Originally Posted by incogneato
I broke up with my kids (2) father earlier this year around March, we probably hadn't had sex since January. AKA I haven't had sex w/ January. I came back in contact with the guy I lost my virginity to a few months ago we went out for drinks one night and it was BLAST (didn't hook up or anything). We were drunk texting after the night was over, you know how that goes. Anyways... I think I want him to be the first person I hook up with since this break up. I texted him the other night and asked him what he was doing Saturday.. he said he may be out of town but will let me know.
I'm going out to a comedy show on Saturday and went to the spots website and it said "SWEETEST DAY WEEKEND" now does this ex think i'm creep because the night i want to hook up happens to be sweetest day?!?!?!? Because I really had NO idea..
I THINK I understand what the OP is asking. If Sweetest Day is a holiday that is known in her neck of the woods, and it is like Valentine's Day, then she may be afraid dude is thinking she wants this to be more serious. Think of sexting an ex for a while and then suggesting you meet up on a day that happens to be Valentine's Day or Christmas or your birthday. The ex might side-eye you because those are holidays usually reserved for couples, not a hit-and-quit meetup.
I think the OP is concerned that his "out of town" remark is an excuse because she suggested they meet up on a day typically reserved for couples, and he may feel she wants this to be more serious than possibly she wants it to be.
OP, my suggestion is you make other plans and find another dude to break the dryspell.