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Kenyan: Swingers Busted! (another one)
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She shouldn't have done it in the first place and he is a complete asshole to want both women. I hate how he tried to blame her for his bullshit. Sadly I think she probably stayed with him.
This is a great lesson for people who think they can just detach emotions from sex. It takes a certian type. The Dr call up was slick but both were wrong from the start. SMH
What Big Red said was that it takes a certain type. Not that it couldn't be done. It really depends on the person as to whether they can ignore emotions and the like. Kind of hard at times.
Wow, hubby was like.."no, you're my wife and I will be with you and Sara!". He was not playing. Swinging backfired on both of them. I see hubby was pissed at her sleeping with a man but it was OK for him to sleep with the other chick and continue a full relationship. Men can't handle when the woman does it. Double standard at its best.
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Re: Kenyan: Swingers Busted! (another one)
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Wow, hubby was like.."no, you're my wife and I will be with you and Sara!". He was not playing. Swinging backfired on both of them. I see hubby was pissed at her sleeping with a man but it was OK for him to sleep with the other chick and continue a full relationship. Men can't handle when the woman does it. Double standard at its best.
What Big Red said was that it takes a certain type. Not that it couldn't be done. It really depends on the person as to whether they can ignore emotions and the like. Kind of hard at times.
A lot of people get involved with stuff there not ready for. I have seen Male and female catching feelings when it was suppose to be all good.
The way I see this scenerio is it was suppose to be a cool experiment \ fantasy. But really it gave dude a green light to do what he wanted to do.
She caught feelings when she found out dude was creeping and he catch some kind of feelings because after 2 months he didn't want to give it up.
I think the whole (you slept with somebody) gave him an out because if he was only dude there swinging and the wife didn't participate he still would have been creeping with her.
You would think after there session they would be able to talk about anything with each other. They had problems before they opened up this Powder Keg.
that whole going to her parents thing must be some cultural thing. my mama & daddy could both lick my asshole if they thought they were going to admonish me for what I did with my husband ....
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Re: Kenyan: Swingers Busted! (another one)
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Originally Posted by Big Red
A lot of people get involved with stuff there not ready for. I have seen Male and female catching feelings when it was suppose to be all good.
The way I see this scenerio is it was suppose to be a cool experiment \ fantasy. But really it gave dude a green light to do what he wanted to do.
She caught feelings when she found out dude was creeping and he catch some kind of feelings because after 2 months he didn't want to give it up.
I think the whole (you slept with somebody) gave him an out because if he was only dude there swinging and the wife didn't participate he still would have been creeping with her.
You would think after there session they would be able to talk about anything with each other. They had problems before they opened up this Powder Keg.
What?!? He doesn't have an out. They both agreed to ONE swing session. He continued his. She did not. He was wrong for the continuation. Had they both decided to continue the swinging okay but he took it upon himself to do him. That's wrong on his part.
He should have been honest with her. Maybe she wanted to continue her ish too but him being a man couldn't take it but expects her to take his ish...
If he had an issue with her getting it in with another man he should have said so and not wait until his ish is on front street and try to flip it and blame her. He is lame as shit.
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What?!? He doesn't have an out. They both agreed to ONE swing session. He continued his. She did not. He was wrong for the continuation. Had they both decided to continue the swinging okay but he took it upon himself to do him. That's wrong on his part.
He should have been honest with her. Maybe she wanted to continue her ish too but him being a man couldn't take it but expects her to take his ish...
If he had an issue with her getting it in with another man he should have said so and not wait until his ish is on front street an try to flip it and blame her. He is lame as shit.
I think what the poster was saying is that dude used the fact that she slept with another man once as justification for his 2 month relationship with Sarah. Then he threatened to "tell her parents" about the infidelity if she didn't comply with his demands of carrying on with his mistress. Obviously, this man is controlling and manipulative but from the way his wife responded to him she probably ended up allowing to keep cheating with Sarah.
Personally, I just don't understand swinging at all. Why get married when you can just remain single and have all the fun you want? Logically it makes no sense to me but some people love these crazy type of marriages.
personally i'd rather for a couple to be swingers......than to sneak and cheat...........some times people find other people attractive & want to have sex with them but thats it............people do it all the time who are not in a relationship and some of them dnt get EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED............ i mean its not really my thing.............bu t while some of yall judgin......they could be some of the most happiest couples
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