Just wanted some honest opinions on my current situation...
I have a good friend who is a newlywed. Her hubby works long distance so for the past yr and a half she's been doing her. She met this guy, they hung out and began sexing. She introduces us, not attracted but he's hella cool. Months later they fizzle because he wasnt available like she wanted.
Meanwhile she's screwing other people including her hubby when he comes to town.
Sooo, somehow we wind up exchanging numbers under the guise of him introducing me to his homeboy. We hang out, totally click and I found myself going over to watch movies, chill, and shoot the shit. He makes it known he's feeling me and has been attracted to me since we first met. I remind him that he's fucked my friend so that will never happen.
Time passes.... we go out for drinks one night and he's looking uber sexy (I'm shocked) and we fucked.
Sex was incredible. The chemistry is like woah and my my my.
Anywho, my bestie still doesnt know about us hanging out, let alone fucking every week.
Should I cut ties with dude because my friend smashed prior to us meeting or continue our fling because chick is MARRIED, stilldoing her thing and they dont even communicate anymore???
Do you value your friendship? How does your friend feel about this guy? Like, was he more or so a one night stand, or did she really catch feelings for him? If it's the latter, then maybe you should explain the situation to this guy and see how he feels. Although, if you are really close to your friend I would just leave him alone. How sexy is he btw? Can you give more details, thanks
oh this might get good . i wouldn't do it because i don't like sloppy seconds myself, especially since dude might not really be over the friend and is just using you to piss her off . but all things being equal, i'd say dude is fair game. your friend may very well be mad, but she won't get too upset lest she risk outing her heaux activities to her husband . if you do continue seeing him, you probably shouldn't take dude around your friend, especially when the husband is there. i can just see him sitting there like michael jai white in 'why did i get married' looking at your friend (or the husband) like 'yea i'm banging your homie/wife and you can't do shit about it bitch' . not that your friend wouldn't deserve it, i don't love them heaux .