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"Yourselves"? Who? Straight women? How would heterosexual men and women stop DV among lesbians? You aren't making any sense. You want heterosexual women to understand DV among lesbians to help you stop DV in your heterosexual male/female relationships?? HUH?



No I want yull to stop associating violence against women as just a men's thing because women are just as guilty of this as we do men that way we can finally focus on the real reason behind it and the way to fight it
 

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#ProtectBlackWomen movement is eerily silent about women on women violence in same xes relationships. It's almost like they only care about black women's safety when they're being abused/killed by men or something.

Protect Black Women is about misogynoir perpetuated against cis het (usually) black women. Misogynoir can only be perpetuated by men, so duh I guess... it's giving 'how can you be black lives matter but quiet about black on black violence'. False equivalences...

In general, people don't care about issues facing the LGBT community outside of 'love is love' hence why something like this wouldn't be in the mainstream. However, the community have discussions about this.
 

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Actually, she wasn't that masculine, she wasn't a stud/butch or anything of the sort. She was just a very athletic, physically strong woman.

But to answer your question, masculinity isn't solely the domain of men IMO. There are masculine energies and then there are feminine energies, both men and women can embody both.

Interesting
Have you ever dated men? if so what is the difference between being with one and these type of women?
 

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No I want yull to stop associating violence against women as just a men's thing because women are just as guilty of this as we do men that way we can finally focus on the real reason behind it and the way to fight it
No. Just no. Years of oppression, gender-based violence, femicide, pillaging, rape, xes trafficking, xesual slavery, child rape, genital mutilation, forced marriage, and molestation I can go on and on and I'm not even including the violence men inflict on other men and boys, will EVER compare to DV among women, which is already taken from a very small minority.
 

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Actually, she wasn't that masculine, she wasn't a stud/butch or anything of the sort. She was just a very athletic, physically strong woman.

But to answer your question, masculinity isn't solely the domain of men IMO. There are masculine energies and then there are feminine energies, both men and women can embody both.
Please don't continue entertaining this weirdo.
 

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The way OP keeps showing their hand lmaooo smh


The PO is trying to tell you that domestic violence is not a male or female issue is a human issue and the reason behind this behavior may have more to do with something more social or cultural other than all the toxic masculinity or misogynist evil or whatever name you like to give men about these stuff unfortunately women aren't good at Self reflection you guys enjoy pointing fingers more
 

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I was just having this discussion with my sis bc I was watching ezee & natalie's recent vid (don't know what started the covo), but crazy how a thread was made

ETA: oh and op, I peep you don't give a fck about same xes dv just want to one up them. As for the fonts glad y'all not falling for it
I don’t know if it’s something most people focus on or realize. I’ve always heard that but I don’t know any lesbians or women in lesbian relationships in real life where I’ve actually witnessed it. It’s always word of mouth and a stud is usually involved.

I’m starting to see that people don’t take it seriously because it’s technically two girls but if you think about it how many women have you encountered or heard about in your life time(heterosexual as well) who go off at the drop of a dime at their male partners and go in fits of rage and start destroying property, hitting their spouses when they get angry. I would imagine it would work the same in a lesbian relationship.

I got into Glamazontay’s YT videos a few months ago and her recent vid with her and her “boo” was just DV all over it. She slapped the hell out her gf while drunk and her gf started choking her and throwing her on the ground…. Later on ended up yoking another woman up by her neck as well. I was just in disbelief how normalized it is. If someone slaps me or hits me period I was raised to tear their ass up in return. Since it’s another woman where is the line drawn? Because when I’m attacked I’m beating your ass to hurt you not to get you off of me.
And crazy how I was discussing them too. I watched it too and I was shocked when they disclosed that info in a laughing manner. Now if this was a man in the nba (since Court in the wnba) there would be hella outrage; but bc they're both women it's all sh!ts & giggles...

Idk if it's bc they themselves don't see it as dv and just two women going back n forth or the fact that society doesnt see it as hetero dv
 

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Why are there a bunch of men and straight women arguing on DV in lesbian relationships? As if y'all give a f*ck. Y'all don't care when it's straight women. Sounds like a way to be misogynistic and homophobic. Mind y'all business.

Eta: @madness116 skeptical yourself tf out of lesbian business.

@Kenny cash ^ same goes, creep.
 
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Why are there a bunch of men and straight women arguing on DV in lesbian relationships? As if y'all give a f*ck. Y'all don't care when it's straight women. Sounds like a way to be misogynistic and homophobic. Mind y'all business.

Eta: @madness116 skeptical yourself tf out of lesbian business.

this thread wasn't about the LGBT issue but about women who are violent and abusive towards other women who just happen to be lesbians and I'm pretty sure it's not unique to them, women can be just as violent and abusive as men hence a little bit of Self reflection won't hurt anyone
 

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OP just found out that there isn't much of a difference between men and women on these topics except yull lack of self reflection. You want men to understand of stop something you aren't even capable of stopping among yourselves
If this is about 2 women why are you making it about men? You're responses are making me lose brain cells just like the men under the twitter post basically saying "that's what you get for dating another women," As if people of all genders can't be violent towards each other or one another.


What happened to this women is horrible and the person who did it should be turned in immediately.
 
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If this is about 2 women why are you making it about men? You're responses are making me lose brain cells just like the men under the twitter post basically saying "that's what you get for dating another women," As if people of all genders can't be violent towards each other or one another.


What happened to this women is horrible and the person who did it should be turned in immediately.

I did not make it about men, some of you in here did by the second comment, women love to question men and point fingers at them, but you guys always gone into insult mode when men question you back.
 

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Sadly it isn’t seen in the same light as a man hurting a woman. Just as women who attack men are laughed off. Women are seen as weak and feeble, so there’s no way a woman could possibly inflict much damage. Never mind the number of men who’s been killed, maimed or seriously hurt by women. In court I’ve seen women get a slap on the wrist for slashing other women. The incidents were downright brutal. Cutting their face. Hair. Leaving visible scars to make them not be attractive.

One woman beat her ex and put a curling iron inside of her. Then turned it on. She said if she couldn’t have her, she’ll never be able to enjoy another bitchs finger or tongue inside of her. I’m not in contact with her anymore but she’s suffered psychologically, heavily, because of what her ex did. Another woman put glue all over her girlfriends pubic hair and then spread it over her vagina opening. She knew she was bi when they met, but got jealous when she saw her with a man.

Jails are full of abusive women who harmed girlfriends. We need to change the mindset that women don’t or can’t hurt a woman as badly as a man could. They may not use fists but knives, guns, feet and other weapons hurt more. My niece have so many scars from girlfriends attacking her, before she realized she needed to leave the mentally immature alone and find a grown woman with all her facilities intact.
 

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this thread wasn't about the LGBT issue but about women who are violent and abusive towards other women who just happen to be lesbians and I'm pretty sure it's not unique to them, women can be just as violent and abusive as men hence a little bit of Self reflection won't hurt anyone
Blah blah blah, mind your business. You're not a woman, you're not a lesbian. You don't give af. You're a misogynistic homophobe obsessed with women. Mind your f*cking business.
 

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It turns out that women can be just as violent as men against other women,

how do you decide on who's the dog when it is two women unlike with man who are often seen by society as more dominant?





This is weird
Instead of just posing a valid question about same xes domestic violence,
You FIRST had to make a comparison between men and women.
Then you asked some obtuse question about a dog,
And made another comparison between men and women

Makes me think you really don’t care about women and just want to validate or excuse men by putting women on equal footing.

who’s the dog?
Again, such a weird question.
Do you not already know that the one who initiates violence is the one in the wrong?

Also Law enforcement will usually arrest the person who inflicted visible damage, regardless of xes.
 

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not to be ignorant but how common is physical abuse in lesbian relationships?

43.8% of lesbian women and 61.1% of bisexual women have experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner at some point in their lifetime, as opposed to 35% of heterosexual women

adding
Want to clear something up about statistics
About 1% of women are lesbian.
I’d say 92% of women are heterosexual.
5% are bisexual
By raw numbers,
More heterosexual women are abused than gay or bisexual women.
 
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When will this website finally ban all males? Ugh.

The TLDR of all OP’s posts is an attempt to argue “bUT WoMEN ARe jUsT as VioLENt TOO.” Males commit 96% of domestic violence cases according to federal data. So just fµck!ng stop.

 
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This is weird
Instead of just posing a valid question about same xes domestic violence,
You FIRST had to make a comparison between men and women.
Then you asked some obtuse question about a dog,
And made another comparison between men and women

Makes me think you really don’t care about women and just want to validate or excuse men by putting women on equal footing.

who’s the dog?
Again, such a weird question.
Do you not already know that the one who initiates violence is the one in the wrong?

Also Law enforcement will usually arrest the person who inflicted visible damage, regardless of xes.

that was the whole premise of my posts, namely that domestic violence is not a male against female issue as yull love to make it out to be, but rather a human issue, and understanding this will allow us to come together to better to fight against it.

Until now, the problem of domestic violence when it come to yull was all about men being dogs and evil abusers instead of human being abusing each others.
 

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I Want to reiterate that women are not just as violent as men.


…i create this thread to give you an pportunity to teach me including other men so that we can care about the subject as much as you do…

You are being phony
you are not giving anyone the opportunity to do sh!t.
There have been several threads about same xes violence on LSA you could have searched and read.
There are several agencies that deal with same xes violence you could have engaged with.
No one, especially no one on the internet, should do anything for you that you won’t do for yourself.

Your intentions were sh!t.
You can have an honest conversation about violence in humanity without all the bµllsh!t.

I find it further disingenuous to proclaim that women are just as violent as men
And then claim that women ignore women on women violence.
It’s clear that you are a straight man and has never been in LGB+ circles or else you would know that same xes violence is a reoccurring discussion.

No one expects you to care about anything.
What is expected is for you not to put your hands on anyone unless in self defense.
That’s it. Low expectations.

It would be too much to ask for you to intervene and deescalate when you see violence happening.
Again, the best you can do is keep your hands to yourself
and unless you intend to gain awareness and actually help, mind your own business.

About your daughter…
I’ll pray for her, that she doesn’t have to endure your bµllsh!t or is at least smart enough to see it for what it is.
If you refuse to do it, find someone who will teach her to respect herself and demand respect from others.
Teach her common courtesy and dignity. For herself and others.
Teach her to never allow violence of any kind from anyone, physical or verbal.
Teach her how to resolve conflict without violence or manipulation.
Low expectations
 

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When will this website finally ban all males? Ugh.

The TLDR of all OP’s posts is an attempt to argue “bUT WoMEN ARe jUsT as VioLENt TOO.” Males commit 96% of domestic violence cases according to federal data. So just fµck!ng stop.


heterosexual relationships are also 98% in the same data, so your result makes sense. the question you need to ask yourself instead is whether women are just as likely to abuse other women as men can and the answer to this question can reveal a lot of long held misconception
 

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heterosexual relationships are also 98% in the same data, so your result makes sense. the question you need to ask yourself instead is whether women are just as likely to abuse other women as men can and the answer to this question can reveal a lot of long held misconception
Bruh, the only ones with misconceptions are ignorant straight people such as yourself.
Again, Mind your straight business.

You don’t care enough to do anything about same xes violence so shut up about it.
And especially, stop trying to use LGB+ issues to your benefit.
if you want to argue about violence against men, argue about that.
you don’t give a fµck about gay people. Keep us out your mouth.
 

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Blah blah blah, mind your business. You're not a woman, you're not a lesbian. You don't give af. You're a misogynistic homophobe obsessed with women. Mind your f*cking business.

you are certainly not a man either but that has never stop you from making thread after thread on the about men and create all sort of evil label about us, don't be rude sis, be mature instead
 

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you are certainly not a man either but that has never stop you from making thread after thread on the about men and create all sort of evil label about us, don't be rude sis, be mature instead
Who are you talking to?
Let’s do an experiment
Search our names, or whomever you were taking to specifically.
Find the threads they made about men and post them here…
I’ll wait.
 
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Bruh, the only ones with misconceptions are ignorant straight people such as yourself.
Again, Mind your straight business.

You don’t care enough to do anything about same xes violence so shut up about it.
And especially, stop trying to use LGB+ issues to your benefit.
if you want to argue about violence against men, argue about that.
you don’t give a fµck about gay people. Keep us out your mouth.

I Want to reiterate that women are not just as violent as men.




You are being phony
you are not giving anyone the opportunity to do sh!t.
There have been several threads about same xes violence on LSA you could have searched and read.
There are several agencies that deal with same xes violence you could have engaged with.
No one, especially no one on the internet, should do anything for you that you won’t do for yourself.

Your intentions were sh!t.
You can have an honest conversation about violence in humanity without all the bµllsh!t.

I find it further disingenuous to proclaim that women are just as violent as men
And then claim that women ignore women on women violence.
It’s clear that you are a straight man and has never been in LGB+ circles or else you would know that same xes violence is a reoccurring discussion.

No one expects you to care about anything.
What is expected is for you not to put your hands on anyone unless in self defense.
That’s it. Low expectations.

It would be too much to ask for you to intervene and deescalate when you see violence happening.
Again, the best you can do is keep your hands to yourself
and unless you intend to gain awareness and actually help, mind your own business.

About your daughter…
I’ll pray for her, that she doesn’t have to endure your bµllsh!t or is at least smart enough to see it for what it is.
If you refuse to do it, find someone who will teach her to respect herself and demand respect from others.
Teach her common courtesy and dignity. For herself and others.
Teach her to never allow violence of any kind from anyone, physical or verbal.
Teach her how to resolve conflict without violence or manipulation.
Low expectations


my focus wans't on same xes or LGBQ issues, my focus was on abusive and violent women and the root cause of it, the same way many of you like to find out the root cause of the violence from men i think you guys need to also explore the root cause of violence from women, some of you can be real hardcord thugs just as us men
 

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Sadly it isn’t seen in the same light as a man hurting a woman. Just as women who attack men are laughed off. Women are seen as weak and feeble, so there’s no way a woman could possibly inflict much damage. Never mind the number of men who’s been killed, maimed or seriously hurt by women. In court I’ve seen women get a slap on the wrist for slashing other women. The incidents were downright brutal. Cutting their face. Hair. Leaving visible scars to make them not be attractive.

One woman beat her ex and put a curling iron inside of her. Then turned it on. She said if she couldn’t have her, she’ll never be able to enjoy another bitchs finger or tongue inside of her. I’m not in contact with her anymore but she’s suffered psychologically, heavily, because of what her ex did. Another woman put glue all over her girlfriends pubic hair and then spread it over her vagina opening. She knew she was bi when they met, but got jealous when she saw her with a man.

Jails are full of abusive women who harmed girlfriends. We need to change the mindset that women don’t or can’t hurt a woman as badly as a man could. They may not use fists but knives, guns, feet and other weapons hurt more. My niece have so many scars from girlfriends attacking her, before she realized she needed to leave the mentally immature alone and find a grown woman with all her facilities intact.


many of these types of women have children who internalize this type of violent behavior and become psychopaths
 

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my focus wans't on same xes or LGBQ issues, my focus was on abusive and violent women and the root cause of it, the same way many of you like to find out the root cause of the violence from men i think you guys need to also explore the root cause of violence from women, some of you can be real hardcord thugs just as us men
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Honesty is hard for you, huh?
Again, we guys, lgb+ people, have been exploring the root causes of violence in society before you even realized same xes violence was a thing.
the way you talk, you must have just figured this out recently.
Just because you are ignorant, doesn’t mean everyone else is.
Again, you don’t know sh!t about gay people, stop talking about us. Period.
 
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you are certainly not a man either but that has never stop you from making thread after thread on the about men and create all sort of evil label about us, don't be rude sis, be mature instead
I've never posted a single thread about anything, ever. Wtf are you talking about?
 

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Honesty is hard for you, huh?
Again, we guys, lgb+ people, have been exploring the root causes of violence in society before you even realized same xes violence was a thing.
the way you talk, you must have just figured this out recently.
Just because you are ignorant, doesn’t mean everyone else is.
Again, you don’t know sh!t about gay people, stop talking about us. Period.


a conversation about something can evolve into something else, as in this case the conversation started with the discovery that women in a same xes relationship can be violent to women can be just as violent as men, the more you know, the different the subject becomes, why focus only on LGBt+ when it's something universal
 

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Who are you talking to?
Let’s do an experiment
Search our names, or whomever you were taking to specifically.
Find the threads they made about men and post them here…
I’ll wait.

I'm talking about women in general the same way women like to talk about men in general, it doesn't have to be you or me,
 

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a conversation about something can evolve into something else, as in this case the conversation started with the discovery that women in a same xes relationship can be violent to women can be just as violent as men, the more you know, the different the subject becomes, why focus only on LGBt+ when it's something universal
First
No one but you discovered that women are violent. We been knew.

And the idea that women are just as violent as men has been debunked.
You just found out Violence is universal
The rest of us already knew.

If you really care…
 

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First
No one but you discovered that women are violent. We been knew.

And the idea that women are just as violent as men has been debunked.
You just found out Violence is universal
The rest of us already knew.

If you really care…


hence the importance of having created this thread in the first place because before that I thought that women lived peacefully among themselves, that domestic violence was just a matter of evil misoginist men like me who like to find someone to punch in the face like women always told us, now i know that this is not the case, you can even say that i'm a much more informed person today than i was yesterday and with this new found of knowledge, my perspective on violence or domestic violence has evolved so will the way I approach the problem.
 

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Why are there a bunch of men and straight women arguing on DV in lesbian relationships? As if y'all give a f*ck. Y'all don't care when it's straight women. Sounds like a way to be misogynistic and homophobic. Mind y'all business.

Eta: @madness116 skeptical yourself tf out of lesbian business.

@Kenny cash ^ same goes, creep.
Just say you don't care about the safety of black lesbian women and gooo

#ProtectBlackLesbianWomen
 

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Ok I’m sorry no hate but the amount of fighting and aggression I’ve seen in some lesbian relationships like Jesus
 

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