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Black Man wonders why Educated Black women don’t seek out Black husbands in college like White women do

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Lmaoooo

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He really fell into that... oof. We have updated stats on which gender goes to college more often. Dude should've did his research before saying anything.

eta: Sad that I thought this tweet was from 2017 or 2012 ... but it was made literally yesterday.
 

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Cuz they're too busy slanging dick

And how many college sweethearts last anyways?
A few of the black people that I know that met in college are currently engaged to their college sweethearts (I'm in my early 30s) but I think that is mostly due to not finding or being presented with a better option. It's hard to date post college.
 

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I love a simple straightforward tell- off. Just to the point and vicious. Not to mention accurate af,lol.
 
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Black men are truly delusional . Black women would seek out their husbands while attending college if more Black men actually attended college. Also, let’s talk about the fact that some of the Black men that do attend college , don’t date Black women!
 

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Why are women being blamed for this??

Whether in college or not..

If we're following traditional gender roles men are the gatekeepers to marriage it's their job to step up.

Why aren't more black men willing to settle down and be faithfully committed to just one woman earlier on in life rather than waiting til they hit 65 and reluctantly choose to settle?

It's Peter Pan syndrome and the perpetual state of bachelorhood is supported and encouraged.

Other men clown a man who chooses to invest their time and energy in a healthy, meaningful, respectful, and nuturing relationship with one woman and call it simpin. Especially if he chooses to financially support his woman.

It's gotten to a point where some woman are now getting down on bended knee bc that's the only way they can make it happen.
 
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I'm convinced these men have unresolved mommy issues, that's why they pick apart every damn move Black women make...please seek therapy bruh
 

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Black men are truly delusional . Black women would seek out their husbands while attending college if more Black men actually attended college. Also, let’s talk about the fact that some of the Black men that do attend college , don’t date Black women!

Many black men that are college educated, good career, no kids, no criminal record know how rare it is for black men to check off all the boxes so they decide to play around and not commit to anyone for a good while because they know they’re deemed a “good catch”.
 

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Because most black men don’t go to college? Because there are a larger number of BW in college compared to BM? Way more than any other race/gender combination. And that‘s not even touching the fact that BW can’t force BM into dating or marrying only BW. WM want white children, want to get married and married to WW, and want to live in all white neighborhoods, etc. BM in general are the exact opposite of that.
 

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Black men are truly delusional . Black women would seek out their husbands while attending college if more Black men actually attended college. Also, let’s talk about the fact that some of the Black men that do attend college , don’t date Black


18 likes on that tweet, hmmmm. Is this someone you follow?
 

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Probably because the average black man doesn't bother going past high school for an education. It's weird because these same dusty negroes don't do anything to elevate themselves in society, yet expect an educated black woman to "bring sOMeThiNG tO tHe TaBle!!!!".

A lot of them are emotionally/mentally stunted and are NOT marriage minded.
 

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Black men of all ages are marriage averse. SPECIFICALLY the young ones.

Not to mention their low college attendance rates.

How are we supposed to seek husbands when viable, willing men who want to marry are at record low numbers?

And why is this job to seek spouses put on women alone? The real question is, why aren't black men seeking wives? Why aren't they willing to marry? Why do they want to be chased?

These men would never ask one another that because it would hold them accountable, so they like to pin the tail on us.

Thank goodness I like non-black men.
 

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I'm convinced these men have unresolved mommy issues, that's why they pick apart every damn move Black women make...please seek therapy bruh

These mothers treat them special. These men are pamper and shelter. The only mother issues they have is them being overly cuddle and enabled.

I think they have more of a father issue if anything and what it's like to be a man. This is why they follow other dysfunctional black men around to seek themselves.
 
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They do. Two of my aunts spent more time trying to find a man than studying but they snagged them. Both are still married to their college sweethearts.
 
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Probably because the average black man doesn't bother going past high school for an education. It's weird because these same dusty negroes don't do anything to elevate themselves in society, yet expect an educated black woman to "bring sOMeThiNG tO tHe TaBle!!!!".
BW go off to college, earn degrees, establish careers, become homeowners while their male counterparts run thru women. Later these dudes may decide to settle down. They have it all figured out while some of their female counterparts are clueless.
 

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College-aged Black men aren’t looking for educated Black women to marry like that. Typically, men ask women to get married, so if educated Black women are not being proposed to by Black men, exactly what are they supposed to do?
 

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College-aged Black men aren’t looking for educated Black women to marry like that. Typically, men ask women to get married, so if educated Black women are not being proposed to by Black men, exactly what are they supposed to do?
She needs to expand her options. Fishing from a small polluted lake is not the right choice.
 

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Black men are truly delusional . Black women would seek out their husbands while attending college if more Black men actually attended college. Also, let’s talk about the fact that some of the Black men that do attend college , don’t date Black women!


This!!!

Even while attending a very diverse university, I notice black men are damn near non existent, and the few are dating Asian and white chicks.

My state college had such a low black male enrollment the school had to look elsewhere. It’s now mostly black women and Hispanics of either xes.

Black enrollment is down 30% overall in my state Though.
 

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Why aren't more black men willing to ask women to marry them before age 25?

Getting married is a two-way stree.


Besides, most white women don't find their husbands in college either.
 

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Men are the ones that decide they want marriage in a relationship. Women can want it but the man makes that decision he wants to marry. I know some women are out here proposing to men but that’s not the majority.

So this question is not for black women…
 

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Black men are truly delusional . Black women would seek out their husbands while attending college if more Black men actually attended college. Also, let’s talk about the fact that some of the Black men that do attend college , don’t date Black women!

Black men, tsk tsk tsk. Smh

White women don't seek out husbands! Nor do women of other races. They don't have to. Because they, unlike black women, have men in their communities who value marriage and family and therefore seek out wives.

Black men are deranged.
Black men are embarrassing.
Black men remedial.
Black men are extremely delusional.
Black men are jealous of their female counterparts.
 
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