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Fonts, are these men worth the trouble or should I not entertain them? Are they family oriented, religious, faithful? Racist?
Interesting point about being left because they don’t have to deal with black people and other POC rather than despite that. I 100% agree with youThe dregs of society live in upstate NY
New England is a completely different geographic region and culture--and it covers a lot of territory. Narrow it down by state.
Overall, it's a place that's practically 90-95% white, and most are Bernie Sanders type of white liberals: tolerant and "left" because they don't actually have to deal with Black people or other POC.
Girl that’s where my ass is from. Full of crazies and meth heads!Dated one who was from ithaca ny. Turned out to be a racist and a schizo... Never talked to him again.
You've never seen Lovecraft Country?Fonts, are these men worth the trouble or should I not entertain them? Are they family oriented, religious, faithful? Racist?
We don't white people here so I have no ideaFonts, are these men worth the trouble or should I not entertain them? Are they family oriented, religious, faithful? Racist?
Was the guy you dated one of those types who hated black men but wanted to be with you?Dated one who was from ithaca ny. Turned out to be a racist and a schizo... Never talked to him again.
He was the type who expected his ass to be kissed cause he unfriended some racist ass dudes "on my behalf". I don't even think he liked black people in general but only liked me cause I kept him company. Right before I ghosted him...he expected me to help him rant about black guys dating fat white women.Was the guy you dated one of those types who hated black men but wanted to be with you?
Wow! That guy sounds like he was a mess. Glad you got away from him. That's weird that he didn't like black people but made an exception for you. I suppose a lot of them are double-minded like that. Don't blame yourself for his actions. At least you're out of that situation now.He was the type who expected his ass to be kissed cause he unfriended some racist ass dudes "on my behalf". I don't even think he liked black people in general but only liked me cause I kept him company. Right before I ghosted him...he expected me to help him rant about black guys dating fat white women.
The dude was dating me for a short time but he really wanted a petite blonde white girl with blue eyes(I have a tendency to make men tell on themselves cause they get comfortable) . His mom was a self hating native american who procreated with a racist white male. So in turn I was wasting my time. There was a lot of things I had went through in that short time of dating him. Even to the point where I questioned my own self esteem. That was a couple of years ago but it still gets in my mind when I think about liking non black men. I only crush on the celebs for now but I dont know how I feel about the rest of them. My perspective of men in general is not the best . All I have are fantasies of how I want men to be...not actually who they are.
I've been raised in southern states for most of my life with no luck. I don't think I'll fair well in America romantically speaking Tbh. The men are either with you cause no one else wants them, they wanna play games, or have a sense that they are somehow better than you ( when they aren't).
Sorry, didn't mean to rant but...yeah. Farmington New York, ithaca, syracuse etc etc... Don't ever date men from up there, especially if they're white.
Thanks for the nice words!! It made me sit back and examine the people I let into my life and set boundaries properly.Wow! That guy sounds like he was a mess. Glad you got away from him. That's weird that he didn't like black people but made an exception for you. I suppose a lot of them are double-minded like that. Don't blame yourself for his actions. At least you're out of that situation now.
Who knows maybe you'll meet a nice European guy that you'll click with.
Sounds like Upstate NY is not the place to meet white men!
Why are they intimidated by people from the city? That's childish.I'm in Albany now but I'm originally from Brooklyn the white men up here are boring and intimidated by anyone from the city.
That's good that you're getting wiser about boundaries. That's important to have in all relationships. In a different thread somebody posted a video of a news interview of a white man from Buffalo who was very indifferent about an arson attack that happened to a black family in his neighborhood and he basically said the family shouldn't have moved to the area. He then went on to say the property value goes down when blacks move in. The news reporter was shocked at how racist the guy was. But I bet that same guy would gladly put his dick in a black woman. That's the double-minded situation. It's tough to sort through the white men who think that way.Thanks for the nice words!! It made me sit back and examine the people I let into my life and set boundaries properly.
Yes, dont ever date one from upstate. Those places are very cut off from the major city of new york so ignorance just feeds on itself. Not everyone who lives in new york is open minded like tv likes to portray. Area matters a lot.
I generally dont know why men esp white men, think they can date whoever outside of their race and be so openly two faced regarding racial relations. The truth is that they don't really make "exceptions" but their tolerance is "upped" a bit higher depending on how they can use you. Once I made it clear that I wouldnt fµck him, he got angry.
Many white people from upstate NY hate/dislike anything associated with NYC.Why are they intimidated by people from the city? That's childish.
That’s not indifference, he’s clearly in support or OK with that crime and therefore racist.That's good that you're getting wiser about boundaries. That's important to have in all relationships. In a different thread somebody posted a video of a news interview of a white man from Buffalo who was very indifferent about an arson attack that happened to a black family in his neighborhood and he basically said the family shouldn't have moved to the area. He then went on to say the property value goes down when blacks move in. The news reporter was shocked at how racist the guy was. But I bet that same guy would gladly put his dick in a black woman. That's the double-minded situation. It's tough to sort through the white men who think that way.
You know what I meant.That’s not indifference, he’s clearly in support or OK with that crime and therefore racist.
I feel it's because most people from the city speak direct and it intimidates them .Why are they intimidated by people from the city? That's childish.
The dregs of society live in upstate NY
New England is a completely different geographic region and culture--and it covers a lot of territory. Narrow it down by state.
Overall, it's a place that's practically 90-95% white, and most are Bernie Sanders type of white liberals: tolerant and "left" because they don't actually have to deal with Black people or other POC.
Yep
Massachusetts white boys have a range that goes according to income level, religious background, region, and social conditioning from family/parents
The poorer ones emulate hiphop culture and love drugs, a lot of east coast versions of Malibu Brad.
The more moneyed ones are old fashioned white, are not used to being around black people, and don't associate with the poor of their own kind in this state. As for how they view black people/bw they stare at us and it's not always in admiration or curiosity. Sometimes it's a rapey lust or a really offensive look of amusement. I'm from the south so I'm highly attuned to white peoples nonverbal comms and cues, as well as those of my own. You do have to be careful. Certain parts of mass are still northern sundown towns, better believe. The are areas that are totally devoid of black people, and you will get followed on foot or by car.
I believe white men in mass want to have xes with bw and only relationship if she has money, status or is extraordinarily beautiful. If I married a rich mass white man I would immediately instil fear into him to keep him in line the moment the ink is dry because he will try you, either financially, emotionally, or physically/xesually, the moment you are too comfortable.
Massachusetts is a white mans world
I thrive in it because I avoid them and connect with bw and woc only
The bm here are no princes either
Honestly if I had no choice and was forced to pick, I'd rather have an upper class Americanised Asian/Indian person. But would tolerate a super liberal irish bboy creative Newbury st mature hypebeast type if there was no alternative. But I would keep him on a leash and do extensive background checking for criminal activities, hate crimes/racism, and golddigging/leeching.
They seem to be annoyed by white women, they date other races in general. and when they start to associate with many black people or other people of color they take on the identity of their attention.
You find this a lot in RI moreso.
I have no Maine or New Hampshire tea.
CT is the devil's anus, do not reccomend for anyone
This is good and spot on. Curious about CT though. I find areas New Haven and west to the NY border along the coast not to be that bad because of the NYC tri-state influence. Found a mix of intellectual white guys, small town/suburban conservative types, ones who grew up in mixed areas of New Haven, Stratford, and Bridgeport, and of course the typical Greenwich/Darien preppy ones. Why do you think CT is bad? lol
omgggggggg the accuracy is so on point!Thanks.
Watch your drink around them.
There are two CTs
Rich preppy Suburbia CT
and
Ghetto Hell Hood CT
Both of them in my experience are are trash, and teeming with chaotic junkies. It just doesn't give upward mobility. It is a stagnant, dull, oppressive place even when it's where the money resides. Money cant fix everything! And these people are crazy! The most criminally insane state in New England, hands down.
The hood in CT is where the tristate and Boston sends its rejects. I mean this absolutely literally, the cities purchases them "one shot deal" tickets and dump 'em in the hood.
The CT rich prep squad snobs are really just a bunch of middle aged/boomer white collar criminals, old European crime family rejects, like the hoe Jay Electron married, and rich asshole academia retirees.
CT preps are not as sophisticated as UWS/UES/Manhatt WASPS, or even as socially bleeding heart as many Cambridge/Boston preps.
I believe that religious differences play a role in this. Even Catholicism functions differently in CT vs MA.
Many of the whites are poor working class one generation removed, on most those cul de sacs. Business owners who inherited wealth or behave in "newriche" ways. Quietly fining bankruptcy and forclosing on sh!t they lived in for forty years, because they're escrow eaters. They dont like ****** yet all their kids are in athletics, all the parents and kids lowkey fµck!n and sucking bm from the ghetto side, their teens are all wannabe ****** in academy uniforms aaaaa ha ha ha hahaha
Some of them wouldn't have sh!t if it weren't for the trades, and that's who the bottom tier white rich CT is. Got money, property and investments, but are obese, poor oral care/bad teeth, and terribly/ostensibly dressed. Miserable af to top it off
Give me Manhattan instead
This. But most of them have never been outside their town/city of origin let alone travel downstate to NYC so they are clueless.Many white people from upstate NY hate/dislike anything associated with NYC.
This. But most of them have never been outside their town/city of origin let alone travel downstate to NYC so they are clueless.
May I Dm you? I have questions...Yep
Massachusetts white boys have a range that goes according to income level, religious background, region, and social conditioning from family/parents
The poorer ones emulate hiphop culture and love drugs, a lot of east coast versions of Malibu Brad.
The more moneyed ones are old fashioned white, are not used to being around black people, and don't associate with the poor of their own kind in this state. As for how they view black people/bw they stare at us and it's not always in admiration or curiosity. Sometimes it's a rapey lust or a really offensive look of amusement. I'm from the south so I'm highly attuned to white peoples nonverbal comms and cues, as well as those of my own. You do have to be careful. Certain parts of mass are still northern sundown towns, better believe. The are areas that are totally devoid of black people, and you will get followed on foot or by car.
I believe white men in mass want to have xes with bw and only relationship if she has money, status or is extraordinarily beautiful. If I married a rich mass white man I would immediately instil fear into him to keep him in line the moment the ink is dry because he will try you, either financially, emotionally, or physically/xesually, the moment you are too comfortable.
Massachusetts is a white mans world
I thrive in it because I avoid them and connect with bw and woc only
The bm here are no princes either
Honestly if I had no choice and was forced to pick, I'd rather have an upper class Americanised Asian/Indian person. But would tolerate a super liberal irish bboy creative Newbury st mature hypebeast type if there was no alternative. But I would keep him on a leash and do extensive background checking for criminal activities, hate crimes/racism, and golddigging/leeching.
They seem to be annoyed by white women, they date other races in general. and when they start to associate with many black people or other people of color they take on the identity of their attention.
You find this a lot in RI moreso.
I have no Maine or New Hampshire tea.
CT is the devil's anus, do not reccomend for anyone