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I just don't like how it's shoved down young Christians womans throat to be chaste, modest, patient and a "good" woman and your husband will come. They make money of them by hosting single conferences for women, and writing books, and sadly many eat it up. I've met some Christian women who have stated, "I'm a virgin(enter age), and me and my girlfriends are still single and waiting while women who don't wait are getting married" which is pretty pathetic. I feel like some church leaders use them as mules as well.
I also don't trust pastors like john gray and Devon Franklin. Devon went outside and looked for a wife instead of looking in his church, especially since there was many available Christian woman. Why do many them go outside to look for a wife???? Not just pastors, but the male members as well.
I hate that so much emphasis is on being a good wife and saving saving yourself for a husband that might not come. It took me awhile to unlearn some of the harmful teachings and I want you guys to of course stay in your faith, but put your needs first as well because you guys are the backbone of the church and without you guys these pastors would be nothing.
I also don't trust pastors like john gray and Devon Franklin. Devon went outside and looked for a wife instead of looking in his church, especially since there was many available Christian woman. Why do many them go outside to look for a wife???? Not just pastors, but the male members as well.
I hate that so much emphasis is on being a good wife and saving saving yourself for a husband that might not come. It took me awhile to unlearn some of the harmful teachings and I want you guys to of course stay in your faith, but put your needs first as well because you guys are the backbone of the church and without you guys these pastors would be nothing.