I've noticed that many men suffer from that "I coulda" syndrome. What I mean is they are jealous of other men that have success in business and their personal affairs.
I was chatting with some of my male followers on twitter and one admitted that he has certain feelings about women preferring "athletes & entertainers" because if he'd stuck with playing basketball, he would have... Basically, I've had other men come across as the MOST confident men... until they realize they're in competition with millionaires.
I don't understand why a man would think like this. I'm sure there are PLENTY of gold diggers out there. But, why would a man consider it a loss if he cannot have a woman whose main requirement is that he have at least a 7 figure income per year? Also, why look down on those women for having their preferences? Self esteem much?
That's like me getting upset at the black men for not dating black women. I don't care what "they" like. Why? Because I have other options and I know that a man that judges me on my skin color alone isn't worth my time. It's still sad though.
I've dated a few men that have asked me if I've dated any athletes or entertainers. That's an odd question to ask someone that you're trying to get to know. If I answer "yes", they ask NAMES!!! WTF?!? Who does that ish? I tell them that it's none of their business and try to change the subject. However, you can still tell they feel defeated.
is annoying! Do any of you all have this issue with men? If so, do you try to salvage any bit of a possible or existing relationship?
ETA: The title of this post is just a line from a Jay-Z song...it doesn't mean literally that I believe ALL females are jealous. I don't have jealously issues, but the I consider the behavior as bitch-like coming from a man.