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Pretty lady, but Plenty of Fish for serious relationships?? Girl...those men would fµck any lady with a pulse.
 

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stop begging other races to love you, girl.


This goes on EVERYWHERE...not just Ireland.


moving on.
 

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So that infographic from Pornhub was correct then. Look at the last blue category.

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Some of ya'll are so happy to see this simp get played but...how many open letters to black men have we seen from black women? Begging them not to be colorist? Not to be racist? Not to be intimidated by their success? The list goes on. Who's really surprised that some little-dicked Irish leprachauns on dating sites are trying to "put her in her place"? The WORLD has been doing that for years, and now the cat is out of the bag. Black women are an easy target, espeically if their simps. Ya'll are almost gleeful that one of them basically told her she was unmarriageable. Like, we haven't had articles/comments from black men saying the same damn thing. What should she do then? Yes, she's a fool for trying to "teach" grown men. That applies to men across races. But get your chuckles in.
 

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Who the fµck goes on Plenty of Fish to "find something serious"? This Broad deserves the L's.

Also beware of Irish men, they're usually looking for a Green card. Ireland don't got no jobs and all the lucky charms are gone!

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Lol. White acceptance desperation, and specifically white male acceptance desperation is embarrassing af.
 

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I wish she had not done that. Stop giving these people so much value.
 

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I agree with you. I hate the tone when one black person is being disrespected, everyone has to jump on and pile on them.

But in my opinion, her low self-esteem is cringeworthy and I'm not sure it really is even about race only.

Thing is, there are men of all backgrounds in every country (including Ireland) that don't treat you like a piece of meat or racialize you. When you waste time with losers that have no qualms about overstepping your boundaries, that's not dating smart or with intention.

And I also hate open letters to men, period. If we want to have a discussion, come with facts - with history, sociology and ways we can get rid of this behavior. But trying to validate yourself in the eyes of ain't sh!t men? Whether black, white, America, Ireland is a waste of time and is a self-read.

Some of ya'll are so happy to see this simp get played but...how many open letters to black men have we seen from black women? Begging them not to be colorist? Not to be racist? Not to be intimidated by their success? The list goes on. Who's really surprised that some little-dicked Irish leprachauns on dating sites are trying to "put her in her place"? The WORLD has been doing that for years, and now the cat is out of the bag. Black women are an easy target, espeically if their simps. Ya'll are almost gleeful that one of them basically told her she was unmarriageable. Like, we haven't had articles/comments from black men saying the same damn thing. What should she do then? Yes, she's a fool for trying to "teach" grown men. That applies to men across races. But get your chuckles in.
 

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Trust, these non-black men are smelling the desperation and now they come bold wit it.

That dude 'literally' had to spell it out to her on how some white men think and what they've been doing for time.

This whole 'lets talk about my feelings to everyone' generation aint gonna solve no problems that they're having


PREACH! its a known fact that all men smell desperation. Why do you think that low self esteem females always seem to be in reltionships with abusers. Even though everyone feels badly about themselves at some time, a constant flood of negative thoughts can show up on your face and in your actions
Just how badly do you want a date? If you're so desperate to get a guy that you'll take anyone who answers your plea, the desperation is sure to show. Before you settle for any guy out there, think about what you're really looking for and don't settle for anything less. This doesn't mean that you need to go from desperate to aloof or act like you're better than everyone else. Instead, don't let desperation drag you down or force you into making poor decisions. Settling on a man because you want a " pink colored boyfriend," and not necessarily him, is something that most guys can sense.
 
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Does she really think these sh!tty white men are unaware of their fetish? The ways people find to spend time... Also I had no idea Plenty of Fish was still around. That's the real shame here.
 

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This is why I turned away from people when they say they want chocolate girls. No you just want them berries you have jungle fever smh. We are not toys!
 

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Who the fµck goes on Plenty of Fish to "find something serious"? This Broad deserves the L's.

Also beware of Irish men, they're usually looking for a Green card. Ireland don't got no jobs and all the lucky charms are gone!

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This gif is taking me out :dead:. I love this movie but out of context Richard's squinty eyes and lip pout looks funny as fµck....

This girl is holding L's over dough-faced ass Irish men?

I can't.

I've been to Ireland. For every Colin Farrell, there's 20 Peter Griffins.

It's NEVER that serious over no Irishman.

I will say that they are very pleasant people; their accents and overall demeanors. So, there's that....

I believe you about the greencard thing. I knew an Irish woman who I suspected was here illegally.

But, she's white so of course she's been here umpteen years and never got deported. If she was Hatian, she wouldn't even have the time to dry out her shoes and shake the sand out her clothes before they sent her back:mwalkright:
 

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I've heard from swirl nation that black women should ACCEPT being fetishized by "other" men. They say we should embrace it like Asian women and black men.
 

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The worst thing black women could have ever done is gone to the media and ADMIT that black men didn't want them. That is one of the worst things black women could have ever done. Because now, all of the men can see that you are desperate because your "own men" dont even want you. I knew that white male worship was going to backfire and it wasnt going to lead to the results they wanted.

And wow, at that man saying many black women are with older white men or poorer ones. It is crazy how these white men KNOW what they are doing, but their actions are excused by people who are calling white men "ignorant." Sad.
 

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Whenever I see black women trying to convince ANY type of man to love them...

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Block them or cuss them out then block them. Open letter my ass.
 

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I think I'm confused and LSA probably isn't the place to gain some clarity but oh well its Saturday lol.

"To me, commenting on my race as if it is relevant at all is devaluing and demoralising."

I’ve had it from a number of people – maybe seven or eight out of 10 men will comment on the fact I’m black. It’s a very high number. Usually, men will comment on my race within five minutes of speaking to me.

Hmm these parts of her letter are throwing me off. I personally could not be with anyone who didn't acknowledge my race. It's such a huge part of who I am and I think that a lot of my strengths come from my black identity. The experiences I have had as a black woman good and bad have shaped me as a person. Not to mention that colorblind racial attitudes are invalidating and dangerous.

Im not a white woman so dating me would be very different than dating a white woman. It would be literally something new. My life experiences, viewpoints and the way the world reacts to me is not the same as a white woman. It's important to me that my non-black friends acknowledge and respect my differences so it would be strange to me to date someone that seemed to ignore my race.
 

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Weren't you just thirsting over a nonblack woman yourself? :e6_25: Lmao such a hypocrite.

Yes, because jokingly saying I noticed a hijabi woman is the same as writing a long-winded pathetic think piece desperately begging racist white people to love and value me :highly_amused::highly_amused::highly_amused:
 

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And I also hate open letters to men, period. If we want to have a discussion, come with facts - with history, sociology and ways we can get rid of this behavior.

Agreed. Come with facts/solutions or don't bother. Using feelings as an argument will never work because men do not value them.
 

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I always dated interracially, but my one stipulation was that anyone I messed with HAD to have been with a black woman before. So for this reason, all the dudes I was with had black ex-GFs, black ex-wives, or both. The minute I would hear a guy say he'd never been with a black woman before, he was cut the fµck off and I was no longer interested. But any guy who dated non-black women, period was a turnoff to me, and to this day still is.

I asked my husband if he'd ever been with a black woman VERY early during our courtship. He told me his ex-wife was black. Then I was like, okay, you cool--we can kick it!
 

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Meh, she sounds desperate. When I think of Ireland I think of leprechauns. Would visit and tour but as for the men, hayle no.
 

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If white men in Ireland aren't interested in her long term. How about she date non-white men? And if that's not possible, how about she move to London and whatever other European city she mentioned that's more diverse?

Or she can publicly shame/e-beg men who want to preserve their ethno-cultural background into dating her...
 

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Imagine writing a letter to a nation of white men to force them to love you! She is condemning an entire race and country of men for "festishizing" her; while she fetishizes white men!

It sounds like she's asking for basic respect. There is no implication that she has a fetish for white men. I'm guessing Ireland is predominantly white, so (unlike most black women here) she's smart enough to know she needs to expand her herizons beyond black men if she wants a relationship.

Smh, begging white men to love her



...And swirlers collect even more L's.

It's not like black women are having any more luck getting black men to marry them, especially the employed/educated ones. And when they do their divorce rates are sky high. So apparently swirlers aren't the only ones taking the Ls lol.
 

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If white men in Ireland aren't interested in her long term. How about she date non-white men? And if that's not possible, how about she move to London and whatever other European city she mentioned that's more diverse?

Or she can publicly shame/e-beg men who want to preserve their ethno-cultural background into dating her...


Because that's too much like common sense, and she is determined to bag herself a white man!

I bet she goes around with a copy of the article pinned to her chest, so they can all know that she was the desperate one who wrote it. Anything to be noticed by whites.
 

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According to this, over 340% of female pornhub users are searching for pussylicking video's. clearly the dudes of ireland ain't sh!t.

So that infographic from Pornhub was correct then. Look at the last blue category.

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The worst thing black women could have ever done is gone to the media and ADMIT that black men didn't want them. That is one of the worst things black women could have ever done. Because now, all of the men can see that you are desperate because your "own men" dont even want you. I knew that white male worship was going to backfire and it wasnt going to lead to the results they wanted.

And wow, at that man saying many black women are with older white men or poorer ones. It is crazy how these white men KNOW what they are doing, but their actions are excused by people who are calling white men "ignorant." Sad.


Exactly, by spilling all this angst around for the world to see they've pretty much given away the game. Now these non-black men feel they can get just about any BW for any reason because we are "least desired". I've noticed this more and more in online dating. They are getting hella bold.
 

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The worst thing black women could have ever done is gone to the media and ADMIT that black men didn't want them. That is one of the worst things black women could have ever done. Because now, all of the men can see that you are desperate because your "own men" dont even want you. I knew that white male worship was going to backfire and it wasnt going to lead to the results they wanted.

And wow, at that man saying many black women are with older white men or poorer ones. It is crazy how these white men KNOW what they are doing, but their actions are excused by people who are calling white men "ignorant." Sad.

Black women haven't done that. They are hanging on to BM for dear life and putting out the stats that most BM are with BW. BW are team #Blacklove to a fault.

Most BW are not down with the swirl. Nice try though.
 

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Exactly, by spilling all this angst around for the world to see they've pretty much given away the game. Now these non-black men feel they can get just about any BW for any reason because we are "least desired". I've noticed this more and more in online dating. They are getting hella bold.

Lies.
 

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This gif is taking me out :dead:. I love this movie but out of context Richard's squinty eyes and lip pout looks funny as fµck....

This girl is holding L's over dough-faced ass Irish men?

I can't.

I've been to Ireland. For every Colin Farrell, there's 20 Peter Griffins. :

Peter Griffin though?
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I've been to Ireland. For every Colin Farrell, there's 20 Peter Griffins.
Also beware of Irish men, they're usually looking for a Green card. Ireland don't got no jobs and all the lucky charms are gone!
Irish men are the worst. I have it up to here with drunken Irish men every day of the week because I live in a resort town. They are the nastiest pieces of business on the planet. Revolting fat freckled pasty sluglike boors. Ugh. Don't know why this woman is wasting her time.

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Damn these descriptions killed me :dead:

One of my friends lived in Dublin for 5 years before moving here. She's shown me some pics and videos from her time there and it looks like a cool place to visit, so I would like to.
 

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Damn these descriptions killed me :dead:

One of my friends lived in Dublin for 5 years before moving here. She's shown me some pics and videos from her time there and it looks like a cool place to visit, so I would like to.

Probably the case of being a cool place to visit but not a place youd want to live
 

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Imagine writing a letter to a nation of white men to force them to love you! She is condemning an entire race and country of men for "festishizing" her; while she fetishizes white men!
Lol no need to write letters and understand white supremacy will always exist. The one thing a queen should never do is explain who she is. Keep it moving or move onto somewhere else where she is appreciated.
 

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I'm more surprised by the response she got after her comment about fun. The guy was being real and it's rare to hear white people talk in such a direct way when it comes to race.
 

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Black women are under no obligation to be inclusive to other races of women since most of them disrespect us.

Yes! I use to be nice to many Asians, non afro Latinos, even some brown Middle Easterners, but then I realized many of them despise getting darker and would gladly make fun of my skin and hair. Hell, I met an asian who didn't like the umbrella term "poc" because it means that they'll be categorized with blacks smh.

Anyways on the topic at hand, many men around the world, especially the douchebag players would gladly bang all colors just to say that they did. No surprise sometimes swirling can be based on fetishes. I think it is most common for white men though.
 

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