If a man loves you, you'll be his pride.
If a man loves you, you won't have to ask.
If a man loves you, you can hurt him and get away with it.

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I love that a man contributed to the thread

More men please

Thanks Boo

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If it's meant to be he will come around!

If a man really loves you, he:

• will let you wipe your nose on his sleeve (true story, we were out partying one NYE waiting for the peach to drop in GA and I wasn't near a bathroom and didn't have a tissue on me; I told him my nose was running and he told me that I could wipe my nose with his sleeve for the time being, that he'd just clean it off when we both could get to the rest room, LOL)
• throw his arm across you as he breaks in traffic (my mom used to do that and it's kind of cool that DH does too!)

Y'all have already said a lot of stuff I wanted to say.

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If he doesnt have enough that day, he'll sip water while he orders you a full platter..
He'll always make time for you, whatever you need he'll be there in an instant..
He'll tolerate your friends..
He'll want to know where you are and with whom, doing what, if youre away..
He'll prefer your company than just screwing you, he will wait for as long as it takes..
He will not be harsh with you, or lose patience with you..

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Originally Posted by Nicole If a man truly loves you, you'll know! There is no logic or reasoning. You will feel it in your heart....

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Originally Posted by PhoenixRising87 When a man truly loves you, he'll show you more than he can tell you.

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Originally Posted by Michonne ...throw his arm across you as he breaks in traffic

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Originally Posted by Oracle If a man truly loves you, you see that 'look' in his eyes...You know that look. Like he's totally enamoured with you....I've always been able to recognize this look. It's in theeyes of a man deep in love. It says : "I'm Vulnerable, I'm in love withyou, ". Can't really explain it.

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Originally Posted by Oracle I just realized I don't think I'mthe only one who knows this look.... Remember cartoons? when a character was inlove and they would show hearts in their eyes? That's real! It's that look in a person's eyes that says: "I'm dumb for you"!... Damn I miss my ex, I really fugged up...OOOOOOHHHHH Well. Carry on!

ALLA THESE POSTS - especially the one in red!! I JUST met someone and he has demonstrated ALLA these things to me and so much more! He's a perfect gentleman, he's TOTALLY into me. He lets me rant and rave and he just listens. There's not a day that goes by that he doesn't contact me (probably because he hasn't gotten any cooch yet! ). He makes me want to be a better person because he's so sweet and I don't want him to be disappointed in me. He has grown kids outta college and I told him I wanted children and he didn't even FLINCH! So far he's EVERYTHING that I've been asking and praying on. We'll see....
Oracle, if your ex is meant for you, he'll find his way back...

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you are TRIFLIN!!!!!!!!!! idgaf if im with a man for a decade, you still gotta keep it cute! EW!!

I told him to leave because I couldn't concentrate with him in there but he kept talking.

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This thread is a perfect example of the female view of the "world as they want it to be, and not how it is." It's laden with hypocrisy, embellishments, and out-and-out mendacity. The coldest part about it is, "nare" one of this chicks would to do this for a dude and if some naive muthafucka did this "power simpin," he'd would used, abused, and cast to the side, and I say this from experience. To illustrate Rex's point, let's go into the LSA Achieves and see what woman had to say when the roles were reversed. [/B]


LSA, should your boyfriend give you financial support if you struggling?

StayFabuluss -Damn, he makes good money why can't he help that woman out in need? Damb, he stingy.

:Axel:-I would say yes he should want to help..he shouldnt be forced tho. I mean she seems like she is trying to get her shit together, she doesnt seem to be with him just for the money and he can afford it so why not help her out. I kinda feel like if your boyfriend doesnt want to then you guys arent really that serious. What kind of man wants his girl be struggling if he's balling..that just doesnt make any sense. I'm the independent type that definitely would not ask for any help from my man and would probably turn down the first couple offers of help but my bf would def get a major sideeye from me if he could afford to help me out and doesnt.

.RxQueen-Are you not getting the goodies as well?

So how does this work in your eyes?

Man gives sex, gets sex

Woman gives sex, gets money and sex

marsbar33-I'm just saying. Im not talking about prostitution.If you are in a committed relationship, having sex...he should be able to help you out in your time of need. Isn't that apart of being with someone? As a woman, you shouldn't sell yourself short either.

In the OP, he helped her get a car..but I think the real problem is he just dosen't see her as a true partner, and dosent want to give her any money. She is a girlfriend, not "The Girlfriend" to him

Fool In Love-I'm sorry but she needs to DROP HIM! He loaned her the money....this is indicative of future behavior. He ain't no catch...he ain't inclined to help you when your his girlfriend means he'd feel the same way as a fiance and wife. EVERY person you date for a long period of time has to be looked at as someone you could marry in the future. The writing is on the wall...especially this man is scorned from his previous marriage....signs are already there that he wouldn't do shit for you. So your girlfriend has to pay you back....girl drop him! Groan if you want to but I'll put money on it that he's black!

Pin number to his ATM?

HELL-TO-THE-NO. That n... had a shit fetish.

If you act as such, you will be called such.

No, menstrual cycles are nasty as fuck. Please stay home when you're bleeding from the snatch.



Depends on the severity of flaw.

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If a man truly loves you, he will defend you to anyone necessary, mama included.

This is a b.... move if your people (especially your mama is trying to put you up on game about a broad, n..... need to take heed. Most of the time your people have your best interests at heart, while that b.... is looking for an ego boost.

If a man truly loves you, he will be honest with you when you are being your own worst enemy.[/QUOTE]

[quote=LuvMJ1978;1158 4714]He's consistent with his words and actions.

Fuck out of here. This implies you're greater than Rex, and we all know that no female is greater than Rex.

This is just fucking nasty. Rex is going to let his clothing became germ and bacteria ridden because you feel your clothing is more important than mine. Shit is disgusting, wiping your nose on a n.... sleeve as it were a snot rag, nasty. That want you hand is for dear.


Rex has three main hobbies, collecting comics books, smoking cigars, and watching porn. I'll focus on comics because it's the one I've been doing the longest and the one that's the closest and dearest to my heart.

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That's your boy with Todd McFarlane. Todd McFarlane is the guy who drew the poster I'm holding and that comic book, by the way, McFarlane also created Spawn. Anyway, in order for me to get these two pieces signed, I had to buy on vastly overpriced sketch book and stand on line for three hours. These are some of the lengths I go through for my hobby that's been a part of my life for nearly thirty years.

Unless I'm hella bored, I don't see myself doing anything with a chick for three hours that doesn't ultimately end in sex or a her cooking. A woman can never be Rex's hobby, because she can never be that important me.

A job has a specific purpose in Rex's life, that is to provide me with the funds necessary to pay bills and do the things I enjoy doing. Unless you're hoing for Rex, caring for you WILL NEVER BE A JOB!

One morning my Boo Boo woke up and she wanted some orange cup cakes, being that the store was only two short blocks away from the house, your boy was like, "Fuck it. I'll go get the cupcakes." There was another occasion where she wanted she wanted some cereal, so I went to the kitchen and got her some cereal, then the kicker was when I drew her bath only to have yell at me when I woke her up. One day she was talking to my boy D. D asked her, how things were going with us and she said, "Everything was cool between us, but he's TOO NICE TO ME, AND HE DOESN'T HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING I SAY." Needless to say Rex was perplexed, upset, annoyed, and a little sadden by this response. Boo Boo never asked of anything that was outside of the realm of reason and I thought it was my DUTY to do those things. Needless to say, at that point her life, my Boo Boo wasn't completely appreciative of the things I did. The lesson learned was don't give hundred percent, always hold something back and a little resistance. Now matter how much she loves you where you just met her or you're been married for twenty-five, thirty, thirty-five, forty plus years, you have to keep them on their toes and make these hoes work.

Girl, please. That's doing waaay too much. A woman can only compliment Rex's life, not complete it. Dudes who feel like this as Latinos who get hella offended when the broad call herself not wanting to be with dude anymore; then potna, (not being able to deal with the rejection,) proceed to kill her, her mama, her daddy, the kids, then self. Loving a woman can never be Rex's life because Rex has over things going on in his life. A woman's love is fleeting and she can decide to leave you at moment. That moment might come in week, a month, a year, or after some decades, but never think it can't happen.

In the year plus I've been on this site, this has to be the most "simperific," thread I've ever seen. Just when I think women can't pull anymore bullshit out of their ass, they go an do it. Fascinating.

Scratch your dandruff.

~Kycks

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I can't do the number 2 with anyone around, husband or not.

Interesting. About a month after we first started dating, my husband (to be) was on the phone with his sister as we were riding in the car. They were talking in Spanish, so I didn't know what they were saying. At a certain point he paused in conversation, turned to me, and handed me the phone. He stage-whispered to me in English that he'd told his sister all about me, and she wanted to say hello. I was a little nervous, but I spoke to her anyway to be polite, and she was all, "We can't WAIT to meet you!" LOL. I had no clue that he was to the point in our still-new relationship where he was telling his FAMILY I was "the one." But in retrospect I find it kind of charming, and well, quaint, that he did so.

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Honey, you must not be happily married. I am married to an amazing man who goes over and beyond for me and I do the same. I'm sorry that you have not experienced any kind of happiness from someone or yourself. Please remove yourself from people that don't appreciate you and surround yourself with people who do. Life is too short to be that unhappy. Toodles.