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Why is THIS sooo hard to digest? If it ain't yor man/family? Why post such disparaging comments about your profession? Deflecting! You know I've posted several alternate thoughts and got radio silence.
Because they want me to be the problem instead of the man. They got triggered because they’re in relationships and I put that reality into their head about their man. A reality they pretend doesn’t exist/don’t want to exist. They want me to counsel all the taken men that come to me, and tell them what they are doing is wrong, and go back home to their family lol. I’m a dancer, not a therapist. I don’t get paid to counsel these men, and it’s not my job to even do that. But, it is his job to remain faithful and the woman’s job to stay on point and be ready to act on the chance he is cheating.
 

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I saw a post decades ago about this same thing....Why do y'all think these women making a bag on Only Fans? Let's not forget the Seeking Arrangement hack/profile dump? What was the other one? Something 'Madison'....all Op is saying Is : get tested and act accordingly. I menttioned the Gold Club Attlanta and it got quiet....then the deflection. JUST. BE. SAFE! If you stay with him ! OK! If you leave, I support you. Just be informed. Do y'all need the District Attorney's or the Prosecutors in all the aforementioned cases to send you a sealed letter before you believe what OP said is true? Hell, you see their wives/ex wives acting up on IG ( who probably got such letters) but you ain't heard it from me. Stop shooting the messenger and receive the message unless you want to be like D Jaxson wife and saving face!



I want the best for all the women here on LSA but somme of y'all: dammit! I'll eventually retire (should have been left) and hope y'all doing good but some of these posts!
Some of these women are just going to have to learn the hard way sadly. It’ll be a hard pill to swallow, but it is what it is. They can’t say I didn’t warn them.
 

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Here’s another “good man” story I have for y’all. This happened last night.

I got a VIP with one of the customers I spoke with earlier in the night. I approached him when he first got in, but he let me know he wanted to get a drink first and settle in, so I told him my name and to holler later if he’s interested, and let him be. He came up to me on stage and told me to come sit with him when I’m finished. When I got done, I went to him and we had small talk. We got a few dances after that, and then he asked to take me to VIP. We got an hour room. He told me he just wanted to just talk.

Chile. This man just started venting to me. Long story short, he’s married for 14 years and ready to leave his wife and kids. Like, just disappear and start over. He said there’s no serious problems in the marriage, he just wants something fresh, new. I guess he’s bored. He said he started going to the clubs a lot lately and felt like he wanted a girl more that speed? Like he wants someone younger and wilder I guess he meant. He said his wife is very sweet, she’s a wonderful wife and mother. He knows if he divorced her it’ll be a shock to her and ruin her, and the kids. That’s the only reason he’s stayed. He doesn’t want to see them hurt, but he’s tired of acting and wants out. He said he can’t take it anymore. He’s been having these feelings for about 3 years now, but said those feelings got stronger when the pandemic happened because he and her were at home together often, he couldn’t get away from her. He told me once he finds the right girl to settle down with, he’s leaving.

This is exactly what I’m talking about and trying to warn you all of. I see this mess OFTEN.
 

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He's paying her for being out with his Fantasy Girl????

But she made this thread saying that men aren’t sh!t because they’re unfaithful. While that is true, she’s going out to dinner with him outside of the club. You can fire clients especially if they make you feel this way enough to make a thread about it.
 

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Why do y’all think MOST women don’t know that men ain’t sh!t? That’s a given. Y’all really think women are that naive/dumb? The truth is, most women DON’T care. I don’t know what makes y’all think every married woman is some lovelorn fool but that’s not the truth.
Probably because of the 'my man would never' and well OP is a stripper so what does she expect posts. I will say I don't like using absolute words to describe anyone...unless it's an obvious thing.
 

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facts...delete this thread if you can. Ignorance is a bliss and most of them bust down for less or nothing at all, .. you can dm me on here and we can discuss it and I can also show you how to diverse that income and make money in your sleep. When the pandemic hit, I had to help so many strippers, escorts, and "regular" women stay afloat. So many of them didn't know you could get money by the min and never have to touch a man or get naked.
Umm, does this just apply to the OP? Asking for
 

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He was good looking, but it was their history that had her caught up. The crazy part is his thang didn't even work he just ate well and used toys on her. He was doing the same to the sides and tricking his settlement money from his accident. Not even paralysis can stop these f*ckers. SMDH!

One day she was crying and telling me about his cheating and then she just paused and said "I can't believe this cripple motherf*cker tried to play me." Me "yeah girl you can't go out like that". It's years later and we still laugh about it.

Also she had previously dated an NFL player who cheated alot, but thought he would be different since he was in a wheelchair, NOT!!!


p.s. I got stories for DAYS....
The bolded reminded me of P Valley!
 

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but did it not occur to you that she probably knows? i mean, most wives know when their husbands are cheating. whether she puts on a 'face' to the rest of the world and has quietly accepted that if he's successful he's gonna do his thing on the side, or what have you, i doubt the good sis is in the dark. it's very hard for men to hide cheating and if they do it regularly enough, then his wife would have to be a total dumbass to not notice it. you need not be concerned on their wives' behalves, but it's considerate (or condescending, depending on perspective) of you to worry for them anyhow.
Then keep scrolling. Why do some of these women spit such vitriol? If it don't apply =let it fly? Only a hit dog hollers? Why attempt to tear her down?
 

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OP’s advice is not Earth shattering or ground breaking. Men aren’t sh!t. We have this discussion everyday on here. xes workers for some reason think they are the only ones exposed to trifling men when women around the world experience worse everyday. OP is continuing to see this evil man she is telling us to stay away from. Ok girl * rolls eyes*.

Nobody cares that OP is a stripper that dances for single and married men.

What people don’t care for is the woman willingly xesually serving married men coming to tell you your relationship is doomed and over because of what she does. Your man could be spoiling you and treating you well but he is lyng because OP says so.

Strippers always think they know men cause everyday women aren’t dealing with xesual harassment and xesual assault.
You do know about Maya Angelou's history right? Phenomenal Woman!
 

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OP you keep saying you don’t care about these men. And yet this is a whole PhD thesis on the subject. Girl I guess lol.
Probably because of the Naysayers actually.
Condi done probably got so many messages to reveal OP...just to triangulate their husbands locations and business meetings.
They stayed fighting the minutiae and ignored the message= stay safe!!!
 

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Here’s another “good man” story I have for y’all. This happened last night.

I got a VIP with one of the customers I spoke with earlier in the night. I approached him when he first got in, but he let me know he wanted to get a drink first and settle in, so I told him my name and to holler later if he’s interested, and let him be. He came up to me on stage and told me to come sit with him when I’m finished. When I got done, I went to him and we had small talk. We got a few dances after that, and then he asked to take me to VIP. We got an hour room. He told me he just wanted to just talk.

Chile. This man just started venting to me. Long story short, he’s married for 14 years and ready to leave his wife and kids. Like, just disappear and start over. He said there’s no serious problems in the marriage, he just wants something fresh, new. I guess he’s bored. He said he started going to the clubs a lot lately and felt like he wanted a girl more that speed? Like he wants someone younger and wilder I guess he meant. He said his wife is very sweet, she’s a wonderful wife and mother. He knows if he divorced her it’ll be a shock to her and ruin her, and the kids. That’s the only reason he’s stayed. He doesn’t want to see them hurt, but he’s tired of acting and wants out. He said he can’t take it anymore. He’s been having these feelings for about 3 years now, but said those feelings got stronger when the pandemic happened because he and her were at home together often, he couldn’t get away from her. He told me once he finds the right girl to settle down with, he’s leaving.

This is exactly what I’m talking about and trying to warn you all of. I see this mess OFTEN.

once again. there's no good men at the strip club. so this is not a good man story.
 

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And that’s all I’m trying to inform you all on. It’s shocking to me that a lot of these women truly believe that only openly scum bag men cheat, go to clubs etc. It’s like they can not fathom that there are indeed scum bag men who put on a front like they’re a good guy just to fool their significant others for whatever ulterior motive they have. They really believe the men they deem as “good” are genuinely “good”. I’m not saying he isn’t, but you can’t say he is either because you are not in that man’s head to know his true thoughts and feelings.
I'm also see the "Girl I know he ain't sh!t! Mind your business' teas, smdh!
 

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What you have is a cool story...unfortunately for you that isn't MY story and none of what you wrote is applicable to me lol So let me share with you apart of MY story...

I went to college and worked in Corporate America as a Project Manager before owning my own business while doing that, I learned about PHONESEX and CAMMING where I wasn't touched or having xes...so I started doing that when I came home and used the money to invest into my business, buy stock, and property and was able to LEAVE that company...I know this is shocking as it doesn't fit your dead ass brain narrative but because I live my own life and not in your small mind..I can CORRECT you about MY life.

Are you still clocking in? So please tell me again why wouldn't I have access to men that make well over 6 figures when I do? it's no way you really think that a complete stranger wouldn't know any decent men..you b!tches really just be saying anything on the internet lol

You do know there's xes workers that don't get naked right and everyone wears clothes in public and in the daytime..men are not HARD to access for beautiful women. Naked or Clothed :emoji_kissing_heart:

I know you can't fathom this but, you are the actual miserable BIRDBRAIN in this conversation as you have to make up stories about other women in order to feel good about your sorry ass self. I truly PITY you and your ignorance. A woman dealing with men who have money is not a BIRDBRAIN that's actually something broke b!tches who have no access to those type of men say lol We can tell the difference. Who really cares how other women access these men anyway? Why does that bother you so much? lol

We know you don't know any decent men when you're a low vibrational lying free fµck that probably has done way more disgusting things that I would ever do in this life.

I bet men see THROUGH you when you walk down the street..they don't even notice you..women who actually get men attention just by walking into the room with their clothes on...don't have to lie on other women to feel good about themselves ..but keep telling yourself whatver and writing that FAN FICTION.. whatever makes you feel good about yourself..it doesn't benefit me or take anything away from me at the end of the day lol you miserable black women are sooo powerless and pathetic, just ANGRY lolI
I definitely believe it! I had one to add but it's not for these Women.
 

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Wait I had to come back for more lmao. So why you think you’re the saint in this situation? Lol... You’re a blogger and a stripper but talking bout all men live a double life lmao. Can’t make this up.
She's a blogger? Send me/us a link? LSA don't count!
 

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I have sooo many stories lol. I love my job because it’s something new every day. If anything sticks out to me I’ll continue to spill to inform the ones who genuinely want to know, the ones that like the stories, and the ones that will be mad at the truth. I see I bothered a lot of women by what I said and they took it to heart. They try and deflect and make sh!t up because they can’t fathom their good husbands would do something like this man did. But a lot of you understood me and truly appreciate the advice, so I’ll continue to keep you hip to anything I feel is important. As long as someone gets the message, I’m happy.
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Op what you are saying is true. However the majority of women cannot handle that type of truth. The realization abut the dirty ways of men can shatter a woman's heart and mind beyond repair. So it's best not to tell women this unless you know they can handle it.

I know what my mother and grandmother prepared me for and I'm glad they did. I never saw a man with a working DACK that couldn't be "seduced". All the "good men" I have known have cheated on their wives. People love to ask what would I do if my husband cheated. My answer is "nothing". I have never caught my husband cheating. He has never given me a disease. However I would be a fool to believe he hasn't and I'm not leaving him if he did. The majority of men cheat. Black, White, Yellow... African, Russian, Brazilian... Obama... They are going to lay it down in another woman when they are ready.
Old school must have secured the bag...You wouldn't say this otherwise!
 

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Ok RaSHeeda, it was only a PSA Some of us don’t need advice that’s common sense.You and OP must be young af.
Ok RaSHeeda, it was only a PSA
Rasheeda, I am not. Y’all forget,not everyone on this forum is still wet behind the ears, easily impressed by chump change and getting played by ****** for their p*ssy. I hope the PSA helps you though. Be blessed.
 

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Here’s another “good man” story I have for y’all. This happened last night.

I got a VIP with one of the customers I spoke with earlier in the night. I approached him when he first got in, but he let me know he wanted to get a drink first and settle in, so I told him my name and to holler later if he’s interested, and let him be. He came up to me on stage and told me to come sit with him when I’m finished. When I got done, I went to him and we had small talk. We got a few dances after that, and then he asked to take me to VIP. We got an hour room. He told me he just wanted to just talk.

Chile. This man just started venting to me. Long story short, he’s married for 14 years and ready to leave his wife and kids. Like, just disappear and start over. He said there’s no serious problems in the marriage, he just wants something fresh, new. I guess he’s bored. He said he started going to the clubs a lot lately and felt like he wanted a girl more that speed? Like he wants someone younger and wilder I guess he meant. He said his wife is very sweet, she’s a wonderful wife and mother. He knows if he divorced her it’ll be a shock to her and ruin her, and the kids. That’s the only reason he’s stayed. He doesn’t want to see them hurt, but he’s tired of acting and wants out. He said he can’t take it anymore. He’s been having these feelings for about 3 years now, but said those feelings got stronger when the pandemic happened because he and her were at home together often, he couldn’t get away from her. He told me once he finds the right girl to settle down with, he’s leaving.

This is exactly what I’m talking about and trying to warn you all of. I see this mess OFTEN.


There is nothing surprising here op. It's a very classic situation. He just wants some new p*ssy. He will bang you for a few months, then pull back to focus on his home life. Most men do this after being married for a long time.
 

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Rasheeda, I am not. Y’all forget,not everyone on this forum is still wet behind the ears, easily impressed by chump change and getting played by ****** for their p*ssy. I hope the PSA helps you though. Be blessed.
Thank you and you as well.

Just a quick request: please don't attempt to edit my post to make it look disparaging.
 

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Here’s another “good man” story I have for y’all. This happened last night.

I got a VIP with one of the customers I spoke with earlier in the night. I approached him when he first got in, but he let me know he wanted to get a drink first and settle in, so I told him my name and to holler later if he’s interested, and let him be. He came up to me on stage and told me to come sit with him when I’m finished. When I got done, I went to him and we had small talk. We got a few dances after that, and then he asked to take me to VIP. We got an hour room. He told me he just wanted to just talk.

Chile. This man just started venting to me. Long story short, he’s married for 14 years and ready to leave his wife and kids. Like, just disappear and start over. He said there’s no serious problems in the marriage, he just wants something fresh, new. I guess he’s bored. He said he started going to the clubs a lot lately and felt like he wanted a girl more that speed? Like he wants someone younger and wilder I guess he meant. He said his wife is very sweet, she’s a wonderful wife and mother. He knows if he divorced her it’ll be a shock to her and ruin her, and the kids. That’s the only reason he’s stayed. He doesn’t want to see them hurt, but he’s tired of acting and wants out. He said he can’t take it anymore. He’s been having these feelings for about 3 years now, but said those feelings got stronger when the pandemic happened because he and her were at home together often, he couldn’t get away from her. He told me once he finds the right girl to settle down with, he’s leaving.

This is exactly what I’m talking about and trying to warn you all of. I see this mess OFTEN.
This man has absolutely no intention of leaving his wife. He just wants some new p-ssy. Trust
What a man loves more than p-ssy is NEW p-ssy.
His wife could look like Naomi Campbell or Jasmine Tookes ; cook like a Michelin starred Chef, give him a constant supply of hot xes and he would still be out there looking for new p-ssy .
 

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Women loveeeee to be in denial about the ugly truth of modern male culture.

yes ofc attack the OP instead of using that info to protect yourself and vet men thoroughly.

These same women will cry about their man being downlow, cheating on them with streetwalkers and all sorts of craziness because they wanna live in Lala land where all men are lively thoughtful angelic creatures. Smh
 

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I have been shocked and saddened by the vitriol aimed at the Op.
Deliberately trying to embarrass and discredit her because you don’t like what she is saying .
I have constantly read posts on LSA about so called decent men leading double lives. I am happily married , but I couldn’t swear blind that my church going, professional husband wouldn’t frequent a strip club or sleep with other women. I would hope he would have the sense not to as he knows that this would most probably be end of our marriage.
I truly believe that most men would sleep around if they were given the opportunity . I don’t hate men, as I said I am married to a wonderful man. I am just being realistic based on what I have witnessed with others.

It’s funny because men say the EXACT same things about women. They warn each other that not every ‘good girl’ is loyal, women lead double lives, protect yourself ect. Women in average are much less duplicitous than men are ironically. Somehow men still date women, marry women ect. Never accuse each other of being bitter lonely women haters ect when receiving this kinda advice.

Women are our own worst enemies. Smh
 

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This man has absolutely no intention of leaving his wife. He just wants some new p-ssy. Trust
What a man loves more than p-ssy is NEW p-ssy.
His wife could look like Naomi Campbell or Jasmine Tookes ; cook like a Michelin starred Chef, give him a constant supply of hot xes and he would still be out there looking for new p-ssy .
But see heres the stupid thing about these replies. OP is here to warn women about what men do behind their wives back but yet ya ll feel the need to remind her these men arent serious about her and wont ever leave their wives. Who cares about their long term intentions with OP when they still are trynna fµck strippers behind their wives back?

Like fµck get a clue, so busy trynna put her down and yet proving her point at the same time. An unfaithful man is just that. Periodt!
 

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This right here my husband cheats on me all the time and has had several babies on me. I’m good friends with his mistresses too. We are one big happy family.
 

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But see heres the stupid thing about these replies. OP is here to warn women about what men do behind their wives back but yet ya ll feel the need to remind her these men arent serious about her and wont ever leave their wives. Who cares about their long term intentions with OP when they still are trynna fµck strippers behind their wives back?

Like fµck get a clue, so busy trynna put her down and yet proving her point at the same time. An unfaithful man is just that. Periodt!
I am not trying to put Op down at all. If you look at my previous posts I have actually been supporting the Op. I actually agree with all of what she has been saying
However, when Op told the story about the client who said that he was unhappy in his marriage and wanted to leave his wife and kids- I simply suggested that OP took the story with a pinch of salt because men will tell you anything in order to sleep with you. I was in no way criticising the Op or denigrating her.
 
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I'm laughing at some of the responses on here about the OP projecting and how only hurt people and hoes think this way, lol.

I can tell you stories of friends who tell me they cheat, and friends who tell me they've been cheated on. I have several friends and acquaintances that are married. Male and female. Only one of the couples has not come to me with a cheating story. I'm talking orgies, prostitutes, strippers, a side baby, serial cheating even after getting caught, texting women to come to their marital home while wifey was away...

The men (bar two) are what people that from the outside appear to be very professional, trustworthy, good family types. They work in finance, medicine, business owners etc. I've heard and seen enough to know that all PEOPLE are CAPABLE of cheating, and most men would given the opportunity if they thought they would not get caught. It would be naive to think otherwise.

A unifying theme with the men i know that cheated was that they did not feel satisfied xesually, and that having other women want to have xes with them made them feel like they were still desirable. What is most disgusting to me is that some of these men didn't use protection. And when I say I would never sleep with a man, married or not, without protection people think I'm crazy.
 
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Here’s another “good man” story I have for y’all. This happened last night.

I got a VIP with one of the customers I spoke with earlier in the night. I approached him when he first got in, but he let me know he wanted to get a drink first and settle in, so I told him my name and to holler later if he’s interested, and let him be. He came up to me on stage and told me to come sit with him when I’m finished. When I got done, I went to him and we had small talk. We got a few dances after that, and then he asked to take me to VIP. We got an hour room. He told me he just wanted to just talk.

Chile. This man just started venting to me. Long story short, he’s married for 14 years and ready to leave his wife and kids. Like, just disappear and start over. He said there’s no serious problems in the marriage, he just wants something fresh, new. I guess he’s bored. He said he started going to the clubs a lot lately and felt like he wanted a girl more that speed? Like he wants someone younger and wilder I guess he meant. He said his wife is very sweet, she’s a wonderful wife and mother. He knows if he divorced her it’ll be a shock to her and ruin her, and the kids. That’s the only reason he’s stayed. He doesn’t want to see them hurt, but he’s tired of acting and wants out. He said he can’t take it anymore. He’s been having these feelings for about 3 years now, but said those feelings got stronger when the pandemic happened because he and her were at home together often, he couldn’t get away from her. He told me once he finds the right girl to settle down with, he’s leaving.

This is exactly what I’m talking about and trying to warn you all of. I see this mess OFTEN.

Lol I came across a guy like this recently. He has a wife and two daughters. Married for 16 years. He was complaining to me about how he wishes he was alone and single. I was thinking, “Ok, why are you telling me this what do you expect of me to do?” And he has the nerve to post pics of them looking happy together on social media and claiming he loves her.

Do you come across as someone who’s a good listener? Chances are, if you are a listener, you’ll attract men who are secretly miserable in marriage because they think by you being a good listener that means you fancy them.
 

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But see heres the stupid thing about these replies. OP is here to warn women about what men do behind their wives back but yet ya ll feel the need to remind her these men arent serious about her and wont ever leave their wives. Who cares about their long term intentions with OP when they still are trynna fµck strippers behind their wives back?

Like fµck get a clue, so busy trynna put her down and yet proving her point at the same time. An unfaithful man is just that. Periodt!

They even hit on women who aren’t strippers. I have a friend who is religious and dresses super conservative (think knee length skirts and dresses) and she still has had taken or married men hitting on her and lying about their status.
 

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Y'all telling on yourselves thinking normal men go to strip clubs. Yikes.

As a woman who actually likes going to strip clubs I can 100% assure you that decent men who are actually about something in life with real careers and lives do not want to go to strip clubs. Lol, this happens on LSA all the time :joy: mfers think they putting somebody up on game but really all they're doing is telegraphing how fµck!ng ghetto their life is. You hate to see it.
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Lol I came across a guy like this recently. He has a wife and two daughters. Married for 16 years. He was complaining to me about how he wishes he was alone and single. I was thinking, “Ok, why are you telling me this what do you expect of me to do?” And he has the nerve to post pics of them looking happy together on social media and claiming he loves her.

Do you come across as someone who’s a good listener? Chances are, if you are a listener, you’ll attract men who are secretly miserable in marriage because they think by you being a good listener that means you fancy them.
Yes, I get the good listener thing a lot. That’s where a good portion of my VIPs come from; men who feel they can talk to me about their problems. It’s like I and other dancers are therapist to them. They don’t even want advice, they just need someone to vent to. After a few drinks, they will go OFF.
 

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If this is true, I don’t get it. How can you be in any relationship and know the man is cheating and not care? Why not leave and find better or just stay single? I actually agree with you because this makes sense. I just can’t fathom why a woman would want to do that. I always feel she really doesn’t know or is ignoring the obvious signs, but never not care he is cheating. Unless you mean they don’t care as in they’re cheating too.

Acknowledging that most men are trash doesn’t mean you’ll accept bad treatment. It just means you know the game. It’s better to believe most men are dogs than to think YOUR husband or man will be the exception.
 

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