ZalicaDivine
General Manager
so work has been going great until last week until I began working with this girl who I always see but never speak to at work. So her friend, a guy, I overheard him telling her that he thought I was cute and she said, "you sure?"
the panicking me in ME kinda got scared but heres how I think her and other supervisors know (shes a supervisor and works closely with upper staff). When I applied for the job a year ago, my gender marker wasnt yet changed and so in February this year I finally got it changed on my ID and brought it in so some of the uppers know but these are people like way up, they aren't even in the city at all times, they go to multiple locations and things like that.
ever since i got there though this girl seemed to have a problem with me and I have ignored her up til now. we started in the same department last week and i was beginning to think she was cool until i heard 'he' slip out of her mouth a few times. i THOUGHT maybe its just my mind playing tricks on me until i heard her clearly the second time. I ignored it and I asked the next morning to transfer to another department. on Friday one of the older ladies, shes really sweet but has always looked at me oddly asked me, "this is personal..don't get angry but you are a girl right?" and said she'd heard things before about me and would dismiss the rumors until she head again that day.
My defenses instantly clicked ok and told her yes and proceeded on my way to the head management office, i was very upset and very annoyed, I'm very sweet but i did feel personally attacked because i KNOW for a fact the girl knows about my medical history and has been gossiping about me. I reported her and asked for a leave of absence for a few days.
It just boggles my mind ...how miserable can a person be.
I bother no one and keep to myself but here's the kicker, her male friend, the one i think she even likes came to me and saw me visibly upset and began to console me, "you're beautiful regardless of what people say". I was definitely crying and his words were nice, I just don't feel safe there and will probably transfer. But she clearly did it out of jealousy and it makes me mad because I have a bf so...yeah I don't want your fµck!ng friend.
Not saying all biological women do this but she seems bitter and overall just miserable. I expect the same respect I give you to be given to me!
the panicking me in ME kinda got scared but heres how I think her and other supervisors know (shes a supervisor and works closely with upper staff). When I applied for the job a year ago, my gender marker wasnt yet changed and so in February this year I finally got it changed on my ID and brought it in so some of the uppers know but these are people like way up, they aren't even in the city at all times, they go to multiple locations and things like that.
ever since i got there though this girl seemed to have a problem with me and I have ignored her up til now. we started in the same department last week and i was beginning to think she was cool until i heard 'he' slip out of her mouth a few times. i THOUGHT maybe its just my mind playing tricks on me until i heard her clearly the second time. I ignored it and I asked the next morning to transfer to another department. on Friday one of the older ladies, shes really sweet but has always looked at me oddly asked me, "this is personal..don't get angry but you are a girl right?" and said she'd heard things before about me and would dismiss the rumors until she head again that day.
My defenses instantly clicked ok and told her yes and proceeded on my way to the head management office, i was very upset and very annoyed, I'm very sweet but i did feel personally attacked because i KNOW for a fact the girl knows about my medical history and has been gossiping about me. I reported her and asked for a leave of absence for a few days.
It just boggles my mind ...how miserable can a person be.
I bother no one and keep to myself but here's the kicker, her male friend, the one i think she even likes came to me and saw me visibly upset and began to console me, "you're beautiful regardless of what people say". I was definitely crying and his words were nice, I just don't feel safe there and will probably transfer. But she clearly did it out of jealousy and it makes me mad because I have a bf so...yeah I don't want your fµck!ng friend.
Not saying all biological women do this but she seems bitter and overall just miserable. I expect the same respect I give you to be given to me!