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What's up with overweight women not being attracted to and clowning overweight men? I saw that in real life and in the Smash or Pass forum.
 

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I didn't see the thread you're referring to, but many overweight men have a habit of rejecting/being callous to overweight women. So, if overweight women don't want them, oh well.

Men, even the most dusty, have the nerve to be picky af and see themselves as better than what they actually are. I don't feel sorry for them.
 
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I wonder how two overweight people have xes??

Like, doesn't all the fat get in the way? The excess skin, sweat and exhaustion?

It makes more sense for just one to be big so that the other can better navigate...so perhaps that's the reason?
 

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I didn't see the thread you're referring to, but many overweight men have a habit or rejecting/being callous to overweight women. So, if overweight women don't want them, then oh well.

Men, even the most dusty, have the nerve to be picky af and see themselves as better than what they actually are. I don't feel sorry for them.
The thread was made a while back. And yes, I know men can be picky. But are the handsome men with 6-packs on IG not picky?
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I didn't see the thread you're referring to, but many overweight men have a habit or rejecting/being callous to overweight women. So, if overweight women don't want them, then oh well.

Men, even the most dusty, have the nerve to be picky af and see themselves as better than what they actually are. I don't feel sorry for them.
That is very true. I just remembered yesterday that when I was going through my awkward looking phase in MIDDLE SCHOOL...you know, like normal, so many grown ugly men made mean comments about me. From my neighbor's grandfather to my narcissistic uncle to one random guy off the street.

I was only ugly looking for like 2 years, but I saw the pure disdain a lot of men have for even little girls who they don't think look good...it's nasty. Middle aged and elderly women aren't out here making mean comments about 11 year old boys.
 
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The thread was made a while back. And yes, I know men can be picky. But are the handsome men with 6-packs on IG not picky?
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I don't get your question, because I didn't make a distinction between handsome/non-fat men and fat ones. They all are overly picky and ask way more of women than they demand of themselves. So, there aren't too many men I feel sorry for period when it comes to dating or anything else.
 

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I'm not overweight but it's rare that I see a cute overweight man but women I see it so maybe that's why.
 

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l think its used as a form of control over their already low and poor self esteem, they feel more superior to the obese man, its funny but sad really.

ETA: ALL THOSE WHO DISLIKED ARE FAT AND OVEWEIGHT, GO LOSE SOME WEIGHT !!!!
 
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Male or female, you can't fat shame others when you're fat yourself. You can't ask for what you can't give. And yeah, I've seen both men and women do this and they look stupid.

I'm thinking about Lizzo and her comparing being fat with being Black, who is she attracted to? She's not attracted to fat men, she wants fat positivity just for her. And dudes who do the same are also foolish.
 

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Male or female, you can't fat shame others when you're doing the same yourself. You can't ask for what you can't give. And yeah, I've seen both men and women do this and they look stupid.

I'm thinking about Lizzo and her comparing being fat with being Black, who is she attracted to? She's not attracted to fat men, she wants fat positivity just for her. And dudes who do the same are also foolish.
Yes, in all her music videos, I NEVER have seen an overweight man as a love interest. It's always a muscular, handsome Black man.

She could have a handsome, overweight Black man for TRUE body positivity. Overweight men could also do the same.

EDIT: Most likely neither would ever happen and we know why :disdain
 
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I'm not overweight but it's rare that I see a cute overweight man but women I see it so maybe that's why.
If there are cute overweight women, why would there not be cute overweight men?

Couldn't a man say the same about overweight women? It seems like a way of justifying that you are not attracted to overweight men.
 

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Yes, in all her music videos, I NEVER have seen an overweight man as a love interest. It's always a muscular, handsome Black man.

She could have a handsome, overweight Black man for TRUE body positivity.
And to be fair, I see fat guys do it in their videos. However, I don't see those guys espousing fat acceptance or calling their weight and new fight in the civil rights struggle.
 

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And to be fair, I see fat guys do it in their videos. However, I don't see those guys espousing fat acceptance or calling their weight and new fight in the civil rights struggle.
Lizzo doesn't have overweight men in her videos and her fans hype up handosome FIT men.



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What's up with overweight women not being attracted to and clowning overweight men? I saw that in real life and in the Smash or Pass forum.
Does this forum ever take a break from bashing fat women. Like damn. It's the same for when skinny women aren't attracted to skinny men and bash skinny men's bodies. Big women can have a preference and don't mean they can't because they are big.


I will say as a FAT WOMAN and FAT DARK BROWN SKIN WOMAN. Not plenty of fat men come up talk with me compared to the average size, muscular, or skinny men. It is what it is. I don't bash fat men though nor any men unless they do me wrong or another black woman.

But yea keep reminding FAT BLACK WOMAN how we are undervalued and should be docile because we are FAT.
 

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I don't think anyone should shame people for how their body looks, but I'm also not against women being picky about what they find attractive in a man even if she doesn't physically match him.
Just don't put other people down.
 

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She doesn't,

So basically she's being a hypocrite
No ONE has big men in their videos though and are we really going to go there. How does this logic make sense? Big women suppose to be attracted to big men but no one ridiculue big men for dating smaller women??
 

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Does this forum ever take a break from bashing fat women. Like damn. It's the same for when skinny women aren't attracted to skinny men and bash skinny men's bodies. Big women can have a preference and don't mean they can't because they are big.


I will say as a FAT WOMAN and FAT DARK BROWN SKIN WOMAN. Not plenty of fat men come up talk with me compared to the average size, muscular, or skinny men. It is what it is. I don't bash fat men though nor any men unless they do me wrong or another black woman.

But yea keep reminding FAT BLACK WOMAN how we are undervalued and should be docile because we are FAT.
I am not body shaming or being nasty. I was just curious because I have seen overweight women bash men that are overweight and ugly women bash ugly men. Like make it make sense! But we call out MEN doing this to WOMEN all the time.
 

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I don't think anyone should shame people for how their body looks, but I'm also not against women being picky about what they find attractive in a man even if she doesn't physically match him.
Just don't put other people down.
Thank you. I wonder what the OP looks like for her to feel fat women preference should be only fat men? Are you serious?
They all for women wanting choices with their men unless if it's a big woman then she can't have preference or choices
 

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No ONE has big men in their videos though and are we really going to go there. How does this logic make sense? Big women suppose to be attracted to big men but no one ridiculue big men for dating smaller women??
Go back and read my posts, I said it was foolish when men do it. I said that it was hypocritical when larger men do it to larger women. I find hypocrisy distasteful whoever is doing it.
 

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I am not body shaming or being nasty. I was just curious because I have seen overweight women bash men that are overweight and ugly women bash ugly men. Like make it make sense! But we call out MEN doing this to WOMEN all the time.
You aren't making sense. Have you ever seen the threads in XES alley where women who brag being thin on this board constantly drag the sh!t out of men who are skinny. Are you serious. Make a thread about why they do that and stop targeting fat black women for preference. You all seriously got hang up with fat people
 

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Insecure women make fun of men who are their equivalent to feel better about themselves. And they gas up men they think are superior to them.

Fat women clown fat men while thristing over fit men.

Short women clown short men while only wanting tall men.

Broke women clown broke men while chasing after men with money.
 

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Insecure women make fun of men who are their equivalent to feel better about themselves. And they gas up men they think are superior to them.

Fat women clown fat men while thristing over fit men.

Short women clown short men while only wanting tall men.

Broke women clown broke men while chasing after men with money.
Yeah
Both sides do it and I think it's stupid, men and women alike.
 

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and I hate you all for coming at women like Lizzo and other fat black women who just are loving and existing in their bodies. Does Lizzo possibly troll tf out of yall? Yes. However, sis is in her real body and she seems happy
 

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You aren't making sense. Have you ever seen the threads in XES alley where women who brag being thin on this board constantly drag the sh!t out of men who are skinny. Are you serious. Make a thread about why they do that and stop targeting fat black women for preference. You all seriously got hang up with fat people
I am not in XES alley and only saw people bashing overweight men. That is more common. I'm sure a handsome skinny man can find someone faster than a handsome overweight one. If this triggers you, ask yourself why because I am not being offensive.
 

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Yes, in all her music videos, I NEVER have seen an overweight man as a love interest. It's always a muscular, handsome Black man.

She could have a handsome, overweight Black man for TRUE body positivity.
Gabbi Fresh is the same. Always crying about a lack of fat representation but she only ever uses fit male models in her swimsuit campaigns for plus sized women.
 

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Thank you. I wonder what the OP looks like for her to feel fat women preference should be only fat men? Are you serious?
They all for women wanting choices with their men unless if it's a big woman then she can't have preference or choices
I never said fat women should be only attracted to fat men in my OP. Point me to where I said that? You sound like a fat Black man called out for bashing fat Black women.
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I am not in XES alley and only saw people bashing overweight men. That is more common. I'm sure a handsome skinny man can find someone faster than a handsome overweight one. If this triggers you, ask yourself why because I am not being offensive.
Honey women date some of the ugliest men on this planet because of what we are conditioned to do.
This is why people like Youngboy Never Broke Again has tons of Babymamas
and Biggie smalls and Fat Joe were seen as male xes symbols.

However Lizzo and other fat black women are seen less than. Cut it out
 

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I never said fat women should be only attracted to fat men in my OP. Point me to where I said that? You sound like a fat Black man called out for bashing fat Black women.
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This thread was made at the fact you found it strange for fat black women to have a preference and that they make fun of fat men. The same can be said about anyone. Not just fat women. Leave us alone and stay tf off our clit for godsakes
 

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I'm not fat and not sure what your statement has to do with my post. Carry on!!
You said everyone has the right to be attracted to whoever they want , i said then stop complainging about fat-shaming , men have the right to not be attracted to fat WOMEN and demand for slimmer ones, since they themselves fat-shame overrweight men . I dint say you were fat but responded to your claim .
 

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