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“When you’re a young girl and you’re looking for a man to be a provider You still got some daddy issues.”

Can a pickmeisha past the age of 35 be rehabilitated?

  • Yes it is never too late

    Votes: 15 38.5%
  • A 35 year old pickmeisha will die a pickmeisha more then likely

    Votes: 18 46.2%
  • A pickmeisha still has hope if she under 30

    Votes: 4 10.3%
  • A pickmeisha still has hope if she under 25

    Votes: 2 5.1%
  • A pickmeisha still has hope if she under 21

    Votes: 0 0.0%

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Sophia2000

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Talk em pickmeisha.
She doing a little rebranding. She was just talkin about getting a man to simp for you like less then 2 months ago. If you can’t find a man to pay your bills now you old gained weight and got kids just say it.
 

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How could that be daddy issues? My father is a provider so naturally I would search for a partner that has characteristics similar to my father. Protector. Provider. Gets me everything I want and need.

Sure, I can pay for my own nails, hair, and bills but if my significant other doesn’t my mind paying for my upkeep, who am I to deny such chivalry?
 

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i dont get what is the problem they have with women wanting men to provide like??
 

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i dont get what is the problem they have with women wanting men to provide like??

Its sort of like a business perspective. If people in the job market started to take lower paying jobs that should be raised to higher wages, then the expectation to get paid handsomely for a higher skilled job is decreased.

If women stopped taking up men who are providers, then men of low caliber get to eat and won't be made to feel bad cause low brow men would be the standard.
 

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I had a father figure growing up who wasn’t my dad that spoiled me like a princess until his death. Then my mom set the standard. Anything I need fixed regarding my car, gas, etc she has. So I expect a man to do that or better. Not accepting anything less. Anytime a man groans about “paying women way” is not a provider or man in my eyes.
 

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Im tired of the internet giving these dumb broads a platform .. If they dont hush tf up. .


A man is a provider period. If a man cant provide for you or his family then he aint worth it.
 

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I honestly feel like women were gassed into this independent women role and now any woman that doesn't want to be the bread winner is looked down upon. Yes for security reasons you should have a source of income and support, but if you dont want to work as a woman and you have a man that is not abusive and wants to pay your way then by all means live your best life.

I feel like a lot of women took on the idea that if they get all their own things then men will value them more. Then found out men are still willing to finance other women's lives who may not have everything you have and feel a way. I understand the importance of financial security, but don't be salty when you find out some women didnt have to work the same way for the same benefits. Don't hate the player hate the game and the same thing is vice versa.

Why do we all have to be one way?
 

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I need women to stop projecting onto others. Nobody can convince me to carry and pop out a man's children which risks my own life and not expect a man to provide for me.

The Bible says that men who don't provide for their families are worse than infidels. You cannot convince me otherwise. These women think they're getting brownie points with men, but it makes them look crazy because men don't do this to each other.
 

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The devil has been working hard to distort any semblance of a successful black family unit.
 

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They seem to never understand that men (our fathers) brought most of us up this way. I want to be provided for because that’s what my father did for my mom
 

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I hate these PSA's because majority of men are not taking care of women financially. If they were, we wouldn't be having so many conversations about it. It would just be the norm, but it isn't.

Also, young girl and man in the same sentence romantically sounds gross.
 

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A man is meant to be both a provider and maintainer
These are the women getting pregnant pre marriage and then proposing on the floor.
These women have no self worth, they do the traditional wife duties as well as the husband duties because they dont think a man would ever love them unless they do everything
Sad reality of a growing number of western women these days
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Some of these men are SO ass backwards and out of sync with their masculine energy.

So, to them it’s wrong to expect a man to provide, but they want a woman to give and nurture. Tf?? Make it make sense.
 

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These type of women are weirdos.

if u ain’t providing and paying all the bills u ain’t getting a whiff of this coochie.Call me what u want.Lock me up in gold digger jail and throw away the key if u want.I don’t care.
 

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Talk em pickmeisha.
She doing a little rebranding. She was just talkin about getting a man to simp for you like less then 2 months ago. If you can’t find a man to pay your bills now you old gained weight and got kids just say it.

I hope all the fonts who say the same sh!t on this website line up to defend their peers.

A man is supposed to provide. Being a housewife and/or having a man provide for me has absolutely nothing to do with having father issues or signing up to get our asses whipped. Save the toxic mindsets for your therapists.

A man can let you work, pay your own bills and will go half on chores and still beat your ass if he wants, cheat if he wants, and tell you that you owe him something if he wants.
 

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These type of women are weirdos.

if u ain’t providing and paying all the bills u ain’t getting a whiff of this coochie.Call me what u want.Lock me up in gold digger jail and throw away the key if u want.I don’t care.




Sad thing is, a lot of these women bumping this mumbojumbo are not doing well for themselves but still have a man snoring in their face. Its been women singing Jesse James "I can do bad all by myself" for the past 40 years.
 

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Blah, blah, blah. Why is it only Black women that be talkin' this sh!t? So we're using Black girls having deadbeat/sh!tty fathers against them AND we're using Black girls having good fathers that provided for them against them too????

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I understand having your own bag. I get that. But what the girl in the braids was talking about (only watched about 50 seconds) speaks more to that man's character than anything else. If you truly have a good dude, he would never throw him paying the bills in your face. Ever. He would see it as his duty as a man to provide for his lady (& his kids). Not something he feels forced to do or something he does just to control you/hold over your head.

ETA: Watched a little further. Girl in the braids ain't talking about sh!t. I took classes that covered this a bit. Women go & work 9-5 jobs THEN come home & still have to cook dinner, wash clothes, vacuum, wash the dishes, bathe the kids, clean up after the kids, help them with homework/class assignments, etc. while more often than not the only thing the man does is go to work then come home & rest. Mom doesn't. sh!t is STILL not equal. He is not helping like that in the "domestic sphere".

Let's dead this sh!t. A lot of men be cappin' with that "i WaNt A tRaDiTiOnAL wOmAn" sh!t (cause if they did there wouldn't be some much push back on women that want to be SAHW/SAHM) especially Black men hence them always asking "wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO ThE tAbLe". Because of this, I will never down talk women that want men that make more or can pay all the bills. Why the fµck I'mma go 50/50 with a guy when he ain't going 50/50 when it comes that childrearing/housekeeping sh!t? Girl. fµck that.

& ANOTHER thing, it's WOMEN! She can say "men" all day, but can't differentiate between woman vs. women. Says a lot.
 

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i dont get what is the problem they have with women wanting men to provide like??
Because if you get one, you represent her failures and inability to find a man. It is allways easier to say you don’t want something instead of admitting you can’t get it
 

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Never take relationship advice from a woman in a top ramen t shirt & a phony filter
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Blah, blah, blah. Why is it only Black women that be talkin' this sh!t? So we're using Black girls having deadbeat/sh!tty fathers against them AND we're using Black girls having good fathers that provided for them against them too????

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I understand having your own bag. I get that. But what the girl in the braids was talking about (only watched about 50 seconds) speaks more to that man's character than anything else. If you truly have a good dude, he would never throw him paying the bills in your face. Ever. He would see it as his duty as a man to provide for his lady (& his kids). Not something he feels forced to do or something he does just to control you/hold over your head.

ETA: Watched a little further. Girl in the braids ain't talking about sh!t. I took classes that covered this a bit. Women go & work 9-5 jobs THEN come home & still have to cook dinner, wash clothes, vacuum, wash the dishes, bathe the kids, clean up after the kids, help them with homework/class assignments, etc. while more often than not the only thing the man does is go to work then come home & rest. Mom doesn't. sh!t is STILL not equal. He is not helping like that in the "domestic sphere".

Let's dead this sh!t. A lot of men be cappin' with that "i WaNt A tRaDiTiOnAL wOmAn" sh!t (cause if they did there wouldn't be some much push back on women that want to be SAHW/SAHM) especially Black men hence them always asking "wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO ThE tAbLe". Because of this, I will never down talk women that want men that make more or can pay all the bills. Why the fµck I'mma go 50/50 with a guy when he ain't going 50/50 when it comes that childrearing/housekeeping sh!t? Girl. fµck that.

& ANOTHER thing, it's WOMEN! She can say "men" all day, but can't differentiate between woman vs. women. Says a lot.
 

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Blah, blah, blah. Why is it only Black women that be talkin' this sh!t? So we're using Black girls having deadbeat/sh!tty fathers against them AND we're using Black girls having good fathers that provided for them against them too????

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Right? Her statement made zero sense. Someone really sold her that philosophy to get over on her.
 

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Greatest trick men did was convince women they didn’t deserve nice things and men were the prize.

Let the pick mes have them. I’m not lifting a dollar for these stanky foot fools.
 

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How could that be daddy issues? My father is a provider so naturally I would search for a partner that has characteristics similar to my father. Protector. Provider. Gets me everything I want and need.

Sure, I can pay for my own nails, hair, and bills but if my significant other doesn’t my mind paying for my upkeep, who am I to deny such chivalry?

Exactly! And even if people have daddy issues it’s still not wrong to want men to be providers, why do people want to find the smallest things to come at women for? Yes a lot of women love being financially independent but it’s not wrong to expect a man to step up instead of being a bum.
 

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That's not what men said when they wrote the bible. Or all these laws forcing women to depend on them.

Even now they still talking about "leading" and being "head of the house". Okay boy, cough up the money then, wtf? You can't talk about how you run sht then be broke, cheap and unwilling to provide. Men are parasites with superiority complexes.
 

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i can't today. Good luck to Mz. Braids and Mz. Maruchan with that bullsh!t.

Couldn't be me.
 

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I agree women should not expect big ticket items from men they are dating. If you are dating then the man should be responsible for paying and plant all dates. And he should surprise you with small gifts. Your husband or your fiancé should be a provider and protector.
 

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At this point I'm just going to use these people for my Kiis.
No debate, no educating, no trying to understand them. Just laugh and keep moving..
 

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