Venus Trap
General Manager
so I guess we're assuming he took care of the kids, the cleaning, the cooking, etc.?Wow. Ya know, women are funny. This man said he’s 65 years old and has been the main bread winner in his lifetime during their entire marriage. Yeah she put in 300k to their mortgage (even though she could have paid it off completely) and yet he’s trash even though according to the finances and in debt he’s in, he’s Ben taking care of majority of their bills and finances. I feel for him, she could have at least helped him pay off his debt. It’s funny that you think men are supposed to just take care of you, but yet those vows swing both ways. Interesting.
She did help with the debt by paying most of the mortgage. Wasn't part of that his debt?
Did she say what she had planned for the rest of the money?
The issue I have with his reaction is that he didn't give her the benefit of the doubt. And it doesn't even sound like he tried to talk to her about getting some help with the credit card debt.