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It’s best to focus on men that are interested in you and vice versa

Trying to understand someone else’s attraction to someone else is unhealthy
I made a thread about fonts need to start doing this but of course the excuses came. They said the men that are interested in them are ugly so they’d rather focus on the ones that don’t want them. WTF? Thread was just full of ridiculous responses.
 

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im a white women. my theory is they are trying to marry up. many white women, even if they are broke right now, will have a big fat inheritance. theyre trying to get a piece of that generational wealth. they arent attracted to them, as you can see most BM are with the most unnattractive fat white women. they lie and boost them saying they like their "thickness" Lol really they are just feminine and hypergamous men
 
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In general, AA men are more likely to associate AA women with negative experiences/stereotypes versus non-AA women. Moreover, it seems to these men, the benefits of dating out, outweighs the cost of dating in group. Since these men feel shame about not preferring women from their own “tribe”, they create a reason to support their behavior. AA women need to raise their boys to become the kind of men they want to date—this requires a lot of sacrifice. Specifically, it means women choosing men with common values who are financially secure instead of choosing men based on physical attraction and common interests. While it takes a man to raise a boy, it takes a woman to vet the right man for the job. It’s challenging to be desirable to men of other groups on a grand scale if the men from your own tribe are not choosing you. That said, while they may not mind you absorbing their leftover women, men from other groups will never respect men who prefer to nest in other’s’ communities instead of building their own, who don’t see their own women and children as being worthy of provision.
 
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im a white women. my theory is they are trying to marry up. many white women, even if they are broke right now, will have a big fat inheritance. theyre trying to get a piece of that generational wealth. they arent attracted to them, as you can see most BM are with the most unnattractive fat white women. they lie and boost them saying they like their "thickness" Lol really they are just feminine and hypergamous men
Respectfully, I disagree. Wealthy white women are marrying wealthy white men. Wealthy black men date down and their wealth passes back to the white community. Poorer black men are typically hypergamous with ANYONE who is wealthier than them, usually black women, white women or to a lesser extent white men.
 

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Respectfully, I disagree. Wealthy white women are marrying wealthy white men. Wealthy black men date down and their wealth passes back to the white community. Poorer black men are typically hypergamous with ANYONE who is wealthier than them, usually black women, white women or to a lesser extent white men.
maybe its just from what we have seen in our lives, i personally have never seen a wealthy white man marry a wealthy obese white woman
 
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maybe its just from what we have seen in our lives, i personally have never seen a wealthy white man marry a wealthy obese white woman
I’m curious how many wealthy obese white women of marriageable age do you know? Obesity among whites is associated with and is typically a marker of lower income/poverty not wealth. Women of marriageable age in wealthy circles are expected to be physically fit. After marriage and babies is when the weight gain (over weight) occurs and their women work hard to lose the weight. Obesity if it does occur among wealthy whites happens in old age!
 

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im a white women. my theory is they are trying to marry up. many white women, even if they are broke right now, will have a big fat inheritance. theyre trying to get a piece of that generational wealth. they arent attracted to them, as you can see most BM are with the most unnattractive fat white women. they lie and boost them saying they like their "thickness" Lol really they are just feminine and hypergamous men
Can you back up that white supremacist claim with data?
 

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im a white women. my theory is they are trying to marry up. many white women, even if they are broke right now, will have a big fat inheritance. theyre trying to get a piece of that generational wealth. they arent attracted to them, as you can see most BM are with the most unnattractive fat white women. they lie and boost them saying they like their "thickness" Lol really they are just feminine and hypergamous men


that folks should ignore from now on regarding black folks conversations


peace
 

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Black men's strategy for beating racism is through white pussy
Black men escape the burden of blackness through white pussy
Black men fight white supremacy through white pussy
Black men transcend race through white pussy
Black men solve all their problems through white pussy


Other men build biological warfare weaponry, wage world wars, build economic powerhouses, overthrow governments and occupy countries

Its a preference tho
Soooooo, this is what you think of aaaall BM, huh?? <LMAO> No wonder you stay on the sidelines. You must be still a single BW. That's the problem with most of you. Most BW are so brainwashed by the white man's ongoing stereotypes of the BM through images and narratives, that many of you miss that BM aren't some monolithic group. Not all BM are into the Beckys, Heidis, and Karens...FYI.
 
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Soooooo, this is what you think of aaaall BM, huh?? <LMAO> No wonder you stay on the sidelines. You must be still a single BW. That's the problem with most of you. Most BW are so brainwashed by the white man's ongoing stereotypes of the BM through images and narratives, that many of you miss that BM aren't some monolithic group. Not all BM are into the Beckys, Heidis, and Karens...FYI.
Interesting.

Common sense dictates that inferences are made on the best available information not based on ALL information.

If Nobel Peace Prize Laureates are NOT expected to assess ALL samples, what makes you think someone on LSA needs to qualify their statement?

Only low level thinkers making disingenuous arguments not based on reality, think like you do.

In case you slept through critical thinking, ethics and logic class, statements are made based on the rule not by exception.

By the way, based on your illogical reasoning if BW are flawed because of their “single” status, then by the same reasoning so are BM, who are the most single group of people in the entire world despite the fact that it is men who do the choosing.

Also if BW are on the sidelines, then where are BM who are by every relevant measure are underperforming BW? Based on your statement should we assume that BM are beyond the sideline? And what does that mean really? Do your insults and shaming impact the price of eggs or plantain in the open market?

You not only insulted yourself, but also your kind, buddy.

Finally you sound ridiculous using a stereotype created by BM about BW to castigate a BW because of a stereotype you say was created by a WM.

Yet...you have NO smoke for the WM.

Go figure.

I guess, it’s more comfy as a failed man to nest in women’s spaces and pick on BW than to challenge WM who created the system that you just claimed is oppressing you.

Carry on...nesting.
 
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Interesting.

Common sense dictates that inferences are made on the best available information not based on ALL information.

If Nobel Peace Prize Laureates are NOT expected to asses ALL samples, what makes you think someone on LSA needs to qualify their statement?

Only low level thinkers making disingenuous arguments not based on reality, think like you do.

In case you slept through critical thinking, ethics and arguments class, statements are made based on the rule not by exception.

By the way, based on your illogical reasoning if BW are flawed because of their “single” status, then by the same reasoning so are BM, who are the most single group of people in the entire world despite the fact that it is men who do the choosing.

Also if BW are on the sidelines, then where are BM who are by every relevant measure underperforming BW? Based on your statement should we assume that BM are beyond the sideline? And what does that mean really? Do your insults and shaming impact the price of eggs or plantain in the open market?

You not only insulted yourself, but also your kind, buddy.

Finally you sound ridiculous using a stereotype created by BM about BW to castigate a BW because of a stereotype you say was created by a WM.

Yet...you have NO smoke for the WM.

Go figure.

I guess, it’s more comfy as a failed man to nest in women’s spaces and pick on BW than to challenge WM who created the system that you just claimed is oppressing you.

Carry on...nesting.
<LMAO/SMH> Really?! Iyanla Cantzant please have several seats.
 
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Facts on tops of facts but the pick me's and low hanging fruits are too dumb to realize this.
No matter how much they try, they will:
be never learn how to become men from BW, which is the reason why they nest in BW spaces.

Only a man can teach a man to become one.

Moreover, not only does their use of insults reveal their impotence but their use of shaming tactics to guilt BW into promoting, protecting and providing for BM into adulthood and senility has worked TO THEIR DETRIMENT.

As a result they are the weakest group in the entire HUMAN RACE.

The pendulum has swung as far as it can go and now it’s swinging the other way—EVERYONE can see that including the WM and WW that BM worship so much.

Their day of reckoning is here...

Let the bodies hit the floor.
 

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Facts on tops of facts but the pick me's and low hanging fruits are too dumb to realize this.
It is true, just venture to any March rally and one will see the number of black and white women in attendance. Then, listen to social media and go to work in corporate America and listen/observe how BM treat BW
 

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High School mentality applied to adulthood in dating.

1. They get rejected from others.
2. They seek approval from others.
3. They punch down and bully someone else they see as "weaker" so that the focus is on the other party and not them.
4. They join the others, realizing that they are on a thin rope and can easily be put back in their place.
5. They start doing everything to become like others in an attempt to make themselves indistinguishable from others.
 

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White man: oppresses

Arab man: I will wage Jihad on America and I will sacrifice every son of Muhammad until the earth is rid of the infidels. I will bomb your nations and send son after son until the end of time, prepare to die

Jewish man: I will control every banking and media industry on earth and starve your people of resources and media propaganda at a whim. So keep my name out ya goddam mouth

Chinese man: I will take everything you ever created and reproduce it at 5% of the cost and sell it back to your people until they abandon their own group economics and rely on mine. Then I will control your economy. Know yourself b!tch

Black man: Imma fµck these pawgs and paags and show dem ugly black bishes how undesirable dey are and how much a high value ninja got options cus ain't nobody want dey ugly darkskin ahhh anyway #pawgset

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A lot of Black women don’t want to accept that a lot of Black men simply find Black Women unattractive. “Attitudes” and etc are all weak excuses, we know they will tolerate the worst personalities from Non-Black women.

Plus, they adore the mixed race women who grow up in the hood and are raised no differently than BW. They make exceptions for Black women that look racially ambiguous or as non-Black as possible. They are men. It is about LOOKS. Sadly, personality and attitude doesn’t stop them from finding an attractive woman attractive. Many will still pursue her no matter how sh!tty of a person she may be. But they will also reject a serious relationship (not xes) with a beautiful Black woman because she is Black or darker skinned.

They have simply internalized European and non-white beauty standards that are inherently anti-Black, and do not like how Black women naturally look, because subconsciously they do not like themselves or their Blackness either.
 

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Because they ain't sh!t. Is that not what you want to hear?
If someone's rationale for their attraction is an "excuse" to you, then I promise you that no answer around this topic (that might be true, but not what you want to hear) will be enough to you
 

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Black men's strategy for beating racism is through white pussy
Black men escape the burden of blackness through white pussy
Black men fight white supremacy through white pussy
Black men transcend race through white pussy
Black men solve all their problems through white pussy

Other men build biological warfare weaponry, wage world wars, build economic powerhouses, overthrow governments and occupy countries

Its a preference tho
Yeah, and how did that work out??
 

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I'm watching this Kevin Samuels guy omg - he literally makes women feel like crap about themselves- talking about weight and sheet

you know how many overweight obese white women I know who are married.

anyways I asked this ex-football baller why black guys he knows date out and he says its because why date someone who has the same stressors as you and when I asked what those stressors are? he said financial

and I was like what you mean? black women are out-earning black men- and he was like his friends and he wants a low-stress relationship and that he didn't know about the dynamics of those males cause he's got a higher income. An example he gave is that when a black woman doesn't get promoted at the job or get paid fairly she brings those stressors at home.

huh...anyways the conversation will continue but again I find these relationship gurus mad toxic and mean and that black men use way too many excuses not to ride for black women.
He doesn’t make women feel like crap, he basically holds a mirror up, and these ladies realize they’re not as desirable as they think they are… and that’s what makes them feel like crap!
 
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He doesn’t make women feel like crap, he basically holds a mirror up, and these ladies realize they’re not as desirable as they think they are… and that’s what makes them feel like crap!
I get it...you mean like how non-BM men holds a mirror up to BM? These BM realize they’re not as powerful as they think they are...and that’s what makes BM feel like crap! Then they take out their feelings of low self worth on BW!
 

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I get it...you mean like how non-BM men holds a mirror up to BM? These BM realize they’re not as powerful as they think they are...and that’s what makes BM feel like crap! Then they take out their feelings of low self worth on BW!
Lmfao! Nobody said black men felt like crap, what a reach. This is a perfect example of why KS exist... to put you ignorant females in your place!
 

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If most had the coins, they would get with their preferences which is nonblack. But since they don't, some settle and marry up with BW who have lowered their standards.
 
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Lmfao! Nobody said black men felt like crap, what a reach. This is a perfect example of why KS exist... to put you ignorant females in your place!
You sound hot and bothered. So glad you have Krap...I mean KS to look up to. Better than nothing, I guess..!
 
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Stop projecting! You're the one that responded with a lie, then got mad when I put you in you place,lol
If you insist, Bigdudd!

BW are NEVER going to accept BM in their current state without resources no matter what you say BWAHAHAHAHHA!

Now I will give you the attention you deserve and put you on kindly on ignore...
 
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If you insist, Bigdudd!

BW are NEVER going to accept BM in their current state without resources no matter what you say BWAHAHAHAHHA!

Now I will give you the attention you deserve and put you on kindly on ignore...
Somebody's angry lol. Bw love them some Bm. The problem is, so do everybody else. That makes it very competitive for Bw, and some just don't know how to compete, so they get left behind.
 

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Y’all consume negativity huh?
not consuming 'negativity' is why black women are always driving with blinders on in the dark........why tf do black women have such a aversion to knowledge about the black male?......i know, i know, she cant handle the truth, and thinks just 'ignoring' it will make it go away........this makes for a ignorant black woman, all day, every day......
 

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All one can do is strive to do well, get an education and become financially independent. Then have children with someone who is financially independent. Raise children who are confident and proud of who they are and where they came from. Currently, there is a cycle where children are having children before their brains even develop. Those children do not grow up to be confident and ambitious.

Too many times, people don't understand that just because the government can provide food and shelter for your children doesn't mean you should have children. Children need time and attention. This is why many Black children hear fewer words before they start school, are more likely to grow up in poverty, are more likely to watch TV, and more likely to get incarcerated.
 

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Somebody's angry lol. Bw love them some Bm. The problem is, so do everybody else. That makes it very competitive for Bw, and some just don't know how to compete, so they get left behind.
The delusion in this post is strong. Nobody wants or likes y’all. And in a couple years black women are about to feel the same way with all this arrogance and bad attitude.
 

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The delusion in this post is strong. Nobody wants or likes y’all. And in a couple years black women are about to feel the same way with all this arrogance and bad attitude.
Keep telling yourselves that. Last picked!
 

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Keep telling yourselves that. Last picked!
You're right. Black men are last picked according to dating app data. Truth hurts. Nobody outside of black women is checking for you except as a last option. Y'all get the least messages or responses out of men or women of all races.
 

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It’s best to focus on men that are interested in you and vice versa

Trying to understand someone else’s attraction to someone else is unhealthy
I agree. Plus, with so many people in the world, why are these women hung up on black men? Ladies, go on a mini vacation to Greece or Chille and you'll find some of the most beautiful, and caring men. They are into black women. And also know that a lot of white men do respect and love black women. Black women, stop believing you're less than white women, it's not true. And from the lips of my white girlfriends, a lot of these black men are damaged. Not all, but a lot.
 

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Anyways I asked this ex-football baller why black guys he knows date out and he says its because why date someone who has the same stressors as you and when I asked what those stressors are? he said financial
They want to still be apart of black life and still have some authority. Just like the homosexual fellows.

Who is going to trust the word of a black guy with a white woman. Lol. So he makes up a story about why black women cant be wifed.
 

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