Off topic general, "what brand of makeup do ya'll use", "what's for dinner", "my boyfriend is having children with his brother's sister in law", "why don't black men date black women", "ya'lls a bunch a thirsty ho's" threads.
How have you dealt with false rumors about you? In the age where gossip has gone online, in emails, can travel at the speed of light...a false rumor travels to your girlfriend or family member states away at the speed of light.
Anything from who you were seen with, who you said you dont like, stories about your relationship, how you pissed so and so off, what you said...on an on.
Share your stories and how you dealt with false rumors about you.
How have you dealt with this? Simply ignore it? Confront it? Gloat in it? Does it increase or deflate your ego?
My best friend and I just ironed out an ordeal and I just wonder if I'm too emotional or if my reaction of sheer terror and hurt was natural.
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There was a point in time when a certain group of girls would make things up about me just based on who I was dating and his reputation. I know it's hard, but you have to ignore the rumors...true or untrue. Don't feel the need to explain yourself to anybody. The people that know you well should be able to sort fact from fiction -- And really those are the only people who matter.
I don't deal with it. If a friend/ family member doesn't know the truth or question me about I just say 'that's a lie'
besides that. What people say about me (in a rumor) is none of my business.
Even when you clear up lies people are still going to believe what they want to believe anyway, because it sounds better to know 'ahhh...she ain't that decent afterall' than 'see, I knew that didn't sound like her'.
Some people feel better when they know something bad about another person. How it affects them? heck if I know, but if you feel like a better person believing I'm not. Then do you.
Ignore it if a person knows more about me than I know about me... They must have it all figure out for everyone else...
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If a person wants to go around spreading false rumors about me, then so be it. I don't have time to coddle anyone, hold anyone's hand, and make sure they don't have a problem with me. Besides once you start to spread false rumors you get demoted to "ho status" and I don't mess with people like that anyway. They obviously have time to make up stories, make sure they sound the least bit plausible, and then they have time to spread em. Sorry I don't have that much time on my hands, especially when it comes to arguing with them about it. I may address it, I may not. What's the point? They know they're right you know you're right... People who go to extremes to do things like that, at some point actually begin to believe the lies they spew forth, so what good is it to fight with them? Don't fight with fools because people from a distance can't tell who's who.
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I let it do whatever it does in the gossip mill. But if someone collects it all and tries to confront me with it like it is the truth, then that person will get a reason to fear me for a long time . . . . . just like 2 Novembers ago.
Sad thing about rumors . . .they are easier to believe than the truth. Even things I have on public tax records are considered lies by people I know. This is what happens when people are too stupid to look things up.
I am called a liar sometimes.
Sure, I told you my name was something else. Well, guess what? I just met you. My real name if freaking hard to pronounce (I am still trying to learn how to pronounce it). Besides, the other name is close enough. American enough. . . . and sure people say I lie about blah blah blah.
But. . .think about when you are in a club. A guy says he was this and that. he is going to get you in a jacuzzi. He is this and that. By the time you leave the club, you know you will just have sex and go straight to sleep and realize most of what he said was a lie within a month. And you didn't care.
"I'm really 12 inches", then you learn it's not true moments later.
"I'm stacked for cheese", then he asks for money.
"I'm a third war soldier/thug", when a gun makes a sound he runs to the nearest corner.
All lies. But you didn't care about that did you? But, you just had to call me on the fact that I told you my name was a "Bart" instead of "Burmese"(exampl e only). I didn't change the first letter and I respond the same. But, you go and accept those other fools lies so much easier. Thanks a lot. Double standard enforcing idiot.
At least I tell the truth most of the time. Except when I talk about baths of blood. That is just poetry. And if you didn't believe me when I said I was a psycho, then it is your fault. I'm a psycho feminist ho. Deal with it.
And about the lies I do tell: When I say that I had sex with your mom, you aren't supposed to believe me. Neither are you supposed to believe me when I say:
"They put me in jail for killing 7 guys" (When I show you a traffic citation for the same day)
"The sky has polka dots"
"I have a giant hammer"
"I thought it was cool when you kissed me" (when you never kissed me and no one else is around)
I laugh, and smile, it let's me know I'm doing a whole lot right to have people worried about me.
Plus my friends know the truth and they dispell the gossip when confronted with it, its better when others defend you, its make the person feel real stupid, and let's you know that you have people who really care about you
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Still dealing, but its really nothing to deal with. There are people who dedicate their lives to invading other's personal lives and they are just sick and twisted. Nothing you can do or say can change their minds cuz their motives are sick and twisted so all you can do is just wait till they get a new victim or just ignore it. Haters do what they do.
If you want to know about ******* go to Hawaii...anything else is too much internet for you baby!!!~Tiny
Totally ignore them & I don't deny or confirm what's real or what's not. I like people speculate, it keeps my name hot on the streets. People love to jazz shit up..it's ridiculous how fast rumors spread & serious they can become. As long as the rumor isn't hurting me, my family or friends..I let it ride out.
It depends on what the rumor is. When it comes to my child then I am ready to CUT someone!! But all the rest of them I simply laugh. It makes me know that I am obviously doing something right. For so many people to devote so much time to what I am doing flatters me and only serves to make me want to be bigger!!! You should really use it as motivation.
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