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A man asked me what my love language is. I told him receiving gifts and he called me materialistic

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He was bent out of shape when I said receiving gifts, too. Went on some tirade about capitalism and said that I'm shallow for my response, claiming that "materialistic wealth" shouldn't bring me joy. Apparently wanting a partner who is generous is "problematic" and "classist" now.

Meanwhile, I'm like

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After he got off his raggedy soapbox, all I said was, "That was a long-winded way of saying you're broke." then hit him with that block button.

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What was the point of asking me that question if he going to be salty about the answer? Men love trying to argue women down who won't settle for less. Don't let them try you, because they will
 

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He was bent out of shape when I said receiving gifts, too. Went on some tirade about capitalism and said that I'm shallow for my response, claiming that "materialistic wealth" shouldn't bring me joy. Apparently wanting a partner who is generous is "problematic" and "classist" now.

Meanwhile, I'm like

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After he got off his raggedy soapbox, all I said was, "That was a long-winded way of saying you're broke." then hit him with that block button.

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What was the point of asking me that question if he going to be salty about the answer? Men love trying to argue women down who won't settle for less. Don't let them try you, because they will
A queen. Love to see it.
 

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That is also my love language! Idk if this was healthy but my parents always showed their love through presents so I think I just register that as caring about me. The same way some parents never say "I love you" but they always feed their kids well.
So OP, good job blocking. He made it too easy.
 

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He was bent out of shape when I said receiving gifts, too. Went on some tirade about capitalism and said that I'm shallow for my response, claiming that "materialistic wealth" shouldn't bring me joy. Apparently wanting a partner who is generous is "problematic" and "classist" now.

Meanwhile, I'm like

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After he got off his raggedy soapbox, all I said was, "That was a long-winded way of saying you're broke." then hit him with that block button.

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What was the point of asking me that question if he going to be salty about the answer? Men love trying to argue women down who won't settle for less. Don't let them try you, because they will

I love it! He sounds broke
 

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That is also my love language! Idk if this was healthy but my parents always showed their love through presents so I think I just register that as caring about me. The same way some parents never say "I love you" but they always feed their kids well.
So OP, good job blocking. He made it too easy.
There is nothing wrong with your love language
 

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How is he gonna get mad at someone else's love language? How is he gonna tell someone else what should make them happy? He needs to mind his damn business. :laugh2

The love language system exists so that you can know to move on when someone isn't speaking yours, which is what his goofy ass should've did before going on his big toddler capitalism meltdown.
 

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It was a set up sis. You were supposed to say “quality time” or even better “physical touch” so then he could segue into offering to give you a massage or something like that.
 

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And so what if you are materialistic. Stand in your truth! Great way to weed out the unworthy.
 

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People stay thinking that receiving gifts means that it has to be expensive. While I love an expensive gift, I also love when he stops at our favorite bakery and gets me a cupcake. It’s about putting in thought.
 

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It “gifts” the same love language that you speak? I ask because I speak a few and am receptive to a few of them. I’m sure there is someone out there that speaks your love language.
 

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People stay thinking that receiving gifts means that it has to be expensive. While I love an expensive gift, I also love when he stops at our favorite bakery and gets me a cupcake. It’s about putting in thought.
Exactly! Many times it's just the simple things for me...like just a few flowers or a pretty trinket...sounds like he was looking for a reason to hate on you OP good thing you got out of that!
 

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Reminds me of when I was on bumble and my profile said my love language was receiving gifts and I was only looking for something casual. I didn’t get many matches and nobody responded to my messages. then I deleted that profile and created one that said my love language was quality time and I was looking for a relationship, I got many matches and almost everyone answered me.

the thing is men on dating apps are looking for poosie and that’s basically it. So why swipe past a female that is basically looking for the same thing you are? Oh because the that means you can’t run a game on her and lead her on for your own ego. Pathetic. Men love to prey on a woman's vulnerabilities. They are such empty creatures.
 

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Why did he feel the need to lecture someone he’s just getting to know instead of moving on? It’s not a fit, move on. He made himself such an irritant on his (inevitable) way out the door.
 

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He was bent out of shape when I said receiving gifts, too. Went on some tirade about capitalism and said that I'm shallow for my response, claiming that "materialistic wealth" shouldn't bring me joy. Apparently wanting a partner who is generous is "problematic" and "classist" now.

Meanwhile, I'm like

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After he got off his raggedy soapbox, all I said was, "That was a long-winded way of saying you're broke." then hit him with that block button.

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What was the point of asking me that question if he going to be salty about the answer? Men love trying to argue women down who won't settle for less. Don't let them try you, because they will
Just came in to say,
fµck that dude

Didn’t read anything
Bye bye
 

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That man didn’t care about your answer tbh. He was just waiting for the opportunity to say “well, mine is physical touch”. All men say that sh!t and like to act as if they should get brownie points for even knowing what love languages are :emoji_rolling_eyes:
 

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That is also my love language! Idk if this was healthy but my parents always showed their love through presents so I think I just register that as caring about me. The same way some parents never say "I love you" but they always feed their kids well.
So OP, good job blocking. He made it too easy.
what does “OP” stand for?
 

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I can’t even imagine my bf or any man I know asking me that question or even saying the words love language lol. Is being materialistic bad? I find most people are to some degree. Anywho, you weeded him out, next!
 

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Lmao did all that just not even get any pussy in the end. I see why many males are going incel and mgtow lol.
 

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He prob wanted you to say "physical touch" or "quality time"

When asked what my love language is, I always tell men ALL OF THEM. I'm a glutton for love, baby. I want it all. Gifts, touching, compliments, togetherness. GIVE ME ALL OR NOTHING!
 

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Gifts (giving and receiving) has ALWAYS been my love language, before it was even a thing. I remember the excitement of holidays and birthdays, of me looking for that perfect something for the person who it was intended for.....I love the thought process behind the gifts my family and friends give me, and I return the favor tenfold. Anyone who comes into my life will need to be just as generous with their gifts to me as my circle is. I'll accept nothing less. Good for you on blocking his broke dusty ass.
 

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He prob wanted you to say "physical touch" or "quality time"

When asked what my love language is, I always tell men ALL OF THEM. I'm a glutton for love, baby. I want it all. Gifts, touching, compliments, togetherness. GIVE ME ALL OR NOTHING!
This is the real answer. Love languages change, they are not stagnant. Sometimes you’ll need a hug, other times a present or just time together. Men shouldn’t feel like they can give you one aspect of a relationship and everything is golden.

This love language stuff is a scam. To build lasting connections and have a stable relationship, most people need all five components
 

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He was bent out of shape when I said receiving gifts, too. Went on some tirade about capitalism and said that I'm shallow for my response, claiming that "materialistic wealth" shouldn't bring me joy. Apparently wanting a partner who is generous is "problematic" and "classist" now.

Meanwhile, I'm like

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After he got off his raggedy soapbox, all I said was, "That was a long-winded way of saying you're broke." then hit him with that block button.

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What was the point of asking me that question if he going to be salty about the answer? Men love trying to argue women down who won't settle for less. Don't let them try you, because they will

They really want us to settle and I am not here to entertain that bµllsh!t.
 

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Reminds me of when I was on bumble and my profile said my love language was receiving gifts and I was only looking for something casual. I didn’t get many matches and nobody responded to my messages. then I deleted that profile and created one that said my love language was quality time and I was looking for a relationship, I got many matches and almost everyone answered me.

the thing is men on dating apps are looking for poosie and that’s basically it. So why swipe past a female that is basically looking for the same thing you are? Oh because the that means you can’t run a game on her and lead her on for your own ego. Pathetic. Men love to prey on a woman's vulnerabilities. They are such empty creatures.
Your 1st profile sounds like you're a hooker. That's why no one hit you up expect sugar daddies.
 

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I just came to find out if you called him broke in return.
 

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How is he gonna get mad at someone else's love language? How is he gonna tell someone else what should make them happy? He needs to mind his damn business. :laugh2


You'd be surprised how people go off at other's love language.

Mine is receiving gifts too and I've had some women talk me down for that.
They full on turn into gatekeepers of masculinity because according to them, "that's not a love language men are supposed to go for".


I've seen it right here on LSA, fonts making fun of women who often perfom chores/clean up for their men... Ignoring the fact that perhaps receiving acts of service is his love language.


OP good on you for blocking him.
I simply ghost people who make it a point to assertively challenge my love language.
 

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I'm glad you stuck to your guns. He wanted you to say 'physical touch' like every dudes love language seems to be.

He wanted xes and tried to see if you were down for it in a faux concerned way then didnt like your answer.
 

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