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Its the best but also the worst. You feel so attracted to them but you don't know why. I had this synastry with someone last year, and till now I can't shake him off; his venus was in my 8th house..ooofff. I just felt so pulled towards him if it makes sense; and till now i can't forget him. Same thing now, found out someones sun falls into my 8th house, along with venus opp pluto (chile..ik), and i want this ni77a SO BADD.
 

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Yep, I always become extremely attracted to men with their mars in my 8th house. I hate it though because that means they have mars in Cancer which is very passive and means I end up having to chase them cause they're too shy. But the attraction is intoxicating.

Moons that touch my Pluto in Scorpio in the 12th house also drive me crazy.
 

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Yep, I always become extremely attracted to men with their mars in my 8th house. I hate it though because that means they have mars in Cancer which is very passive and means I end up having to chase them cause they're too shy. But the attraction is intoxicating.

Moons that touch my Pluto in Scorpio in the 12th house also drive me crazy.
Right? its the worst because I can't get them out of my head. His mars falls into my 1st house, thank god. wouldn't be able to handle mars in 8th house. His saturn falls into my 8th house tho so kind of weary about that.
 

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I love 8th house synastry with the right person it’s *chefs kiss*. And Venus in 8th is no joke sis good luck lol.

My Mars is in my mans 8th house and that line where Moneybagg yo says “toxic lil bih and she knowin she dat, I said I was done still doubled back” I know he feels that about me :innocent: lmao. I’m trying to be better though. But he couldn’t forget/leave me alone if he prayed, fasted, or did a cord cutting ritual. I fµck with it tho because that’s one of my lil soulmates or whateva.
 

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A stellium overlay in my 8th was the ex that destroyed me for a long time. I am still not sure if the feeling is worth what the outcome usually is in the case of more than 2 personal planets in there.
 

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I love 8th house synastry with the right person it’s *chefs kiss*. And Venus in 8th is no joke sis good luck lol.

My Mars is in my mans 8th house and that line where Moneybagg yo says “toxic lil bih and she knowin she dat, I said I was done still doubled back” I know he feels that about me :innocent: lmao. I’m trying to be better though. But he couldn’t forget/leave me alone if he prayed, fasted, or did a cord cutting ritual. I fµck with it tho because that’s one of my lil soulmates or whateva.
This was like last year, in 2020. It wasn’t toxic, surprisingly. He’s just on my mind sometimes. I also had mars square pluto w a fling, venus square mars, ooofffff. His mars in my 7th house; venus in my 5th house. It was shortlived but whew. We didn’t get get along, as in it was difficult to make convo, it was just good for a fling type thing.
 

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A stellium overlay in my 8th was the ex that destroyed me for a long time. I am still not sure if the feeling is worth what the outcome usually is in the case of more than 2 personal planets in there.
hugs for you sis!! It sucks that this happened to you.
 

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All women need to be made aware of 8th house synastry!!!

I have sooo many stories to tell :sob: in my experience moon, mars and mercury messes me up every time. But venus in 8th is okay for me because it equals venus in taurus and thats a pretty warm, loving placement. Sidenote, I had been listening to Babyface on repeat almost every day for years and found out he has moon and venus in taurus lol
 

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All women need to be made aware of 8th house synastry!!!

I have sooo many stories to tell :sob: in my experience moon, mars and mercury messes me up every time. But venus in 8th is okay for me because it equals venus in taurus and thats a pretty warm, loving placement. Sidenote, I had been listening to Babyface on repeat almost every day for years and found out he has moon and venus in taurus lol
What if your Sun, Mercury, and Jupiter falls in someone’s 8th house?
 

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All women need to be made aware of 8th house synastry!!!

I have sooo many stories to tell :sob: in my experience moon, mars and mercury messes me up every time. But venus in 8th is okay for me because it equals venus in taurus and thats a pretty warm, loving placement. Sidenote, I had been listening to Babyface on repeat almost every day for years and found out he has moon and venus in taurus lol
Girl their sun falling into your 8th is HELLLLL, i cant get this knee grow out of my mind!!! So i cant imagine how bad mars would be.

And i agree, venus in taurus, venus in cancer and venus in leo are some of my favorites. They’re sweet and expressive w their love.
 

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I have someone’s Saturn/Jupiter/Sun/Mercury/Pluto sitting in my 8th house and all we do is fall off and back on again. Surprisingly I think I bother him more than he bothers me. But baybeeeehhh!!! I had someone’s Pluto square my Venus and sit in my 8th house before and I cried over that mf for 2 years straight.
 

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What if your Sun, Mercury, and Jupiter falls in someone’s 8th house?
Then they probably find themselves attracted to u for no reason, they find u mysterious as well.

Agree with op. With the sun your basically shining a big light into their 8th house so you'll 'awaken' their xesual side. With mercury you'll stimulate those xesual, deep 8th house thoughts.

Jupiter in 8th says you might be very generous with the house person so be careful financially.

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Girl their sun falling into your 8th is HELLLLL, i cant get this knee grow out of my mind!!! So i cant imagine how bad mars would be.

And i agree, venus in taurus, venus in cancer and venus in leo are some of my favorites. They’re sweet and expressive w their love.

Pure and absolute HELLLLL okay! Lmao. Mars is really bad if its a sh!tty dude. For example, I lost my virginity to an unevolved pisces boy with mars in taurus and venus in aquarius :weep . I have no idea why God decided to punishment me in that way :sob:
 

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I have someone’s Saturn/Jupiter/Sun/Mercury/Pluto sitting in my 8th house and all we do is fall off and back on again. Surprisingly I think I bother him more than he bothers me. But baybeeeehhh!!! I had someone’s Pluto square my Venus and sit in my 8th house before and I cried over that mf for 2 years straight.
, same i checked, and his saturn falls into my 8th house. Curious to know what it means.

Also sisssss, we have venus opp pluto, and lawdddd... lf only one of us swallows our pride...
 

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Pure and absolute HELLLLL okay! Lmao. Mars is really bad if its a sh!tty dude. For example, I lost my virginity to an unevolved pisces boy with mars in taurus and venus in aquarius :weep . I have no idea why God decided to punishment me in that way :sob:
I can imagine!! AND hes a pisces?! Na sis that must’ve been big time karma. My last guy had a venus in aqua, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy!! Not to mention the fact that hes a cap sun (eww). God really had it out for me. Its on sight next time i see his ass fr.
 

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I can imagine!! AND hes a pisces?! Na sis that must’ve been big time karma. My last guy had a venus in aqua, and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy!! Not to mention the fact that hes a cap sun (eww). God really had it out for me. Its on sight next time i see his ass fr.

Lmaooooo okay! Same here! If I make it there, we straight up fighting at the pearly gates chile cause that aint even right Lol
 

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, same i checked, and his saturn falls into my 8th house. Curious to know what it means.

Also sisssss, we have venus opp pluto, and lawdddd... lf only one of us swallows our pride...
Sounds completely stressful and exciting lol
 

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Sounds completely stressful and exciting lol
doubt anything is going to come out of it though. We don't speak, like at all. Last time we spoke was maybe march. Posted a lil thirst trap n he didn't swipe up, so fµck it. I don't chase either. And ik for a fact that he's stubborn af because hes a taurus sun scorpio moon, scorpio mars. My ex bsf of like 7 years was a taurus, so ik these mfs. They tend to be less stubborn if they have a fire moon.
 

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, same i checked, and his saturn falls into my 8th house. Curious to know what it means.

Also sisssss, we have venus opp pluto, and lawdddd... lf only one of us swallows our pride...
Saturn is the glue that binds relationships, when it falls in the other persons 8th house I believe, very permanent things can and will happen.
 

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doubt anything is going to come out of it though. We don't speak, like at all. Last time we spoke was maybe march. Posted a lil thirst trap n he didn't swipe up, so fµck it. I don't chase either. N he's stubborn af because hes a taurus sun scorpio moon, scorpio mars.
I stan a toxic Taurus man hahaha why are they always so fine with all the D!!
 

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Saturn is the glue that binds relationships, when it falls in the other persons 8th house I believe, very permanent things can and will happen.
wym something more permanent??plus saturn is a malefic, and the 8th house isn't exactly the house of joys.
 

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I stan a toxic Taurus man hahaha why are they always so fine with all the D!!
righttt, I usually cant stand earth signs, but taurus are the exception (both men and women), and the men are so fine for WHATTTT. The synastry aspects point to the D being fiiireee, but aint no d fire enough to make me chase. my pride does not allow it.
 

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I’m just over here trying to figure out where I fall under this 8th house talk... Pluto rules my 8th house that’s all I know, I need the sign. I’m tryna see something...
 

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I’m just over here trying to figure out where I fall under this 8th house talk... Pluto rules my 8th house that’s all I know, I need the sign. I’m tryna see something...
What are you trying to figure out? You mean in synastry or just your regular natal chart
 

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I’m just over here trying to figure out where I fall under this 8th house talk... Pluto rules my 8th house that’s all I know, I need the sign. I’m tryna see something...
Pluto rules everyone’s 8th house, do you mean your personal Pluto?
 

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Yeah, it says Scorpio I believe. Does this means I have a strong attraction to this sign in particular?
 

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Scorpio energy in relationships is like heroin. It's dangerous but it feels so good. Having 8th house placements with Mars, Venus or Pluto can make a xesual horror movie of relationship
 

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Synastry I guess lol
go to astro seek and use the synastry calculator, if you know their birthday, put it. Birth time for them is optional if you dont know it, but it wont show where your planets fall into their houses. If you know ur birthtime, it'll show what houses their planets fall into for you.
 

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Scorpio energy in relationships is like heroin. It's dangerous but it feels so good. Having 8th house placements with Mars, Venus or Pluto can make a xesual horror movie of relationship
Pluto or mars omg, i can't imagine. Can go bad quickly if the guy in't good.
 

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go to astro seek and use the synastry calculator, if you know their birthday, put it. Birth time for them is optional if you dont know it, but it wont show where your planets fall into their houses. If you know ur birthtime, it'll show what houses their planets fall into for you.

Thank you so much! Boy did I just learn a lot lol.
 

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All women need to be made aware of 8th house synastry!!!

I have sooo many stories to tell :sob: in my experience moon, mars and mercury messes uome up every time. But venus in 8th is okay for me because it equals venus in taurus and thats a pretty warm, loving placement. Sidenote, I had been listening to Babyface on repeat almost every day for years and found out he has moon and venus in taurus lol
No wonder why all his songs hit.... I’m a Virgo sun& Venus. We’re suckers for Taurus.
 

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don’t know why but in my case we ended up kinda hating each other :/, I have this with my childhood friend, he had sun and mercury in my 8th house, he said he loved me and he knew everything about me, but then we had a fight because of my sister (she was impersonating me on my phone) and we fought and to this day we haven’t talked back, but weird enough sometimes I have dreams about him wtf. The other guy he had mars on my 8th house, toxic af, he made me feel free ngl, I come from a religious family, so I had a lot of my first times with him, but he became way too controlling, and he lied a lot to me :/.
 

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Then they probably find themselves attracted to u for no reason, they find u mysterious as well.
Ok I’m confused now. I keep reading mixed things. I thought the house person let’s say 8th for example is the one influencing the planet so venus?
if someone’s venus is in my 8th it’s affecting them or me more ?
 

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Ok I’m confused now. I keep reading mixed things. I thought the house person let’s say 8th for example is the one influencing the planet so venus?
if someone’s venus is in my 8th it’s affecting them or me more ?
I think the house person is more affected, not the planet person. So most likely you’re more affected. That seems to be the general consensus
 

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I have Venus in Leo and Mercury in Cancer in my chart. My 8th house is at a late in Gemini. what planets would be good for synastry in the 8th?
 

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