It is girl very frustrating I can't take this roller coaster marriage, yup he dumps everything on me he don't know how to work as a team. And compromise. He is selfish, it all about him, his favorite word is I.. I told in a marriage it not about you anymore!! He seem not to get it. I can't reason with him anymore. We been married almost 3 years on his birthday. I was his birthday present I'm thinking about taking his present back by delivering divorce papers on his birthday!!! I don't h ave the tolerant anymore either. It funny cuz a lot of people think I be making stuff up about my husband cuz one minute we are good the next day we are bad it like a roller coaster marriage. Other girls on here said the samething dealing with a Taurus guy!! Then he is a Pisces on top of that I had bad experience with pisces they are liars!! Secretive, mysterious and sneaky!!!
From what he told me his father is a selfish jerk didn't treat his mother right and get this he resent his father for the way he treats is mom but he is doing me the sameway!!! He think because he is not an alcoholic, and cheat like his father that he isn't like his dad! Bullcrap cuz his father drunk up all his money while his mother having babies left and right and she had to work to take care of the household his momma still with his no old daddy so no to the father figure. My dad tried to talk to him, but he never listens to nobody even pastor tried he is very hard headed. So my dad can't stand him anymore it sad he told me I need to divorce him. What make matters worst he live with other Jamaican men and they are so childish, drunks, wild and they aren't going to talk some sense into him. He has this one friend that work real hard, married, him and his wife got a beautiful house, nice trucks and cars. My husband and I admire them, I told him he should be more like him.. He don't hear me though. I tried to tell his friend about my husband mess and my husband snatched me away and told me to shut my big mouth up,. He don't want the help he think he knows what best, when I serve those papers he is oing to wish he had listen..

Thank you and u are right about him and I will walk away from it. Again thank.

I so agree. I am married to a Taurus, who I dated since we were teens. It took him a while to come around but it was worth the wait. While still stubborn, he is the most selfless, level-headed, and romantic man I have ever known. The great thing about his stubbornness is that, once he made up his mind that he wanted a life and family with me, his love and commitment never wavered.

Lovegossip dont divorce just yet.

Without knowing him, this is what i know about Capricorns. We have a real issue with needing to feel and be responsible for everything, and we end up driving ourselves crazy. He probably dumps it all on you because of that inner need of yours to take responsibility and be in control. A need for control in itself is a lack of compromise. You probably wont admit it, but I bet you are stubborn yourself and prefer things YOUR way. A Taurus will do nothing but mirror a Cap, which is or can be the most frustrating part.

I can tell by all your posts on him that he takes up a lot of your time and energy. What do you think made him fall in love with you in the first place? Probably you not needing him and being your own women? Develop more hobbies, more interests...develop yourself /mind outside of him while in the marriage. Give more responsibilities to him and if he doesn't take care of it then dont let everything fall on you anymore. Get back to your old self. Do that for a few months and see how it feels for YOU to not be occupied mentally with him. Just do some inner work and you might discover him coming around or you might discover you dont need him.

If you just feel different about things then seperate before divorcing. I just think too much energy is spent on someone thats not worth it as of now. You sound predictable and slightly bitter and Im sure thats not who you were before him. Dont let him do that to you or stop you from progressing forward by trying to force him on the same page with you. If he is not ready, he's just not ready but thats not your responsibility.

Hi sorry taking long to respond, but why did say I sound predictable? Ur spot on about capricorns.. And that Taurus men mirror caps that is soooo truuueee!! He does everything I do..it crazy and frustrating it like we changed places.

I said you sound predictable because you've been complaining about him for a very long time now. Im sure he knows you inside out...your arguments, what makes you tick, what makes you smile, exactly how you are going to react to him doing x, y, z etc. You gotta switch it up on him by taking some you time, and be 100% focused or he will know you are doing it for a reaction.

If he mirrors, then you are looking at part of your reflection. Change somethings within, and see how it goes from there.

Thank you! That's how the Taurus guy was who I dated. He treated outsiders better than he did me. Oh...let's not forget, he treated his "play sister" better. That's not even your real sister though.

I have never dated a Taurus man but have always wanted to. I love Earth sign men.

But they don't love me

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OMG I've been following this thread and it's like someone is looking into my life. I'm a Capricorn and my mate is a Taurus....

Omg this is exactly how my ex was lol! He would always treat others (friends he had met on youtube and older ladies) better than me. Not to mention that he was never willing to compromise, only when he had something to win from it.

I'm also a Capricorn and my ex was a Taurus, and seriously be aware of the manipulation. They are really great when you're alone with them, but it seems to me they have double personalities. I still love him tho, but it seems they are hot and cold almost all the time.

My ex and current best friend is kind, caring, calm, loving and very grounded...now. When we dated he was arrogant, rude, and impulsive, it took time for him to grow into the person he is today. They are complete romantics and wear their hearts on their sleeves when they realize you're the one they want.

But he's still stubborn and hard headed, I think Taurus' need to learn lessons by falling on their ass, and even then they might still not get it. They're also boring and complete homebodies, the men can be a bit controlling and jealous when they care for you. If they don't care for you, you will know it. I"m a libra btw.