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No wedding for me. I would like to get married (just the two of us) at one of our honeymoon destinations. Two birds, one stone. I’m so uncomfortable with the idea of getting married in front of all these people. I don’t like attention. I do want a bridal shower though. My list for that is about 25 women so far. My vision for that is really beautiful. And it’s invitation only, exclusive. I don’t want any ole body at my shower.
 

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I was feeling guilty about it but just the idea makes me anxious also the money you put in ugh ... It might do a small wedding.
 

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I really don't want a wedding, but I think my parents & grandmothers are dying for me to have one if I ever get married. I'm seriously thinking of just having a reception type party or a destination wedding
 

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When I was too young to know better, I wanted an elaborate wedding. I always imagined the process of planning would be a joyous experience to share with mom, who I was very close to.

The older I've gotten, the smaller the wedding in my mind has gotten. Especially with my mom - who is now physically disabled and has dementia - not being able to be part of it. I just don't care at all about the pomp and circumstance.

Not even sure I want to ever be married at all now....certainly not in a traditional sense, at least...but if I do, it'd be really small or a private elopement.
 
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I'll probably never get married but if I do, I have no interest in having a wedding.
I don't have enough people to invite anyway and it's a waste of money. Better to use that and go on vacation or put it towards a down payment.
I do love wedding dresses though so thats an internal conflict lol
I feel like I could have wrote this myself
 

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I don't want a wedding either because of my family. The dynamics are very dysfunctional and I don't want any part of it on my wedding day. It's my special day and I want my day to filled with love and peace.
As much as I would want to have a big wedding with good food and music I know it's impossible with my family's dynamic. I choose my peace.
 

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Wish I had someone to plan it for us. Otherwise I'm not interested in having one. Seems embarrassing.
 

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Vanessa Carlton's (yes, her of :"A Thousand Miles" fame) wrote an awesome song about this "I Don't Want to Be a Bride" 10 years ago (she did end up getting married though lol)
 

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