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They’re lying to make themselves feel better and protect their egos. Black men subconsciously see both white women and men are a prize that only the “best” of us can attract. A Black man once said in a video I watched that the only reason Tika Sumpter attracted a white man is because she’s exceptionally beautiful, yet women they consider “ugly” like Serena and Gabourey are also with white men. And suddenly they “always loved” Serena and are disappointed.

Black men are essentially admitting they don’t believe Black women are as beautiful as women of other races. A beautiful woman attracts men of various races. Most Black men don’t think we’re beautiful on average and they definitely don’t love us. They just feel entitled to us.

I actually see more Black women and especially the pick-me “Black love only” types having to holler at Black men for attention and constantly announce how much they love Black men, while getting ignored by those same men.
 

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They been using them tired floating head and Kanye shrug reaction memes since 2009
Like how do you use the same folder of reaction memes for 10+ years
Idk why but they annoy me lol
 

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I’ve been lurking the Coli too. I’ve seen some of comments they make about BW and some of them are pretty dismissive of colorism and playing into our stereotypes. It’s fµcked up. I’ve also seen threads of them making light of rape and lusting after minors or trying to justify lusting after minors. I don’t go on there anymore. They’re pretty sick.
 

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I don’t think bw are usually the initiators. I do think there is a ton of online traffic that appears to be from bw asking about dating white guys. Would a white guy date me with a weave, if I’m thick, bow legged and black. I see it on Reddit a lot and here, and the chatter on social media about it. So it’s a lot of loud movement that could give the impression that bw are desperate for any attention from non-blacks. It’s a double edged sword because a lot of bw are looking to try something different but there are a lot of subversive forces at play. The coli is one of them in my opinion.
 

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It’s an abusive relationship.

Black men will continue to sh!t on black women because there are black women who proudly proclaim to love black men and black men ONLY and will still go to bat for them.

Not me though.
Y’all be easy lol

The whole black community operates like a dv couple
 
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Have you all seen the KS thread on that site lately. Filled with comments about how bw are rude, how we ruin their lives as teachers and in the corporate world. How pass 30 the woman is damaged goods. How most bw don’t chose right. How nonbw are better. They even talk about weave as usual. And then you have a female commenting and co-signing them throwing other bw on the bus. She is despicable and they are too.

They are so delusional that they actually said that “Kevin genuinely wants BM and BW to be together and happy, but he's trying to get BW to be more realistic about their expectations, standards, and demands.”

It’s like that don’t see how it’s causing more bw to turn away from them. It’s also revealing that many of them are bitter because they don’t meet woman’s standards.
 

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This is false af! As someone who lives in a predominantly white town, White men..no matter how they look ..including no teeth stank breath and stringy hair will come up to you and holla. Ive been asked out by so many old ugly white men, white husbands, young white men etc. they have no problem asking or pursuing

its the audacity for me that they even think they would have a chanvce with a pretty black woman like me when some dont even consider personal hygiene in their realm
Do worthy white men ever approach you?
 

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Ew, the coli. You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy.

You have to take stuff from over there with a grain of salt. Consider the source.
 

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I’ve been lurking the Coli too. I’ve seen some of comments they make about BW and some of them are pretty dismissive of colorism and playing into our stereotypes. It’s fµcked up. I’ve also seen threads of them making light of rape and lusting after minors or trying to justify lusting after minors. I don’t go on there anymore. They’re pretty sick.

This is just what they really think when they don’t have to be “on their best behavior” in front of women in order to game us. Putting up a front, essentially
 

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They’re lying to make themselves feel better and protect their egos. Black men subconsciously see both white women and men are a prize that only the “best” of us can attract. A Black man once said in a video I watched that the only reason Tika Sumpter attracted a white man is because she’s exceptionally beautiful, yet women they consider “ugly” like Serena and Gabourey are also with white men. And suddenly they “always loved” Serena and are disappointed.

Black men are essentially admitting they don’t believe Black women are as beautiful as women of other races. A beautiful woman attracts men of various races. Most Black men don’t think we’re beautiful on average and they definitely don’t love us. They just feel entitled to us.

I actually see more Black women and especially the pick-me “Black love only” types having to holler at Black men for attention and constantly announce how much they love Black men, while getting ignored by those same men.

I remember a thread where they were so ecstatic about white men loving Whitney. They were literally flabbergasted like 'Whitney is soooo beautiful she had every white man obsessed with her in the 80s'. To them someone isn't beautiful until it is affirmed by white men. They can't value black women because the collective of white men hasn't pedestalized them.


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(This is his clothing line)
 

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Have you all seen the KS thread on that site lately. Filled with comments about how bw are rude, how we ruin their lives as teachers and in the corporate world. How pass 30 the woman is damaged goods. How most bw don’t chose right. How nonbw are better. They even talk about weave as usual. And then you have a female commenting and co-signing them throwing other bw on the bus. She is despicable and they are too.

They are so delusional that they actually said that “Kevin genuinely wants BM and BW to be together and happy, but he's trying to get BW to be more realistic about their expectations, standards, and demands.”

It’s like that don’t see how it’s causing more bw to turn away from them. It’s also revealing that many of them are bitter because they don’t meet woman’s standards.
It’s basically the Twilight Zone or Upside Down World over there lol. They are all delusional... And notice how they can never account for their hypocrisy like for instance they applauded Lil Wayne for marrying but his white wife is overweight/BBW, over 30yrs old and a single mother....all the things they shame and blame black women for. They can never keep their narratives straight bc if they did it would reveal just how much they devalue black women and hold us to standards that they don’t hold white and other non-black women to....because they simply value whiteness/proximity to whiteness over blackness (on women). We don’t even need them to verbally admit this tho bc their actions do a fine job of that.

I knew they lacked self-awareness as well as social awareness but now I’m starting to wonder if some of them have mental health issues. This is not normal.
 
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Black women over there are subservient af. They don’t say sh!t if they get insulted like this lol. I mean in general they’re nice to the women posters there but still. Look at lipstick alley. If black men get insulted, they fight for themselves.

The black women over there believe "they aint talking about me"
 

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A lot of black women think like this, unfortunately.
Its funny how these men can identify with black men being (supposedly) kicked out of the house in the 60s and 70s, they can identify with black men who were (supposedly) being dragged on day time Talk shows in the 80s and 90s but black women can never identify with the women of today, who look like them, who these men are talking about.... in real time.

Too many black women are enemies of other black women.

Tyrones with Tittays.
 

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Ive said that black womens relationship with black men is BDSM

I don't know if you are joking here but this analogy is accurate. When you look at the dynamics in cultures such as mine. Instead of these women to admit they simply enjoy degradation as a kink they normalise the awful dynamics and force other women including their children into these terrible relationships.
 

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Have you all seen the KS thread on that site lately. Filled with comments about how bw are rude, how we ruin their lives as teachers and in the corporate world. How pass 30 the woman is damaged goods. How most bw don’t chose right. How nonbw are better. They even talk about weave as usual. And then you have a female commenting and co-signing them throwing other bw on the bus. She is despicable and they are too.

They are so delusional that they actually said that “Kevin genuinely wants BM and BW to be together and happy, but he's trying to get BW to be more realistic about their expectations, standards, and demands.”

It’s like that don’t see how it’s causing more bw to turn away from them. It’s also revealing that many of them are bitter because they don’t meet woman’s standards.
kev samuels is actually great pr for the divest movement..........his bµllsh!t is spilling over into real life, and black males are more vocal offline about their support for him......which is great, because i would rather black males be upfront when dealing with black women in person, vs their usual game/pimp bµllsh!t........black males don't realize it now, but they will eventually, because it is causing more mules to shed their capes and never look back.......

with the current racial climate and kev samuels rhetoric going on at the same time, its causing lightbulbs to finally go off in alot of black women heads, and they are finally putting the pieces together........when black women think deeply on it, and when the smoke clears, alot of black women will realize that 'woke' black women have been right all along.......
 

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we need a official coli discussion thread........



GodsPerspective said:
This is what makes black women mad tbh. It’s all rooted in jealousy regarding the black man. They are hurt. You see, NO MATTER what people say, it’s an undeniable fact that black men are amongst the highest in the totem pole when it comes to masculinity and attraction to opposite xes, black women on the other hand are at the bottom. This ain’t an insult, it’s a fact.
So black women grow up seeing brothers dating outside their race, fukking other women, while they’re relegated to jump off/baby mama status. Not to mention that they not really getting attention like that from other races of men so it truly cuts deep. We need to understand why black women act and feel the way they do and humble ourselves when communicating with them so as to not destroy their self esteem even further

taken from this thread, that i am just starting.......

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/bla...****-fakkit-named-the-godsperspective.756180/
 

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kev samuels is actually great pr for the divest movement..........his bµllsh!t is spilling over into real life, and black males are more vocal offline about their support for him......which is great, because i would rather black males be upfront when dealing with black women in person, vs their usual game/pimp bµllsh!t........black males don't realize it now, but they will eventually, because it is causing more mules to shed their capes and never look back.......

with the current racial climate and kev samuels rhetoric going on at the same time, its causing lightbulbs to finally go off in alot of black women heads, and they are finally putting the pieces together........when black women think deeply on it, and when the smoke clears, alot of black women will realize that 'woke' black women have been right all along.......
Coco there’s relatives who support him ma’m. So yes and there’s outside black males who watches KS . We done told these black women theres a lot of black men who think like these KS, Migtows ETC. they just don’t say nothing in their faces and a lot of those type of men are in these black women families too.
 

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The black women over there believe "they aint talking about me"
I remember seeing a picture thread years ago on there. Most of the black women on there are either light skin j or mixed from what I saw. We all subconsciously know most of the negative propaganda being spread about black women is really only directed towards those of a certain phenotype...even if they swear that ain’t the case.
The black women on that site don’t care because they been conditioned to believe that they are better and set apart from the rest of black women.
 

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Ok. After they are done with that conversation, can they go learn how to build something?

The conversations of some of these black men are so trivial. They stay talking about grade school BS.
It’s crazy! Grown ass men in their 40’s like Joe Budden, Kevin Samuel getting together to talk about dating and rating women. Men of their age should think that those type convo is childish.
 
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It’s crazy! Grown ass men in their 40’s like Joe Budden, Kevin Samuel getting together to talk about dating and rating women. Men of their age should that those type convo childish.
It’s so ridiculous men should be discussing education, sports, finance, paying their child support, mentorship for you black boys, how to be better fathers, how they can improve the black community etc.
 

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It’s so ridiculous men should be discussing education, sports, finance, paying their child support, mentorship for you black boys, how to be better fathers, how they can improve the black community etc.
the only thing that black males universally bond over is keeping blakistan in existence.......its a very telling mindset.......the muling machine is their bread and butter, and they know it......
 

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the only thing that black males universally bond over is keeping blakistan in existence.......its a very telling mindset.......the muling machine is their bread and butter, and they know it......

A very pathetic goal. They don’t even believe in themselves and it’s obvious.

And once the mulling machine runs out what will they do? I know you said sink or swim but I think it’ll be very dangerous for black women. More increased violence probably.
 

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If I can be bothered quoting them I will but there was another ecoli thread where they were promoting eugenics to the ones who didn’t want to go white ‘like brehs find a light skinned woman with a 'strong blue eye gene' to have prettier babies’. Which is ignorant because no matter how ambiguous she is doesn't ensure the ambiguity of your kids; genetics can go either way. Look at Gloria Govans kids who look pure African. Their obsession with labeling non blacks as black is weird. ‘ She’s not white she’s Italian’ like wtf? Always projecting onto black women.
 
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A very pathetic goal. They don’t even believe in themselves and it’s obvious.

And once the mulling machine runs out what will they do? I know you said sink or swim but I think it’ll be very dangerous for black women. More increased violence probably.
black males don't believe in themselves, and black women don't believe in the black male as well, hence all of the coddling and muling......yes this is a very dangerous time for black women divested or not......i and alot of other posters keep sounding the alarm on this increased violence thats coming, but black women as a collective don't seem to be that much worried about it........

this will be another case of black women complaining and crying 'after the fact' instead of heeding warnings early.....black women will never learn......
 

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black males don't believe in themselves, and black women don't believe in the black male as well, hence all of the coddling and muling......yes this is a very dangerous time for black women divested or not......i and alot of other posters keep sounding the alarm on this increased violence thats coming, but black women as a collective don't seem to be that much worried about it........

this will be another case of black women complaining and crying 'after the fact' instead of heeding warnings early.....black women will never learn......
Obscenely true.

A very dangerous time. We should start making plans of protection.

They keep telling us to choose better but when they’re no longer being choose; we know what will happen. I hate to say this but we need to keep a couple mules and preferences as the sacrificial lambs.

We know what happened historically during xes strikes :censored:
 

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So...the Coli insults BW and LSA insults BM. All of this over our perceived desirability to nonblack people. And we wonder why we don't prosper.
 

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kev samuels is actually great pr for the divest movement..........his bµllsh!t is spilling over into real life, and black males are more vocal offline about their support for him......which is great, because i would rather black males be upfront when dealing with black women in person, vs their usual game/pimp bµllsh!t........black males don't realize it now, but they will eventually, because it is causing more mules to shed their capes and never look back.......

with the current racial climate and kev samuels rhetoric going on at the same time, its causing lightbulbs to finally go off in alot of black women heads, and they are finally putting the pieces together........when black women think deeply on it, and when the smoke clears, alot of black women will realize that 'woke' black women have been right all along.......

That's not fair because some of our brothers lack self-awareness. It is basically cheating.
 

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They’re lying to make themselves feel better and protect their egos. Black men subconsciously see both white women and men are a prize that only the “best” of us can attract. A Black man once said in a video I watched that the only reason Tika Sumpter attracted a white man is because she’s exceptionally beautiful, yet women they consider “ugly” like Serena and Gabourey are also with white men. And suddenly they “always loved” Serena and are disappointed.

Black men are essentially admitting they don’t believe Black women are as beautiful as women of other races. A beautiful woman attracts men of various races. Most Black men don’t think we’re beautiful on average and they definitely don’t love us. They just feel entitled to us.

I actually see more Black women and especially the pick-me “Black love only” types having to holler at Black men for attention and constantly announce how much they love Black men, while getting ignored by those same men.



I think this is what it boils down to

These men are ashamed to be group with us, not because all of the bogus and over-inflated stereotypes about us but, because they genuinely do not find us attractive and therefore, worthy of humanity

They do to us the same things whites do to them; they put forth negative stereotypes and confirmation-biased anecdotes as a way to justify neglecting and publicly degrading us so that they don't have to feel bad about it

Such sickness and toxic mentalities

Stay far far away from these men ladies and proper gents!
 

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Black men put white women and white men on a pedestal, theres some threads here of people asking how atract white man but i think these fonts arent even black women, or women with very low self esteem or young girls, the black women of real life, the ones who really date out, dont act like that because they know they can atract any man.
 
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The running theme = inferiority complex
instead of them just to admit that they feel subpar to wm, why drag bw into the equation pls
 

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