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How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Partner?

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03-07-2013, 12:00 AM   #61 (permalink)
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03-07-2013, 12:12 AM   #62 (permalink)
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Old Re: How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Part
only if it's an extreme emergency and he's in the shower with the curtain pulled....
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03-07-2013, 12:16 AM   #63 (permalink)
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Old Re: How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Part
btw we been married 12 yrs ... he still jumps to cover if he is in the bathroom and i dont realize it and open the door. we shut/lock the door but sometimes it doesnt shut the whole way.

and that whole passing wind thing is done in private unless it is an accident...
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03-07-2013, 12:24 AM   #64 (permalink)
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Old Re: How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Part
Peeing is fine but pooping? No way. Never.

I remember being at my BF's hotel when he was visiting me and I had eaten something that had my stomach on FIRE. I made up some excuse and went to use the bathroom down the street at Target and then came back.
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03-07-2013, 01:00 AM   #65 (permalink)
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Old Re: How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Part
When me and my ex were living together, it was only a matter of time before we saw each other using the restroom. We only had one bathroom in our apartment and I didn't mind if while I was in there doing my hair if he needed to come in and pee. And vice versa. I mean dang if you can have sex with a person, what's so weird about seeing them pee. Lol. Now #2 on the other hand is a bit different of course because of the smell involved. So that was a no no. Lol.


 
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03-07-2013, 01:14 AM   #66 (permalink)
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Old Re: How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Part
Y'all some real dumb cunts...he can "shoot the club up" (ejaculate all in your cervix) but he can't pass by you taking a piss or a dump?

And y'all wonder why they leave or cheat...simple minded bitches.


To answer the question: if we are co-habitating its a done deal. Not intentional but hell, assuming there is only one bathroom what can you do if you are in there at the same time?


Like one showering or at the sink and the other has to go?!


Jeez. The polite thing is to use the guest toilet when he is awake but if he only has one toilet...oh well.
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03-07-2013, 08:14 AM   #67 (permalink)
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The bathroom at his place is right next to this bedroom. You can hear everything. When we first started dating, he used to bring his phone in the bathroom to play music. Trying to mask the sounds of him dropping off kids at the pool. I thought that shit was sooooo funny.
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03-07-2013, 01:14 PM   #68 (permalink)
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Old Re: How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Part
Nope, nada, nyet and NO.

I won't ever walk into the bathroom while my husband is using the toilet. There are just some things that should be private and that is one of them.

We usually leave the door open if we're in the shower, However, if the door is closed, we knock first.

Ain't nothing sexy to me about taking a shit in front of one another.


 
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03-07-2013, 06:02 PM   #69 (permalink)
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Old Re: How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Part
If you take a dump in front of someone you are nasty as fuck and probably don't know the meaning of the word "boundaries"

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Old Re: How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Part
Depends on the guy. If I'm really comfortable with that guy I do within days or a week. I was in a relationship with a guy that would come in the bathroom and talk to me while I was doing #2 but I had to ask him to leave because I couldn't concentrate.
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There's something about him licking and sucking me from front to back and back to front that does not fit in with him seeing me sitting on the toilet excreting waste from my front and my back. If I'm in the shower or tub, fine. If I'm sitting -- he does not see that because I can't, I just can't.
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If you take a dump in front of someone you are nasty as fuck and probably don't know the meaning of the word "boundaries"

Its disrespectful.
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Old Re: How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Part
I think it really depends on the couple. I think after a couple of years you STILL can't go to the bathroom near them, that's a sign you guys aren't really that comfortable around each other.
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03-10-2013, 07:12 AM   #74 (permalink)
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Old Re: How Long Into a Relationship would you feel comfortable Using the bathroom in front of Your Part
In front of him? Without being sick or something? I hope I never get that comfortable. Especially not while doing #2 . I dont want to smell him and I'm sure he doesn't want to smell me-lol.


 
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The most embarrassing was after I had our child and he needed to help me use the bathroom because my legs were still numb from the meds. He had to help me walk to the bathroom and get me on get on seat... he saw everything but after seeing me push a baby out.. Who cares really at that point.


 
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