So we’re generalizing a whole group of men now? My answer is yes
I was asking because I had a bad experience with my ex, I can't believe you just cussed me out after we had a pleasant conversation through pm a few months ago.Yes, I most definitely could. What kind of a stupid ass question is that???
he's a great uncle and a hard worker who's devoted to his family. You cant assume every Haitian man will be a Narc.Really? What's he like?
So because you had a bad experience with one man, you want to extrapolate to every single man from the ethnic group he belongs to? That's called prejudice, dear. There is such a thing as human individuality.Not trying to, I only met one.
I was asking because I had a bad experience with my ex, I can't believe you just cussed me out after we had a pleasant conversation through pm a few months ago.
I didn't mean it like that, the relationship really threw me for a loop and he was the first Haitian I've ever even met.So because you had a bad experience with one man, you want to extrapolate to every single man from his ethnic group???
I can't say that I remember that conversation but if we did have a pleasant one, that event does not reward you with everlasting immunity from criticism over dumb comments, lol.
Hell no. Absolute trash. Even their own women acknowledge this.I had a relationship with one, not easy. I think he was a narc.
Omg how did you handle it?No. The men in his family took me into the kitchen for a meeting and made me sit down and told me that they want me to marry him and that he is entitled to a second household.
I wasn’t even dating him, nor considering him as more than covert dk.
no more aytien men for me.
you can say this about all men...but that being said cultural differences are real. I wouldn't marry someone from another background/culture I didn't know well or I didn't gel with.Hell no. Absolute trash. Even their own women acknowledge this.
I have girlfriends that have been happily married with professional Haitian men for years, men with stable careers, no outside children... We don't keep in touch as often as I'd like as they have children and I don't, but none of these men are mysogynists who can't cook, don't do household work or have a bad relationship with money. Perhaps your female friends are being unrealistic in thinking that the grass is always greener elsewhereI met most of my Haitian female friends in graduate school and none of them date Haitian men. From what I've heard, Haitian men might be good providers, but they're terrible womanizers, misogynists and they have very unhealthy relationships with money.
True. Caribbean men do tend to be womanizers. But there are good ones out there, lol. There are different types of personalities, just like in any culture. The key like for any man is to find someone whose values align with yours and who is headed in a similar direction in life, lol.I almost did until I found out he was still talking to other women. Other than that he was damn near perfect for me. We're still good pals.
I know lots of Haitian men and every one of them is a damn good provider and father, doesn't mind cooking, etc. Most of them have traditional values but infidelity is common from what I have observed.
Haitian men --- at least the ones in NYC is fine, but that as far as it goes for me!
I could only marry a Haitian man if he has no mother.... They baby their sons and abuse their daughter in law to death