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I was listening to the radio this morning and Frank and Wanda posed that question and folks were calling in giving their answers. Most women were saying as soon as


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I was listening to the radio this morning and Frank and Wanda posed that question and folks were calling in giving their answers.

Most women were saying as soon as the guy starts asking for things, especially sex.

Frank said that women are just playing games because they want sex too, just as badly as the men.

Some women said that we should have our own money, and not ever feel comfortable asking a man.

A guy called in and said any man that is caking off women in Atlanta is a fool, because there are too many available women giving it for free and if he has to spend money to get sex, he can go to a strip club.

Wanda said why is it ok for men to ask for sex on the 2nd or 3rd date, but it's wrong for a woman to ask for money?

Frank says he has never heard of men asking for sex immediately, they only imply they want sex.

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Although I do believe that a woman needs to have her own loot, if you need help you just need help, and if you and this man are together whether yall are fuckin or not, and you absolutely need the money, ask him for it.....


 
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A guy called in and said any man that is caking off women in Atlanta is a fool, because there are too many available women giving it for free and if he has to spend money to get sex, he can go to a strip club.
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Ignorant, just plain ole ignorant....
Any dude who spends money just to have sex is a straight up 100% Simp ass lame.
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Ignorant, just plain ole ignorant....
exactly why is that ignorant...if a woman had called in and said, "there's too many ****** in atlanta giving money away for nothing (no sex), a chick shouldn't have to fuck to get it" you'd be clappin so hard you'd bust a couple blood vessels in your fucking palms...

and real talk, if a ***** gotta give you money to fuck, REGARDLESS OF HOW YOU TRY TO SWITCH IT UP, you're a hoe and you're half assed hoein' if you're only doing it when you're broke...
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I have yet to ask a man for money. Just not my style.

But I don't turn down unsolicited gifts though.
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I have yet to ask a man for money. Just not my style.

But I don't turn down unsolicited gifts though.
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exactly why is that ignorant...if a woman had called in and said, "there's too many ****** in atlanta giving money away for nothing (no sex), a chick shouldn't have to fuck to get it" you'd be clappin so hard you'd bust a couple blood vessels in your fucking palms...

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exactly why is that ignorant...if a woman had called in and said, "there's too many ****** in atlanta giving money away for nothing (no sex), a chick shouldn't have to fuck to get it" you'd be clappin so hard you'd bust a couple blood vessels in your fucking palms...

and real talk, if a ***** gotta give you money to fuck, REGARDLESS OF HOW YOU TRY TO SWITCH IT UP, you're a hoe and you're half assed hoein' if you're only doing it when you're broke...
I'm no ho, but when this guy recently asked me (via text at that) "when could he get some of that Cali luvin', no strings attached" two days after we met. I answered the only way I could, "as soon as you start paying my bills, no strings attached".
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I'm no ho, but when this guy recently asked me (via text at that) "when could he get some of that Cali luvin', no strings attached" two days after we met. I answered the only way I could, "as soon as you start paying my bills, no strings attached".
that's what we call "statements not in agreeance" with one another...
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that's what we call "statements not in agreeance" with one another...
ok...just because I answer in that manner, doesn't mean I would take him up on it. It was just to show him how stupid he sounded asking for something so personal without even knowing my last name. I only returned the favor.
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