Okay, I know I'm late, but here goes:
Jon's first wife was Musiic and she is the woman in the pics with the blue, spegetti strapped sundress. That picture of him, her and other folks is over 8 years old. Musiic was no stunner....she did/does have a beautiful head of natural hair though, similar to Chilli and Ananda Lewis. Musiic and Jon were together over 10 years (high school thru marraige) and got divorced over some mess. He was devasted over that and some other things going on in his life at the time....it all hit him at once...he's human....and he may have picked up some disfunctional ways to cope. That topped with the fact that he was always known to smoke weed (he's admitted it in old interviews) didn't make it any better.
After that divorce, there were a few years of downhill spiralling for him. During that time, he had this horrible girlfriend. She wasn't cute either, had a nasty attitude to match, and it was rumored
that she was the one that was getting him drugs. He was with her way too long....about 5 yrs. I believe.
During the end of that relationship, he started messing around with the woman who is now his second wife, her name begins with a D. The old girlfriend found out he was seeing this woman and they broke up. He was free and clear to do what he wanted, and I guess what he wanted was to date this woman...whom by the way.....they say used to date one or two of his friends prior to getting with him (that's just rumor
...so don't quote me on that one). While they were dating, and relatively early in their relationship (surprise..surprise) she got pregnant. He wanting to do the right thing, and probably wanting to go a different direction in his life, married her. They now have a daughter. She's about two now.
His current wife is very plain, there's no doubt about it. But none of the women he's dated, that I've seen pics of anyways, are overly attractive. I've even seen him with a girl back in 97/98 and she looked like Flava Flav with a bad weave. So I don't think it's all about looks for him, I really don't. I also think he likes chocolate sistas....the darker the better. I think it's a fetish for him. Bless his heart. You know it's a damn shame that it takes a white dude to be strung out on chocolate. Damn shame.
The drug thing....I don't know about. I wouldn't doubt it, though. There were posts on some old, now defunct websites that he seemed high at some of his performances a few years ago. I've also met him after a few performances and something seemed not quite right. Who knows. Maybe he just has a quirky personality.
I know most of this stuff because there was a website up, that has since been taken down, and all
this man's business was in the streets. We were discussing all things Jon B......hard
. There were a few folks on there that claimed to know him, probably friends of friends or worse, girlfriends of folks in his crew. Whatever....it was off the chain. We were fans but we could get buck wild. His old girlfriend even came up in there once, and we gave her an e-lashing. We had to, she was out of line. Straight comedy.
I will say that as an artist, Jon is very under-rated. I've met him a few times after some of his shows, and in talking to him in those brief moments, I got the strong sense that he is a very
sweet and genuine person with a very pure heart. His momma did a good job. Others who've had similar experiences say similar things...they don't have anything negative to say about him.
It's been a while since those website(s) went down. What I've peeped, recently, from some of the stuff I've seen of him on the internet (interviews, youtube, Foxxhole radio) he's got a new swagger. He's matured and seems to be centered and focused. Whatever this plain jane is doing to him, or for him, is working wonders.