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HUSBAND/WIFE making sexual jokes with friend of opposite sex, joking or CHEATING?

Would YOU be mad if you FOUND OUT your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife makes sexual jokes with a friend/acquaintance of the OPPOSITE SEX? YOU know s/he's not cheating(having sex) with that friend but


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I'd be HEATED/sad because that means something is going on or will go down! 7 58.33%
I would be fine with it...I trust my lover so I wouldn't even worry about it! 2 16.67%
I'd end the relationship because making sex jokes to me is cheating! 3 25.00%
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04-14-2012, 05:40 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Would YOU be mad if you FOUND OUT your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife makes sexual jokes with a friend/acquaintance of the OPPOSITE SEX?

YOU know s/he's not cheating(having sex) with that friend but would you still be mad if they made sexual jokes with each other? Or would you consider it no big deal since they are just joking?

Or do you believe flirting is going on under the guise of "joking?"

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04-14-2012, 05:43 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Umm...well. *sits* . My husband better not be in my presence doing that.


 
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04-14-2012, 05:44 PM   #3 (permalink)
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04-14-2012, 05:45 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Certain lines should not be crossed. Even if they are innocent friends, there should be some respect.


 
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04-14-2012, 05:45 PM   #5 (permalink)
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04-14-2012, 05:45 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Old Re: HUSBAND/WIFE making sexual jokes with friend of opposite sex, joking or CHEATING?
This is more about respect than cheating.


 
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04-14-2012, 05:50 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Old Re: HUSBAND/WIFE making sexual jokes with friend of opposite sex, joking or CHEATING?
Its funny cause I actually caught my bf doing this. He said they were just "joking" but i was like, still thats disrespectful!! I wouldnt consider it cheating, but yeah its definitely disrespectful to your SO
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Old Re: HUSBAND/WIFE making sexual jokes with friend of opposite sex, joking or CHEATING?
It sounds like crossing the lines of respect if anything. I would not be ok with the one I love doing that. Especially if he does not do it with me. It is not ok
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I hope he has enough respect for me not to do it, and let's just say if my S/O ever did that in front of me i would not take it kindly. I wouldnt say its cheating but damn disrespectful.
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Its funny cause I actually caught my bf doing this. He said they were just "joking" but i was like, still thats disrespectful!! I wouldnt consider it cheating, but yeah its definitely disrespectful to your SO

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Old Re: HUSBAND/WIFE making sexual jokes with friend of opposite sex, joking or CHEATING?
It's disrespectful to your partner to cross that line. Also, sometimes one thing leads to another. Who hasn't been in the position where an attractive person tries to flirt w you, even knowing you're taken? That's the test right there, that's your chance to know how much you respect your relationship, and your partner. If you even think about crossing that line, maybe it's time to rethink your relationship. JMO


 
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Old Re: HUSBAND/WIFE making sexual jokes with friend of opposite sex, joking or CHEATING?
It's disrespectful and inappropriate. Those types of conversations lead to other things. My guys wouldn't like it if one of his friends and I were hamming it up and making sly comments (jokes) to one another, so I expect the same courtesy.


 
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It's just flat out disrespectful.


 
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