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Why don't black girls that act white like black men?
Originally Posted by Zonshon
How do you act Black? How do you act White? A person is going to be whatever way they're wanting to be, it stems from the
Re: Why don't black girls that act white like black men?
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Originally Posted by Zonshon
How do you act Black? How do you act White? A person is going to be whatever way they're wanting to be, it stems from the way you're raised growing up at home. IMHO
Stop acting like you don't know. When some one says your acting white you know what image pops into your head, same with acting black. Its a stereotype but thats how people think.
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Originally Posted by Kamala
We already have posters trying to pass the buck on this topic - "What is acting 'white?'"
Far too many Black women can call Black men out for their transgressions and shortcomings but when the shoe is on the other foot many (not all!!) Black women have an extraordinary ability to avoid responsibility for their transgressions and shortcomings. If you don't believe me just watch these posts.
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Originally Posted by DREssence4u
well she does look like she is trying extra hard to fit in, so we will see
Not fit in, I want to see if she dates and even becomes attracted to any men on that island. Shes surrounded by them, so lets see if she gives them a chance.
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Originally Posted by Samurai_senti
Finally a real response. But most of those white black girls I've met won't even say that they don't date black men cause there aren't any good ones out there, that would mean that there is even the slightest chance that they would date a black man. Most of them will say straight up that they won't date anything but white guys and that they're not attracted to anything else.
I remember reading a story about one of those white black girls that went to a predominantly white school, she was setup on a date by her white girlfriend with a white black guy. Now this was a Lenny Kravitz type black guy, he liked rock music, surfer talk, ect. She didn't even give him the time of day, she spent the whole article complaining that her white girlfriend set her up with a black guy. She was angry because she was setup with one of the other few black people in the school. She was bitching about being sterotyped, and how people expecting her to act a certain way or be attracted to certain people, she was set up with a black guy and acted like it was the end of the world.
Wow!! Well, a Black woman can say this kind of BS and not face nearly the criticism as a Black man would face and that's unfair. These Black women have serious self-hate issues and they aren't worth your time however there are some seriously fine "Black Beckys" so it can be a little frustrating.
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Originally Posted by Samurai_senti
Stop acting like you don't know. When some one says your acting white you know what image pops into your head, same with acting black. Its a stereotype but thats how people think.
Maybe it's not that Black women who act White don't date Black men, maybe they just don't date YOU or those clowns on College Hill, which by the way, is an embarassment of a show and an insult to higher education. I don't know of this girl from the new season, but I can tell you that I have been accused of acting White my whole life. First of all, Black people need to get rid of the mentality that placing value on education, keeping your finances in order, speaking proper English and wanting to be upwardly mobile is "acting White." But I digress. As one of the women of the personality type to which you refer to, I can assure you that I only date Black men. Black men are the only men to whom I have a physical attraction. Period. When I have children, I want them to be born to two intelligent, married and successful Black parents who are focused on giving them a strong family life, because that is what is sorely needed in our community. So it's not that those type of women don't exist. Maybe you're just looking in the wrong places. Oh, my bad. You're not looking for us at all. Your dislike of Black women is glaring, in my opinion.
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Originally Posted by BBFan
Because they see through your bullshit.
The question would be why SHOULD you have a chance with them.
C'mon!! That's totally unfair to say. Samurai should have a chance with this type of woman like white guys have with them. It's only fair right? I mean Black women claim Black men as theirs all the time. "Why are our rich brothers always running behind a white woman?" Sound familiar. Therefore, a Black man can claim Black women too.
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Originally Posted by Kamala
Wow!! Well, a Black woman can say this kind of BS and not face nearly the criticism as a Black man would face and that's unfair. These Black women have serious self-hate issues and they aren't worth your time however there are some seriously fine "Black Beckys" so it can be a little frustrating.
Thats what I'm saying. Like Traci Bingham, Aisha Tyler, Zoe Saladana, Keri Washington, ect. They get away with it all the time.
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Originally Posted by Kamala
C'mon!! That's totally unfair to say. Samurai should have a chance with this type of woman like white guys have with them. It's only fair right? I mean Black women claim Black men as theirs all the time. "Why are our rich brothers always running behind a white woman?" Sound familiar. Therefore, a Black man can claim Black women too.
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Originally Posted by Kamala
C'mon!! That's totally unfair to say. Samurai should have a chance with this type of woman like white guys have with them. It's only fair right? I mean Black women claim Black men as theirs all the time. "Why are our rich brothers always running behind a white woman?" Sound familiar. Therefore, a Black man can claim Black women too.
He should get a chance with them just on the bases that he's black even though there's absolutely nothing positive about him? It's not like these black beckys are dating no good white men, so why should they date a no good black man that hates black women?