This thread is dedicated to three romantic relationships (Jermaine Jackson, Eddie Murphy and Bobby Brown) that have been publicly acknowledged by Whitney Houston herself and very probable ones with Randall Cunningham and Ray J. This is not hearsay or he said she said, but directly from the mouth of Ms. Houston. There are some that believe Whitney's relationships with these men were strictly for PR reasons to clear up rumors of a lesbian relationship with her personal assistant and friend Robyn Crawford. Some even go as far to say that her very volatile and passionate marriage to Bobby Brown was a sham and he was a beard and their daughter was conceived with the aid of a turkey baster! If you believe that then this isn't the thread for you, there is a thread dedicated to that subject. No anti-heterosexual, denials of said relationships or any attempts to derail this thread are acceptable and will be reported to Admin. This thread is for those who believed Whitney when she said she had intimate/romantic relationships with these men. Nobody pretends that these were ideal or healthy relationships but they did exist and were real. I liken these confirmed romances to a steady diet of fried chicken and mac-n-cheese - it ain't good for you but it's good to you.
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This is a 1999 New York Daily News article in which Whitney speaks of her affair with a married man during the recording of "Whitney Houston" album.
By DAVID HINCKLEY
Daily News Staff Writer
When the Rev. Marvin Winans seeks an amen from the congregation at the Perfecting Church on this particularly hot Sunday morning, he can start in the second row with his old friend Whitney Houston.
A little more than 12 hours earlier, she was leading her own show at the Fox Theater here. Now she's enjoying his.
"Church the Way It Was Meant To Be," Marvin Winans calls his Pentecostal house of worship, and he didn't build Perfecting to 5,000 members by making the service taste like castor oil.
His choir has 75 voices, fronted by nine soloists and a six-piece band whose leader is built like Fats Domino and pounds out red-hot rhythms on the Steinway grand. The Rev. Winans has a different forum than some of his singing siblings, but preaching time is showtime.
"You can go to school until you have so many degrees they call you Fahrenheit," he thunders. "IT DOESN'T
MEAN GOD HAS CALLED YOU!!!!"
Whitney Houston raises her hands, joins a chorus of "No, it doesn't," and points an index finger toward the pulpit as if to tell the Rev. Winans that he, he has been called.
Who knows how? You are called and you serve.
"He's my minister," Houston says after the service. "He was the minister at my wedding. I love him and I love his church."
Having Whitney Houston's life, she can't always get to her own church, New Hope Baptist in New Jersey, where her mother, Cissy, is minister of music. In fact, Whitney lost her spot in the choir there.
"My mother said, ‘You can't make rehearsals, you're out of the choir.' But I'll be back."
She says this sitting in Marvin Winans' office, talking with a visitor while the reverend has lunch in the next room with a dozen members of the Houston entourage, including 6-year-old daughter Bobbi Kristina.
Houston is still in her pink church suit. It is redundant to say she looks stunning. She sips water and talks politely and directly, with few wasted words.
She is known to drop an occasional expletive into her conversation, probably getting a quiet kick out of tweaking the old America's Sweetheart image. But in the reverend's office, she slips just once. Then apologizes.
"I like the name ‘The Perfecting Church,' " she muses later. "It says we don't come to God perfect. We come as we are, and He helps us from there."
As perfection requires hard work in showbiz as well as life, the 35-year-old Houston is now back to her singing career. She's on a tour that brought her home to the New Jersey Performing Arts Center in Newark last night, and will bring her to The Theater at Madison Square Garden on July 14 and 15, in support of her "My Love Is Your Love" CD. Her first studio album in eight years, it has gone double platinum and spawned several hits, including the top-five "It's Not Right, but It's Okay."
That there has been debate over whether double-platinum constitutes slow sales indicates where Houston has set her bar. Her three previous studio albums sold more than 25 million copies. She has had 11 No. 1 singles, and "I Will Always Love You," beside selling 12 million "Bodyguard" soundtracks, was No. 1 for 14 weeks, the second-longest run in modern history.
Houston also made her acting debut in "The Bodyguard," and has since starred in "Waiting to Exhale" and "The Preacher's Wife." Next year, she's doing a movie with Will Smith.
"I always knew I could sing," she says. "But the acting came as a total surprise. The only person who said ‘The Bodyguard' would get that response was [co-star] Kevin Costner."
She has had less pleasant surprises over 15 years in the biz, too, especially since her 1992 marriage to Bobby Brown.
"A lot of things surprised me — that the tabloids would think people are more interested in my life than my music, that all they seem to want to know is what's going on in my bedroom — or any of my rooms.
"I didn't know this would become a pleasure of America, that they would take potshots at me because I had friends who were gay, or who lived a different kind of life."
In her stage patter, Houston brushes off the tabloids, sort of: "Half this mess they just make up. You try to laugh about it."
So does any of it still sting?
"Some things still sting very badly. Look, I'm not married and have some kind of double life with some man, or woman. I couldn't live that way. I am married to one man. I was raised in the church and I careabout morality. I couldn't tell my daughter to do one thing and do another myself.
"I'm a mother, a wife, a daughter. To the world, I'm Whitney Houston. To me, I'm Mrs. Bobby Brown. That's who I am.
"No, we don't fight all the time. No, he doesn't beat me. He's got a temper. If you fluff his feathers, you'll know it. But he's a sweet, gentle man.
"Nobody is good or bad all the time. Everybody has ups and downs and we've had our moments. They pass. It's just that we can't keep them in the house. They hear anything about us, they run with it. But they don't get the whole story. Something causes everything. That's the part people don't hear."
Interestingly, Houston doesn't hide Bobbi Kristina from the world. She comes on stage, she visits Oprah.
"Keep her in a bubble? We couldn't if we wanted to," Houston says, laughing. "Too much energy. She's got my traits and Bobby's, too, except I was kind of timid as a child and with her, it's ‘Everybody in the pool.' "
And does she have her mother's voice? "She's got my mother's voice," says Houston, daughter of the marvelous pop and gospel singer Cissy Houston. "That's the voice I had when I was 6. So we'll wait and see. If she likes music, I'll encourage her. I'd like her to learn the technical side, too, so if she wants to play or write, she can do it herself."
Right now, she's rearing Bobbi Kristina the way she thinks all parents should: attentively.
"I want to be there. I can't leave and come back when she's 16. I blew off the Jay Leno show because there was an activity at her school. I just felt that was more important."
It's no accident Houston started her tour after school ended, so Bobbi could come along. Her moment on stage confirms the child has no fear and reflects Houston's growing confidence in her own ability to improvise.
When an autograph-seeking fan holds a CD over the lip of the stage at the Fox, a moment that can stop a show, Houston first jokes, "Thanks, I already have one." Then she takes it, placing hand on hip as if to say, "All right, girl, where's the pen?" The crowd laughs, she signs and the music resumes.
It looks easy. It isn't. Like making a record.
"Anyone who thinks ‘all I have to do is sing' has no idea. I don't just come in and they give me a song and I sing it and leave. Those songs are mine. How I sing them is how I feel them."
Her producers will tell her how she sounds. She'll bounce takes off her husband, "because he's totally honest." But in the end, she says, the song must be hers, which is how a singer gets up to where everyone has always felt Whitney Houston's voice could take her — the ranks of Ella, Sarah, Barbra and Judy, artists with a singular imprint.
"That's the goal," says Houston. "A career. At first there's pressure to establish yourself with hits. Today I keep up with current sounds, but there's less pressure. People know me.
"I knew when I started I wasn't like anyone else — not my mother, my cousin [Dionne Warwick] or anyone. I walked into this business with faith. I didn't walk into it trying to believe. I did believe. Somehow I knew this is what I would do. I just love to sing."
On stage now, her show has grown to about two hours. Her top ticket has also risen, with the market, to $100-plus. "It's a lot," says Houston, nodding. "That's one reason I'm doing theaters. I don't want the person in the last row not to know what I'm wearing. I don't want them to see the show on monitors."
She still isn't a dancer, but she moves more easily on stage, and she has plenty of hits to feed her fans — who in Detroit sip mixed drinks and dress to kill.
About half the show is the new CD, the rest her past hits. "I have to do ‘How Will I Know' and ‘Saving All My Love' and ‘I Will Always Love You,'" she says. "Those songs brought me here. I'll do them forever."
And is that a burden?
"No, because they all had meaning for me. When I did ‘Saving All My Love,' I was going through a terrible love affair. He was married — and that will never work out for anybody, never, no way, forget about it."
Everyone, of course, will find meanings of their own. One fan at the Fox pleaded, successfully, for the towel with which Whitney mops her face.
"I use a towel, I just throw it in the hamper," says Houston. "But I understand the idea. I have a pair of shoes Ginger Rogers gave me before she passed. I have things from Dorothy Dandridge, from Sammy Davis. They're a connection to people whose work I admire."
Houston's next projects also involve people she admires: Will Smith and Selena. "What Selena did in the English market was brilliant," says Houston. "[Arista Records President] Clive Davis and I are thinking about me doing that in the other direction."
In between, she'll be wife, mother, daughter, singer and the rest, in a lineup that's pretty well set. "I don't make a lot of new friends. People you met after you became successful, you have to check them out so carefully. My friends are people I've known a long time."
She feels the same about the church. "The church can be our salvation," she says. "It has to become the center of our community again." She reflects a moment and adds that it is a community center. It just doesn't get credit.
"That's our lovely press. Don't talk about good things, because if people feel too good, you have less control over them."
Good news doesn't sell, whether it's the Lord or her marriage?
"That's it," she says. "I know the game. I just won't play it."
She says this in an even tone, calm and cold enough to deep-freeze the state of Michigan. But whatever the frustration, don't think she doesn't like her life.
"I was a showbiz kid. I'd go to the studio with my mother. I learned music with her, and I learned from the best. I've had a great time. If I closed my eyes tomorrow, the only thing that would concern me is my daughter growing up right. For me, for my life, I'd be satisfied."
When the conversation is over, Houston throws open the door to the room where her posse is well into lunch. "Now I know," she announces in a loud voice, "that y'all didn't eat my food! I know you saved me some!"
It's nice she's overcoming that shy streak.
In the corner, Bobbi Kristina is sitting with the Rev. Winans, who is playing a small electronic keyboard.
How can you start a thread and try to limit how people respond? If you can't stand the heat - don't start the thread!
The most recent thread started by Winzaloft on the friendship and probable relationship between Whitney and Robyn has same rules and they are being enforced by the Admin and so this thread is accorded the same rules.
LMAO! The butt-hurt is so evident. There is already a thread for this...The men in Whitney's life.
This is strictly about three relationships acknowledge or confirmed by Whitney herself and a probable one with Ray J. Your disrespectful tone not welcomed and will be reported. A relationship with Kevin Costner has been speculated on also but she denied. That speculation not welcomed, only the ones she publicly acknowledged and the probable ones with Randall Cunningham and Ray J. to be discussed.
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LMAO! The butt-hurt is so evident. There is already a thread for this...The men in Whitney's life.
This is why the thread was made...
Long story short, people could not stick to the topic when it came to Robyn and Whitney and their purported relationship. So because every other post was arguing, name calling or derailing (by both parties) she allowed the LGBT thread and I suppose this is the straight thread.
It is a thread about three romantic, heterosexual relationships confirmed by Whitney and very probable ones with Ray J and Randall Cunningham. There is a thread that discusses the friendship and "probable" relationship between Robyn and Whitney with strictly enforced rules regarding posts about denials of the relationship or any attempt to derail discussion. Same rules apply here.
Last edited by Jane Williams; 12-06-2012 at 08:36 PM..
If you don't believe Whitney was gay or bisexual, stay out of this thread. Make a separate thread to discuss your beliefs.
I have had it with the bullshit that goes on here, so you people will be separate but equal. One thread for the gays and one thread for the straights. There will be no discussing this. If you try to derail I will ban you from the Whitney Houston forum. This decision is not open for discussion.
Audio, This is the straight thread. Stop derailing the thread .You will be banned from the forum. discuss or leave.
Too funny! Whitney loved Bobby very much despite his douchebaggery. Unfortunate but they have a beautiful daughter as a result.
There, you feel better?
No it isn't. Those (heterosexuals) who have rejected the idea of a Whitney/Robyn romance are not allowed to post on most recent Robyn/Whitney thread even when adhering to stated rules. So no it isn't acceptable and derogatory remarks are not allowed on that thread either.
Last edited by Jane Williams; 12-06-2012 at 05:32 PM..