I’m not really getting why you desire to be with someone who is 1: in a relationship with a woman and won’t relieve his sexuality Or 2: Will hide his relationship with you... are you seeking purely xes. If so make a tinder, a grinder, and or stick a store up and get arrested there are a lot of those kind of men in those places
So you're seeing people being outed?? That makes you scared??It's interesting but I've noticed an increase in black men who are gay or on the DL on social media. Maybe I wasn't paying attention before but there seems to be a sudden SURGE and it makes me fearful of dating.
They know know what they want its xes right? They are unpredictable cuz they ghost you outta nowhere in my experience.please stay away from DL men unless you’re looking for no strings attached xes or friendship and that’s even if you pass as straight. they don’t know what they want, they don’t know what they’re doing and they are unpredictable. I learnt my lesson.
please stay away from DL men unless you’re looking for no strings attached xes or friendship and that’s even if you pass as straight. they don’t know what they want, they don’t know what they’re doing and they are unpredictable. I learnt my lesson.
This is true thoEye fµck them.
Thank y’all so much talking some sense into me ❤️
Spill teaThe DL thing is TROUBLE
they giving out STDs real bad out here in Charlotte
I guess I’m lucky to not run into too many DL men here, but then again, I don’t really fool with too many guys in my city. Nobody here really interests me like that.The DL thing is TROUBLE
they giving out STDs real bad out here in Charlotte
I guess I’m lucky to not run into too many DL men here, but then again, I don’t really fool with too many guys in my city. Nobody here really interests me like that.
Those anti AIDS programs need to give their billions of dollars to us because we are clearly doing a better job then they are. Smh.
Out of all the time and energy and blatant advertising about closeted men and disease some people still want get buckwild with them.
Tell me more about this because I been missing outAre you guys NOT aware that the majority of “DL”/Bi men who publicly identify as straight are WHITE/Non-blk right? Closeted men are in EVERY ethnicity.... especially the more masculine they are...
This isn’t anything that’s exclusive to blk men....EVERY ethnic group has this problem due to patriarchy/masculinity standards.
have you guys not been on Grindr... or traveled abroad to cities lived in any major city outside the US South? You’ll find yourself getting hit on by closeted men from EVERY variety!
Again, DL/“Closet” is a worldwide phenomenon due to patriarchy/masculinity expectations stemming from religion!
i was in love with santonio from thereThe DL thing is TROUBLE
they giving out STDs real bad out here in Charlotte
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i was in love with santonio from there
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Tell me more about this because I been missing out
Soooo I have to get on Grindr to see what’s upIt's pretty common lol. Basically none of your guy friends will ever tell you, but there are many dl/bi who present straight publicly. And if you're on grindr a lot theyll hit you up. You don't really need to look or try.
You cant really assign negative or positive value to it, bc I mean the issue at hand is being gay/bi is still at odds with what it means to be a "man" and what masculinity is. These guys also from my understanding aren't deeply homophobic necessarily either. One of my friends likes to call them "men who love men" lol, bc I think to him DL implies a level of latent homophobia. And in general I don't think these guys are. But yea that's the general tea lol.
Soooo I have to get on Grindr to see what’s up
And is the straight guys on there ?Basically lmaoo but honestly as a queer woman i literally never knew this until a lot of my gay and queer guy friends told me. It's a phenomena that is also like a very ingroup conversation
And is the straight guys on there ?
And is the straight guys on there ?
Like i said I mean yea lol. They present straight but do like men