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Why are women 25-32 mostly the one's on the "I'm celibate" wave.

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They gave the kitty away to bums and now want good men to pay the price


Gotta love how the "good men" feel entitled to the cooch.

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The same men that will judge her for giving it up too early ( for his undisclosed taste) but gladly take it while compartmentalizing their relationship into something unfavorable for her?

Life is filled with double standards.

a key that opens many locks is a master key

a lock that is opened by any key is a sh!tty lock

Gotta love how the "good men" feel entitled to the cooch.

Who said anything about entitlement? The value of pussy is inflated. Just like silver. 4 billion women on this planet. Plenty to go around
 
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this is the first generation of men who have grown up with easy access to pδrn, i dont think men care about relationships anymore. they want multiple girlfriends they can sleep with and he will expect each gf to do wifey things like cooking/cleaning, he will want to sleep around but he'll get upset if any of his gf sleep with another man

This is the take. Dudes will bring up kinks and coming over within like the third message, and then shame you if you don't want to sleep with them.

And if you do sleep with a guy and get rxped, pregnant, have unfulfilling xes or get played in any other way, the same dudes will tell you to choose better next time.

Best just to skip over the ultimately wack dxck entirely until you know who you're choosing.
 

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My vagina & womb are sacred! Y'all don't own it, so stop feeling entitled to it. Women are tired of giving sh!t up, w/no reciprocation. You're gonna work for it or get lost
 

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Who said anything about entitlement? The value of pussy is inflated. Just like silver. 4 billion women on this planet. Plenty to go around

"Inflated" by the mofos who are dying for it. Mofos got whole movements because they aren't getting any.

Don't fool yourself, though. Nothing on earth is cheaper than dick. Except maybe for air.
 

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Nah, I spiraled out of control after being cheated on, I then went on to be a person dealing with somebody who was in a relationship, twice in less than a year, they were actually both married men. All because it happened to me so I didn’t care. I have trust issues and I don’t want a relationship anymore until I properly heal from the hurt.



That you for keeping it real.
 

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"Inflated" by the mofos who are dying for it. Mofos got whole movements because they aren't getting any.

Don't fool yourself, though. Nothing on earth is cheaper than dick. Except maybe for air.

You're not wrong on either, but that also doesn't contradict what I'm saying either
 

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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.



Why is that?



My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous xes and bad judgement

Making the good guy pay for their poor choices in men. They are also oblivious to their diminishing value, so using celibacy as a bargaining chip will not get the desired outcome (relationship).
 

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Nah, I spiraled out of control after being cheated on, I then went on to be a person dealing with somebody who was in a relationship, twice in less than a year, they were actually both married men. All because it happened to me so I didn’t care. I have trust issues and I don’t want a relationship anymore until I properly heal from the hurt.
Married dick be the best and you don’t have to commit to them. I think women need to be a little more selfish in relationships and start getting what you want
 

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Life is filled with double standards.

a key that opens many locks is a master key

a lock that is opened by any key is a sh

*So, "yes" then? Some have figured that part of men out. They don't have to keep being oblivious to suit someone else's needs - someone who probably is mad they have to settle for what she requires because they know they can't get it while being honest about their intent.

Who said anything about entitlement? The value of pussy is inflated. Just like silver. 4 billion women on this planet. Plenty to go around
Then celibate women pose no problem for men who don't want to entertain it. They self select out - it's great for all involved...unless people feel they don't have a choice but to settle.
 

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Women under 25 usually just want to have fun and the one's over 32 usually just want some "adult time" away from the kids.


25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.



Why is that?



My perception is that "celibacy" follows an extended period of promiscuous xes and bad judgement
Correct
 

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I am unable to speak on behalf of others, but personally, I have been happily celibate for 3 years and counting. There was no "hoe phase" that happened prior to making my decision to become celibate. Being celibate has enabled me to grow as a person. I have graduated college with 2 bachelor's degrees in less than 4 years, purchased a new car, moved into a bigger place, cultivated fulfilling activities (yoga, running, reading, cooking, etc.), amongst many other things. My decision was based on my desire to become a well-rounded, whole, and happy person. Men were not and are not the reason for my celibacy journey.
 
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We're tired of the bµllsh!t men in our generation who play games. So the best thing is to not play the game with y'all at all. We're proud too because we start to see your true colors and intentions when we are celibate. Salt N Pepa said it best V
 

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Because it's the age range where men are at their most ain't sh!t. Old enough to know better, and still too young and optimistic to realize men rarely get better.
 

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Then celibate women pose no problem for men who don't want to entertain it. They self select out - it's great for all involved...unless people feel they don't have a choice but to settle.
This only works if when they choose to break their celebacy, they don't make the new man pay for the old man's price
 

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I felt a slight attack lol... at 25 i became celibate and its been 5 years now. Don’t get me wrong, xes is great... for the few times i’ve had it....Temporary relation/situationships wasn’t cutting it for me to introduce phat ma anymore
 

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Making the good guy pay for their poor choices in men. They are also oblivious to their diminishing value, so using celibacy as a bargaining chip will not get the desired outcome (relationship).
Good guys regularly note a woman's diminishing value? Since her value is supposedly diminished, she should have xes within a time-frame that suits a person that is in a position to quantify her value?
 

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I made the decision to be celibate as a virgin in highschool. It didn't take a bunch of sh!tty men to make me want to wait until marriage. I'm in my early 20s now. Honestly, dating is so much easier when you know who just wants you for your body.
 

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Those teenage hormones aren't ruling you anymore, and you start to realize that xes can have a purpose other than pleasure.

Tons of people become xesually active in their teens... so by the mid-to-late twenties, that's years of nearly meaningless xes. You start to realize that high school ish was puppy love, and then even in your early twenties, the maturity levels just aren't really there yet, and most of the xes being had is just for pleasure - nothing else.

Intimacy becomes more important and that's harder to find, so pumping the brakes on xes is best until you find someone that can meet your needs. Hell that the vast majority of men don't know or care about pleasing a women. Celibacy becomes a much easier choice when you consider the alternatives.
 

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This only works if when they choose to break their celebacy, they don't make the new man pay for the old man's price
If the new man requires xes for a fulfilling relationship sooner than she is comfortable, he should feel comfortable expressing that or walking away. Men act like they have to do the dance when it's just that they can't pull women/situations in the way they'd like. So, they settle and seethe.
 

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If the new man requires xes for a fulfilling relationship sooner than she is comfortable, he should feel comfortable expressing that or walking away. Men act like they have to do the dance when it's just that they can't pull women/situations in the way they'd like. So, they settle and seethe.

That's fair
 

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No, you love having xes with women. That is not the same thing as loving a woman, and seeing her inherent dignity. You and other male fonts want to control women. All these posts questioning women's behaviour is indicative of that.
Yeah, I find they are often at a loss for words when you ask them what they love or like about women besides their bodies, cooking, or cleaning.
 

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25-32 are usually on that "my next relationship is my last" , "the next guy I sleep with has to be my man" wave.
OP, there's nothing wrong with recognizing that a lot of men aren't worth your energy and increasing your standards. In fact, it's great more women are doing this because that'll help the meet the right man that they want.

Also, when you've already made the decision to abstain from xes until you're in a serious relationship, it helps not cloud your judgement when you're on dates.
 

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Also let me just say, at 26 I am seeing a lot of black women who are either virgins, or celibate. Being a virgin no longer has that icky ideology that it once had years ago.
Which is how I know the xesual exploitation of black women is 100% media driven.
 

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why do ya'll keep humouring these women haters? OP doesn't care about your answers he just wants to find another way to put down women.
It's good to know what the thought process is. Plenty men feel the same way as him but won't vocalize it outside of their group chat. I figure let them get loose as long as they stay respectful - it's the only way to get to the truth.
 

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Good guys regularly note a woman's diminishing value? Since her value is supposedly diminished, she should have xes within a time-frame that suits a person that is in a position to quantify her value?

xes should come up organically. If you are already establishing rules, you are revealing that you are not really interested in the guy and that you carry emotional baggage.
 

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xes should come up organically. If you are already establishing rules, you are revealing that you are not really interested in the guy and that you carry emotional baggage.
She's letting you know up front so you can decide if you want to waste/spend (depending on perspective) your time and effort. This should make it even more clear that it is a personal choice rather than a bargaining chip or something being inflicted upon a "good guy". If I were single, I wouldn't date men with children and would say it up front. We don't need the awkwardness later if we can avoid it.
 

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So many reasons that have been stated. Most men are mentally exhausting, selfish in bed, misogynistic, colourist, have the emotional intelligence of a shoe and are about as interesting as one. I’m not celibate but I can’t see myself dating a man in the near future. I’m bi so I’ll just date women instead. Besides, romantic and xesual relationships aren’t necessary to live. Women should not have to put up with male bs. Know your worth and live by it.
 

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xes should come up organically. If you are already establishing rules, you are revealing that you are not really interested in the guy and that you carry emotional baggage.
That's not true. In today's society guys literally consider having xes after talking for two weeks "waiting a long time", that's literally not enough time for me (can't speak for other women). It has nothing to do with emotional baggage.

*I don't really have a dog in this fight, I'm under 25
 
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They have racked up body counts with absolutely nothing to show for it. Now some sucka must pay the piper to get the goods.
And this makes you think they should continue to "rack" them up? Because they have already blown past what you see is a respectable body count?

What do you have to show from your body count? Assuming their past was problematic, why should they not take a better approach to life/xes as they grow?
 

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Probably because they've had xes and been underwhelmed with the experiences and the men so they want to stop. Who cares though. It's their choice ultimately.
Yes! Yes and Yes! I was just thinking about this the other day. Most of the xes that I've had in life was not that great. The experiences that were enjoyable took time and effort to get there. Most men can have an orgasm so easily. Why the hell continue having xes that isn't benefiting me? I'll wait for a partner that really cares about my satisfaction.
 

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