Hell no! You cant pay me enough to carry someone else's child! Pregnancy is a very intimate experience, i can't have a child inside me for 9 months, get fat and sick, and then hand it over like i'm some machine. No
No, I couldn't do it. I'd become too attached and want to keep the baby for myself. Carrying a life inside of you is hard enough when it's your own flesh and blood. But to do it for someone else...I couldn't be so noble.
You know what, it's funny you ask that because I was thinking about the concept of being an egg donor the other day. Not exactly the same thing...but, call me crazy... I would consider that because there's so few African American/black women donors in the world.
Now being a surrogate mother, I don't know. I think I'd get attached after 9 months and labor tbh
I don't want kids for myself muchless be pregnant for someone else; I think it's a beautiful thing but there's not one person in my life I love that damn much to go through all that for, especially when I have two back surgeries under my belt.
My sister asked me if I would have a baby for her once; this triflin beast smokes weed daily and doesn't work, I laughed and walked away
No ,but I had a friend who did. She had rough childhood decided she would never have kids, but as she got older she realized she didn't want to miss out on the experience being pregnant and decided to be a surrogate. She got paid like 25,000. She said it was great because she never had a mother figure and for 9 months she got to get a tiny taste of what it's like. It helped her deal with her childhood. She also sold her eggs, for 10,000. Her take on it was that she never wanted kids and was never going to use her eggs and she saw how desperate couples were. Different strokes fo different folks.
Yes.I posted something similar awhile back. My views have certainly changed. I wanted my own kids but I think I really just wanted to know what it is like to carry a child. If I could have one for someone else..then sure--certainly don't want any of my own. But you have to have at least one kid first...so yea,nah, not gonna happen.