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No. The men in his family took me into the kitchen for a meeting and made me sit down and told me that they want me to marry him and that he is entitled to a second household.
I wasn’t even dating him, nor considering him as more than covert dk.

no more aytien men for me.
 

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Not trying to, I only met one.
So we’re generalizing a whole group of men now? My answer is yes

Yes, I most definitely could. What kind of a stupid ass question is that???
I was asking because I had a bad experience with my ex, I can't believe you just cussed me out after we had a pleasant conversation through pm a few months ago.
 

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Not trying to, I only met one.



I was asking because I had a bad experience with my ex, I can't believe you just cussed me out after we had a pleasant conversation through pm a few months ago.
So because you had a bad experience with one man, you want to extrapolate to every single man from the ethnic group he belongs to? That's called prejudice, dear. There is such a thing as human individuality.

I can't say that I remember that conversation but if we did have a pleasant one, that event does not reward you with everlasting immunity from criticism over dumb comments, lol.
 

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So because you had a bad experience with one man, you want to extrapolate to every single man from his ethnic group???

I can't say that I remember that conversation but if we did have a pleasant one, that event does not reward you with everlasting immunity from criticism over dumb comments, lol.
I didn't mean it like that, the relationship really threw me for a loop and he was the first Haitian I've ever even met.
 

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I would have to marry a Haitian American or Americanized one. They are TOO traditional and the one's I've seen in my family are babied, can't cook and are messy. You gotta do some housework to be with me and I ain't cooking diri, sos pwa, legume every day or having 4-5 kids (they fertile as hell.)
 

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Sure, why not?

Me: Do you love me?

My hypothetical Haitian boyfriend: i luv u beby long time
 

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On behalf of this daughter, granddaughter, sister, niece, cousin, aunt, and friend of excellent Haitian men, I can only hope you realize that if you are on these here skreets, chances are you know first hand how dumb and dangerous generalizations are against a ppl.

Don't let one bad person take your power and a make you into a generalizing fool.
 

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What is the correlation between being Haitian and being a narc?

I only know one Haitian man. He's affectionate, driven, and can cook. I'd husband him up. Also, I may or may not be slightly shallow and flying a nice flag may or may not give a man bonus points in my eyes. The Haitian flag is dope.
 

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No. The men in his family took me into the kitchen for a meeting and made me sit down and told me that they want me to marry him and that he is entitled to a second household.
I wasn’t even dating him, nor considering him as more than covert dk.

no more aytien men for me.
Omg how did you handle it?
 

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I met most of my Haitian female friends in graduate school and none of them date Haitian men. From what I've heard, Haitian men might be good providers, but they're terrible womanizers, misogynists and they have very unhealthy relationships with money.
 

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Hell no. Absolute trash. Even their own women acknowledge this.
you can say this about all men...but that being said cultural differences are real. I wouldn't marry someone from another background/culture I didn't know well or I didn't gel with.
 

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I almost did until I found out he was still talking to other women. Other than that he was damn near perfect for me. We're still good pals.

I know lots of Haitian men and every one of them is a damn good provider and father, doesn't mind cooking, etc. Most of them have traditional values but infidelity is common from what I have observed.
 

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I met most of my Haitian female friends in graduate school and none of them date Haitian men. From what I've heard, Haitian men might be good providers, but they're terrible womanizers, misogynists and they have very unhealthy relationships with money.
I have girlfriends that have been happily married with professional Haitian men for years, men with stable careers, no outside children... We don't keep in touch as often as I'd like as they have children and I don't, but none of these men are mysogynists who can't cook, don't do household work or have a bad relationship with money. Perhaps your female friends are being unrealistic in thinking that the grass is always greener elsewhere
 

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Lol us Haitian men are awesome. Once we settle down, we are devoted to family.

There are different types of Haitian American men.

You have those dread heads vagabond lazy complete losers whose parents hide due to shame. Avoid those at all cost because the way they act they know their parents disapprove

You have the new immigrant working multiple jobs to provide for his family. The one with the strong accent. They will work to see their family happy. Highly like to be very traditional and religious.

Then you have the one who move here at a younger age, very educated and successful.

So we come in all flavors. I am bi cultural and can fit into both crowds, not religious, I am cheap as fk lol although very driven.

As long as you avoid the losers like kodak black, you will be in good hands.
 

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I almost did until I found out he was still talking to other women. Other than that he was damn near perfect for me. We're still good pals.

I know lots of Haitian men and every one of them is a damn good provider and father, doesn't mind cooking, etc. Most of them have traditional values but infidelity is common from what I have observed.
True. Caribbean men do tend to be womanizers. But there are good ones out there, lol. There are different types of personalities, just like in any culture. The key like for any man is to find someone whose values align with yours and who is headed in a similar direction in life, lol.
 

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Maybe I would, but I’m not 100% sure. What I’ve heard about them so far makes me want to run! But I feel like they’re very charming and I melt easy.
 

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