LOL @ a worldwide survey, this is a kin to the ever hilarious = "Well have you met EVERY woman in the world to make that determination?"


It's a question that doesn't beg an answer because of it's impossible requirement. Does a human being need to meet EVERY pitbull in the world to make a determination that they are fierce animals? Do they need to go to EVERY ghetto in the U.S.A. to make a statement that the hood is dangerous at night? Do they need to go to every McDonald's restaurant say that they find Big Macs disgusting? I could go on and on but I'm sure you see my point..


I'm using common sense from life experience....yall are talking some somewhere over the rainbow type shit while I'm dealing in reality.

Hello there Sunshine. The question is, the same emotional expression as a woman. Yall are tap dancing.


If your man cries during an argument, do you lose respect for him DiamondChic? Of course you do.


*waits for them ALL to say men are free to cry, compliment men and act just like women do without them thinking less of him because it would defeat their initial argument*

ROFL @ the extreme cirumstances, how the fuck is a life threatening tour in Iraq a trip my G?


I peep your game fam lol... so let's keep it simple. Are you good with a man being as emotionally expressive as a woman?

No men aren t meant to be as emotional as women..they are meant to be more logical......
....which is one of the issues going on with todays boys being raised by single mothers....

A lot of them think and express themselves in an emotional instead of logical manner.....

yeah yeah..whatever..no i don't get your point..cause those statements you provided are also generalizing or going by the majority(with the exception of the hood lol)...unless another person researched and came to that conclusion... if you meant the majority....just say that..like it or not..and it might seem absurd to you..but yes.. you must conduct a worldwide survey if you're going to speak for every woman walking this earth..cause of course you know there are some women that don't feel that way..and the hood is dangerous at night??..lmao...duh. .the world is dangerous at night period

obviously you weren't using common sense..common sense is something you're born with.....it is not taught through life experiences.. common sense would of told you..men can be whores also..or lack morals..either you have it or you don't my friend......you were however using the views of your upbringing and environment

what exactly is "somewhere over the rainbow type shit lol"..what's wrong with trying to enlighten your mind instead of darkening it with ignorance...you think thats some unobtainable feat..some silly suggestion...why do people make excuses to justify their way of thinking?..when they know they can better themselves mentally?...can you answer that??

According to whom? We've all grown up with gender roles and all of our behavior is learned behavior. From story books, fairy tales, cartoons, television, kid's toys, Hollywood, school, etc etc etc



The issue going on with young boys has nothing to do with logic or emotion, but rather having no direct male role model to pattern himself after. A fatherless child could lean toward logical or emotional, but with or without a father he learns from various sources that he has to suppress his emotions more than a woman does. Which is why when it comes to natural causes deaths we men live a shorter life than females do.



So you definitely adhere to that double standard my homie.

No bruh....its actually biological...females have a deeper limbic system in their brain...the limbic system is the part that deals with memory and emotions....with structures such as the hippocampus and the amygdala....

The female amygdala is bigger than the males....meaning that she can sense, feel and handle her emotions better than a man....she can sense emotion better from facial expressions than a man can.....

from this website: Medical Education Online - Male/Female Brain Differences

So she is more wired to think and master emotions better than the male...

ROFL @ the 800 pound Gorilla in the room & Suni up here acting like it doesn't exist.


"Whatever do you mean Akeem? Women don't want men who are as emotional as women?...oh well I beg to differ my good man. In fact, you'd need a world wide survey to say such a rash and bold statement. Shame on you & your limited, unenlightened thinking."



LINK for my homegirl Suni: Q & A For LSA Ladies: (Read Carefully Thnx)

did you or did you not state this in reference to caramelcutie post..

so what the hell are you talking about i said you had to conduct a worldwide survey to prove women don't want emotional men??..i actually agreed with you on that and said that the average woman doesn't share my beliefs..

i was talking about speaking on behalf of every woman believing men can't be hos but players..which is incredibly foolish..cause i'm sure some if not more women have better sound judgement then that

i think your trying so hard to win the argument cause of your ego..you don't even know what the hell your talking about anymore..or getting information mixed up..or twisting words around on purpose..i don't know what your problem is ..and ugh i don't think i type that uppity lol..even though i type/talk kind of silly when i'm in a playful mood

can you please answer my question in the other post at the bottom...honestly please..i answered yours ...lol

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he knows he was wrong the frist time around..now he's just trying to derail the topic at hand to save his pride..he lacks intelligence,common sense,and is an incredibly boring human being with everyday societal views..i can tell that..just by his posts..he's educated enough..but he lacks intelligence..which is a huge difference..and is extremely ignorant and arrogant..and i haven't even fonted with him that long..lmao

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No, I think i you don't get it...but I think we're arguing two different points and you're simply going on "it doesn't matter what society says"; So you're going to tell me that both men and women are both seen equally when engaged in "promiscuous" behavior? My point was that a man being a "hoe" doesn't carry the negative stigma that it does for a woman(even though it probably doesn't stop a lot of people). I never said it was just or "right" or perhapes "logical".

Second paragraph=same ish