pleasure of anyone besides himself. It all makes sense. There were many times the thought of him being "GAY" crossed my mind. I have to be honest.....I still haven't dismissed the idea. Someone who HATES women so much to deliberately pursue them with ill-intent (to actually endanger their lives and financial status) must love only himself or men. Maybe he was trying to convince himself he was straight by surrounding himself with multiple women. We all know what his church's position is on homosexuals. Marvin was put out of the group for that reason. You never know. Take 6 would be better labeled "Take 666". When I now think of Claude Mcknight, the only word that comes to mind is "evil".

Originally Posted by Alwys12

Marvin or Mervyn?