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He is heavy set man.. Overweight.. Not trying to body shame. He has a decent job, he is a hard worker.. Cooks delicious dinners. A man who can cook is decent in my opinion.. And we have good conversations. Pure heart, open minded.. He got a decent head on his shoulder. I noticed that only heavy set men contact me.. I noticed that most heavy set men who contact me, they be about their business, and their stability is great. They work, and on be on it. I don't mind a man heavy. But, I am not sure to engage with them. They got some stomach and lumps.. I can get use to it.... But, dang.. They be trying to cater me, look out for it..
 

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Lol. If you like him go for it. He seems like he ticks all the right boxes. Attraction also matters so if you can’t put his weight aside then move on. How big we talking btw.....
 

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Lol. If you like him go for it. He seems like he ticks all the right boxes. Attraction also matters so if you can’t put his weight aside then move on. How big we talking btw.....
Man.... I cussed his off tf out the one day..

Tell me why.. I wake up the next morning, he sent me some light heart texts how I slept.
 

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Man.... I cussed his off tf out the one day..

Tell me why.. I wake up the next morning, he sent me some light heart texts how I slept.
Seems sweet. I’m a lil shallow myself so I get your hesitation. Hope everything works out for you.
 

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Seems sweet. I’m a lil shallow myself so I get your hesitation. Hope everything works out for you.
He was so nice, patient, understanding, and sympathetic. Then he apologised for me cussing him out. What.
 

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I dated a heavy set dude. He was so cute with them dimples. Dated another one. He was cute. Tall and cocky. He played me.

I would again. I am pretty open when it comes to dating.
 

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I was with a heavy set guy and he was nice and would cook for me. He was depressed about his weight and took it out on me. Now he's nearing almost 400 lbs. but he's 6'2" so it doesn't look so bad.
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I used to crush on them all the time when I was single but mostly end up with skinny men. The ones that have protector energy are sexy to me.

If you're both feeling each other, do you! Don't let a font shame you into shutting down a good thing.
 

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I don’t think I could be with an overweight man. I am small and he would most likely crush me. :(

But if you like him go for him. :)
 

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If you ARE attracted to him go for it. Just make sure all the box ticking isn’t because he’s compensating for being overweight. These type drop the weight and do a whole 180 on you. And don’t make the mistake of being the girl that makes him lose weight so he can be hot and in shape to cheat or leave for the woman he really likes.

Good luck.
 
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He is heavy set man.. Overweight.. Not trying to body shame. He has a decent job, he is a hard worker.. Cooks delicious dinners. A man who can cook is decent in my opinion.. And we have good conversations. Pure heart, open minded.. He got a decent head on his shoulder. I noticed that only heavy set men contact me.. I noticed that most heavy set men who contact me, they be about their business, and their stability is great. They work, and on be on it. I don't mind a man heavy. But, I am not sure to engage with them. They got some stomach and lumps.. I can get use to it.... But, dang.. They be trying to cater me, look out for it..
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This was a beautiful stream of consciousness post.
You sound sprung, girl
 

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He is heavy set man.. Overweight.. Not trying to body shame. He has a decent job, he is a hard worker.. Cooks delicious dinners. A man who can cook is decent in my opinion.. And we have good conversations. Pure heart, open minded.. He got a decent head on his shoulder. I noticed that only heavy set men contact me.. I noticed that most heavy set men who contact me, they be about their business, and their stability is great. They work, and on be on it. I don't mind a man heavy. But, I am not sure to engage with them. They got some stomach and lumps.. I can get use to it.... But, dang.. They be trying to cater me, look out for it..
I wish I could have that kind of dating experience. I find heavy set men attractive. Especially if they have a dominant or assertive nature oooh the coochie screaming!
 

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He is heavy set man.. Overweight.. Not trying to body shame. He has a decent job, he is a hard worker.. Cooks delicious dinners. A man who can cook is decent in my opinion.. And we have good conversations. Pure heart, open minded.. He got a decent head on his shoulder. I noticed that only heavy set men contact me.. I noticed that most heavy set men who contact me, they be about their business, and their stability is great. They work, and on be on it. I don't mind a man heavy. But, I am not sure to engage with them. They got some stomach and lumps.. I can get use to it.... But, dang.. They be trying to cater me, look out for it..
weight can be lost. seems like you're being superficial. why not encourage him to live a healthier lifestyle instead of letting it get in the way of what could potentially be a substantial relationship?
 

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weight can be lost. seems like you're being superficial. why not encourage him to live a healthier lifestyle instead of letting it get in the way of what could potentially be a substantial relationship?
Or she could take him the way he is. I wouldn't go into anything thinking that I could "encourage" a grown man to do anything. Most people don't want and didn't ask for encouragement to change themselves.
 

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1. More cushin' for the pushin'

2. I don't think men should be fat, but enjoy your bear
 

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OP you said you don't mind a heavy man but it seems you do. I don't juge , I don't see myself with an obese man. Chubby maybe but 250 lbs for 5'8 yooo.
 

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It wouldn’t be the fat that concerned me more than his lack of concern for it.

If he’s not worries about his weight, next thing you know you’ll be buying Velcro strap shoes and hosing him off in the backyard. He gonna be frying chicken from a hot plate on his lap.
 

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What would bother me is that he doesn't take care of himself/not healthy. Overeating is a thing - people can get addicted to food, and many times it's as a result of childhood abuse/trauma.
No shame - I gained 70+ lbs with my son & hid cakes under my bed for a year before I started caring about my health.
Too many health & mental issues for me but you should do what feels right for you, OP.
 

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All jokes aside my boyfriend is chubby but not fat but he’s on the taller side. He’s been working out and he doesn’t eat crappy, so his goal is to lose 50 lbs.


seems like your dude doesn’t care at all about his health
 

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This was a beautiful stream of consciousness post.
You sound sprung, girl
I have been the magnet for trash men, garbage, and dusties..

So, when decent men try to pursue me.. it hit different, it really do.. One of them was educated.. He worked a lot of hours, and still managed to make time to communicate with me everyday. Then how he was a barber, and cook.
 

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Can you fully respect a man who apologises even after you cuss him out?
It made me irritated! Like.. instead of addressing me being wrong.. you gonna comfort me? I need my man to put me in my place when I am wrong.
 

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Lol. If you like him go for it. He seems like he ticks all the right boxes. Attraction also matters so if you can’t put his weight aside then move on. How big we talking btw.....
I told him my favorite foods a year ago..

Recently, I asked him about my favorite food..

He put the list in order, hot wings, sushi, and Burger King fries.
 

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I told him to call me on my off day at 8PM.. I get a phone call at 7:53PM..

Then he texted me, If he could get permission to call me. Around 7:49 PM..
 

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