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Black women respond to White men way more than White men respond to them

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Ive never had issues with other races of men approaching me in person or on an app.

Dont believe the hype.

Same. My current bf is Asian and he actually just sent me some roses today while I was working.

Anyway, people go out of their way to bring black women down and it's weird. I was just in another thread where some white guy was justifying the KKK terrorizing black people as free speech then he proceeded to call ME racist lmao. Now there's this loser in the OP posting about a website literally no one under the age of 35 uses. Can you imagine if I went on like...an Indian website or something just to post about how ugly I think their women are? It's fµcked.
 

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"Men don’t write black women back. Or rather, they write them back far less often than they should. Black women reply the most, yet get by far the fewest replies. Essentially every race—including other blacks—singles them out for the cold shoulder."
This is a very opinionated takeaway
 

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U think he considers himself a black man ???

look at his comment history :whistle:

and he made sure to edit them comments about black ppl being low iq negroids
Yet again proves you never know who you're talking to online. I spot a couple fonts in this thread who routinely cosplay as both men and women on here, not to mention all the ones who pretend to be black Americans but ain't.
 

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I think the op is @GoldenJohnson troll account.

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Either a musty, ashy BM wrote this, or a racist non blk troll did... I don't understand why y'all troll this thread. Don't y'all have something better to do?...
 

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You can tell by reading lsa that black women crave white men more than they let on. If white men were actually open to getting with black women, you would see a lot more interracial couples.
 

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This article is from 2009, study might be even older. Things have changed, especially public image of bw and IR dating.
 

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To be fair it's not just black women. All women from all races respond to white dudes WAY more than men of other races on dating apps.

Start this video at 18.33. Very interesting and very revealing



It's the JBW (Just Be White) theory that's popular on youtube. Meaning that if you're a white man; women will add points to your SMV (xesual Market Value) on that alone but if you're a black or non-white points are taken away on your SMV and that's BRUTALLY true for non-white guys on dating apps.

Now that doesn't mean you can be a white guy that looks like Danny DeVito and women will still want to be with you.

NO

Women STILL want the top 20% of white men and ignore the bottom 80% but dating apps are THE BEST way of REALLY telling you about the true nature of males and females and their TRUE preference. There is no societal pressure there. There is no one looking over your shoulder.

.As the video shown. Men on dating apps don't really care about race. JBW (Just Be White) doesn't really apply to women, If your hot, that's it. That's all men care about. Matter of fact, even if the women is not that hot.

But women care about race and they care about it HEAVY and women's worship for white dudes on dating apps is just on another level.

I've seen from a white friend on tinder, they go on it. Do a few swipes, go on dates. Women respond very quickly (Under n hour) they don't say "Let's talk more" matter of fact, they suggest the date to him !!

With me ? Very few swipes, Very few dates. I get the "Let's talk more" or the ghosting silence when I ask for a date.

Now granted I ain't no male model looking black guy. But my white friend wasn't no male model looking white dude either. But the difference between his and my experience on a dating app was night and day.

For black guys on dating apps unless your have the kinda male model looks that are absolutely irrefutable then you are going to be feeding on scraps on dating apps.
 
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There are plenty of other studies from dating apps corroborating this. Reminds me of the black woman x asian man movement that was stillborn a few years ago
 

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You can tell by reading lsa that black women crave white men more than they let on. If white men were actually open to getting with black women, you would see a lot more interracial couples.
I live in the UK and black woman worship white men on sick level here. I see it in my family. They have white worship WAY WORSE than any black men I know. They try and hide by saying stuff like "I've dated BM and they [insert anything negative]"

Many black women simply can't get through their younger years without getting dogged by a white man.

These white dudes run though them AND THEY GET HURT LIKE HELL because a lot of these white dudes won't wife them up or get serious with them for nothing.

At work I've had white dudes show me clips of blk women they've had xes with, they do it on some passive aggressive tip, thinking I'm gonna explode. They also do this to brothers in Shawshank, telling blk men behind bars "We're fkin your women" and these are just average looking, average earning white dudes.
 
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First of all why does every black women hater always bring up this tired ass ok cupid study that is not even accurate it actually pointed out at the time that it was flawed and the huffington post did a whole study proving it!’

Second most black women didn’t and still don’t even use ok cupid they used their sample which is minuscule compared to their majority users who are yt people to make those stats

Third every group responded to yt people the most since their the majority profiles on that app duh
 

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If stats and numbers make you feel embarrassed than I can't help you.

Men have a varieties of taste in women while women have only specific teste in men, who are 10%
Did you get yourself banned for asking such a stupid question.
 

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I live in the UK and black woman worship white men on sick level here. I see it in my family. They have white worship WAY WORSE than any black men I know. They try and hide by saying stuff like "I've dated BM and they [insert anything negative]"

Many black women simply can't get through their younger years without getting dogged by a white man.

These white dudes run though them AND THEY GET HURT LIKE HELL because a lot of these white dudes won't wife them up or get serious with them for nothing.

At work I've had white dudes show me clips of blk women they've had xes with, they do it on some passive aggressive tip, thinking I'm gonna explode. They also do this to brothers in Shawshank, telling blk men behind bars "We're fkin your women" and these are just average looking, average earning white dudes.

Listen. If this is true, it's disturbing. I'm all for divesting but I don't think many black women understand that divesting doesn't mean date white men only. There are other races in this world. I don't know why some black women are willing to subject themselves to such embarrassment just to say they have a whyte boyfriend.
 

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Listen. If this is true, it's disturbing. I'm all for divesting but I don't think many black women understand that divesting doesn't mean date white men only.

Pretty much does because BW who do divest want the top guy and most women across world view white dudes as the top guy

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There are other races in this world.

But 95% of men are invisible to women. Women only want to fk the top 5% to 10% of men.

@FullWolfMoon
I don't know why some black women are willing to subject themselves to such embarrassment just to say they have a whyte boyfriend.

Because they are white. When you have worked as a doorman as I have on nightclubs. You really get to see who really get's the women. A white man doesn't even have to be good looking or rich to get woman because when your white the looks thing is already met to most women
 

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Women STILL want the top 20% of white men and ignore the bottom 80% but dating apps are THE BEST way of REALLY telling you about the true nature of males and females and their TRUE preference. There is no societal pressure there. There is no one looking over your shoulder.

That's because you spent way too much time on incel forums i guess... on dating websites, women still check your social status.

No social pressure with no one looking over your shoulder you said ? Maybe an answer here then :

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Nobody can compete with the top 5% of white men ? Fine, then explains me that :




Go away from incel groups : they are biased and completely out of the reality.
 
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First of all why does every black women hater always bring up this tired ass ok cupid study that is not even accurate it actually pointed out at the time that it was flawed and the huffington post did a whole study proving it!’

Second most black women didn’t and still don’t even use ok cupid they used their sample which is minuscule compared to their majority users who are yt people to make those stats

Third every group responded to yt people the most since their the majority profiles on that app duh

That's the mistake some people do : they don't know how to put things in perspective.

This is an article written by OkCupid themselves : Asians Are Highly Desirable, And Other Secrets Of Online Dating Sites

They say that their own data are biased by demographic factors :

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As you already said, black people are a tiny minority in dating websites.

When they are more numerous, things change drastically :

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They even did a projection without a demographic bias :

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White people not so popular after all... and even then, dating websites don't represent the whole population : it's a small subset of people and likely mostly introverted ones in OkCupid.

I don't understand the need to put down either black men/women...
 
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That's because you spent way too much time on incel forums i guess... on dating websites, women still check your social status.

No social pressure with no one looking over your shoulder you said ? Maybe an answer here then :

3-pornhub-insights-2016-year-review-gender-searches.png


Nobody can compete with the top 5% of white men ? Fine, then explains me that :




Go away from incel groups : they are biased and completely out of the reality.

Not really sure why you put the most searched for terms.

As for the most swiped man being black ? Well women like black men who are handsome....just because they're handsome...period - Not really because they're blk. Very good looking men are almost like a race of their own.

I've never really bought into all that "Women like black dudes" That might be true if your Micheal B Jordan, Steph Curry, but the everyday blk guy walking down is not that hot of ticket as far as women are concerned.

I'm just saying that if you are comparing white men with other races of men then white men have the broadest range of women to choose from.

Meaning it’s far easier for a white man to date out and have consistent success than it is for non-white man to date out and have consistent success.

The parents of non-white women generally find it at minimum acceptable for their daughters to bring a white guy home. If it were a black guy, doubters and haters of all kinds would make their opinions known IMMEDIATELY before they even met the guy.

I have rarely if ever have witnessed a woman of another race threatened to be cut off entirely just for being with a white guy.

White men will have positive stereotypes associated with them, making it easier to "cross over" and their positive stereotypes makes it such that most white women prefer them along side the shaming that comes with white women wanting to date outside their race.

The same thing occurs when white men apply for jobs, housing in certain neighbourhoods, loans etc. I think favouritism is pretty consistent across all avenues when you make the comparison.

I’m particularly reminded of the film The Last King of Scotland for instance, wherein James McAvoy's character (the 'good guy' of course) engages in a very explicit xesual encounter with the wife of the Ugandan dictator, played by a stunning Kerry Washington.

Monster's Ball is another good example. A scruffy Billy Bob can have hot, no-holds barred steamy xes scene with Halle Berry.

The very same scene with the races reversed, outside of downright pornography, would simply be unheard of. It would be the equivalent of Lil Wayne or Rick Ross getting it on with Angelina Jolie or Megan Fox on screen.

Happen. Not. Gonna.

But pairing a white woman up with even someone as dashing as Will Smith or Denzel is somehow "problematic.
 
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Not really sure why you put the most searched for terms.

Because you spoke about what women do without social pressure... there's no social pressure when they go on pornographic websites : it's just their raw xesual desire. They don't have to check your social status, if your parents will accept you, how people will speak about you, etc.

Anyway, since white men hold most of the economic power, it's obvious that they will get advantaged.

But that doesn't necessarily mean this advantage is based on xesual attraction. In my opinion, it's more based on which is the more dominant group.




Pretty strange to find such videos on Youtube, since women are supposed to only want the top 5% of white men...

Anyway, black men don't need to be validated by white women. I mean, who cares ? As a man, you need to validate yourself before being validated by women.
 
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I did online dating (and personal ads in weekly papers, back in the horse-drawn carriage days.) I never shopped guys' adverts, initiated, or wrote to any men, period so I wasn't waiting for them to respond. Most of the men who contacted me were WM. That might have been due to the demographics where I lived and then, the numbers online in the late 1990s-2001? I always wrote something like ' "race" open ' or ' any "race" ' in my text.

The whole idea of JBW(just be white) game is stupid and loser-y. I never responded to a man simply for being white. WTH? White men aren't rare. If a BW is actually open to marrying one, it's not a feat to do so, esp. in the US and Europe. I've been married to two of them (still married to #2) and turned down proposals from two others before meeting my current.

& What exactly is the payoff for shouting from rooftops that BW aren't marriageable? It's one of dumbest things I've ever seen. I'm glad that I'm experienced enough to know that it's a bunch of crap. I hope the younger women don't let this poison soak in.
 

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And that mean's what ?

All I see is a few black men dancing with white girls at a Kizomba festival. Kizomba is an African dance, so many sense that lot of African dudes wil be there so of course anyone who attends this are gonna be dancing with each other. That doesn't mean they're fkin each other. Doesn't mean that at all.

A lot of women their are probably married or with someone but they go to dance class to guess what ? Dance ! When you go to a dance that's kinda what you do, you dance with people. If BW were there those black guys would have danced with BW too.

But Look - There are many white and non black women who have a secret fetish for black men.

That isn’t completely untrue.

But what I'm saying is that the typical black male is not that hot of a ticket as far as white women are concerned.

Any man, regardless of race, will admit that white men are at the top of the food chain in terms of xesual selection among females the world over. The reasons for this are vast and can be a whole subject in itself, but the fact of the matter is that white dudes are pretty much every woman’s type.

The parents of non-white women generally find it at minimum acceptable for their daughters to bring a white guy home. If it were a black guy, doubters and haters of all kinds would make their opinions known IMMEDIATELY before they even met the guy.

I have rarely if ever have witnessed a woman of another race threatened to be cut off entirely just for being with a white guy.


@frenchguy
But that doesn't necessarily mean this advantage is based on xesual attraction. In my opinion, it's more based on who's the more dominant group

A woman can be attracted to a man and not fk him.

A handsome alpha black guy on the street can more attractive than a nerdy white millionaire ?

Handsome Black guy = xesual attraction. White Business nerd = value

NEITHER are CONSISTENTLY getting laid by girls in a situation where its not very quick.

These guys play NUMBERS game. These handsome black guy attract, but the girls run off giggling.. They LIKE the guy, but they won't FK him. He keeps approaching until one DOES. He never looks like an idiot. Girls don't think bad of him. They just think "I'd like to, but I never would".

Conversely, the white business nerd has all the girls WANTING to be attracted to him, and giving him all the chances. But most won't get with him, because he can't attract them.

Attraction and value are separate things

@frenchguy

Because you spoke about what women do without social pressure... there's no social pressure when they go on pornographic websites : it's just their raw xesual desire. They don't have to check your social status, if your parents will accept you, how people will speak about you, etc.

But once again. They are not fkin them. If a woman think I'm attractive but she does want to fk me. That means nothing.

Even in pδrn - Many white and non black pδrn stars refuse to do interracial scene with black guys and the ones that do charge a higher rate. Non black pornstars have a normal rate of pay and have a higher interracial rate in order to work with blk guys.

By the way that doesn't work the other way round. Black pδrn stars can't exclude white dudes nor is them working white dudes classfied as interracial. So even in something as tacky and degrading as pδrn white supremacy and racism still rules.
 

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All I see is a few black men dancing with white girls at a Kizomba festival. Kizomba is an African dance, so many sense that lot of African dudes wil be there so of course anyone who attends this are gonna be dancing with each other. That doesn't mean they're fkin each other. Doesn't mean that at all.

Yeah sure, white women going in areas full of black men just to dance (very sensual dance btw) and nothing more... Black men are only here to dance too I guess.

Even in pδrn - Many white and non black pδrn stars refuse to do interracial scene with black guys and the ones that do charge a higher rate. Non black pornstars have a normal rate of pay and have a higher interracial rate in order to work with blk guys.

It's all about business and nothing more... they want to please their consumers who are mainly white men.

Some studies have been made about men's attractiveness : Attractiveness as a Function of Skin Tone and Facial Features: Evidence from Categorization Studies - PubMed.

"Black phenotypes (combinations of dark skin tone and Afrocentric facial features) were rated as more attractive than White phenotypes (combinations of light skin tone and Eurocentric facial features); ambiguous faces (combinations of Afrocentric and Eurocentric physiognomy) with medium levels of skin tone were rated as the most attractive."

Anyway, even if what you're saying is true, it doesn't matter.

In life you have to do the best with what you have, that's what really matters. Black men could be the most desired or unwanted, it would not change my life.

Also, i validate myself before being validated by others.
 
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To be fair it's not just black women. All women from all races respond to white dudes WAY more than men of other races on dating apps.

Start this video at 18.33. Very interesting and very revealing



It's the JBW (Just Be White) theory that's popular on youtube. Meaning that if you're a white man; women will add points to your SMV (xesual Market Value) on that alone but if you're a black or non-white points are taken away on your SMV and that's BRUTALLY true for non-white guys on dating apps.

Now that doesn't mean you can be a white guy that looks like Danny DeVito and women will still want to be with you.

NO

Women STILL want the top 20% of white men and ignore the bottom 80% but dating apps are THE BEST way of REALLY telling you about the true nature of males and females and their TRUE preference. There is no societal pressure there. There is no one looking over your shoulder.

.As the video shown. Men on dating apps don't really care about race. JBW (Just Be White) doesn't really apply to women, If your hot, that's it. That's all men care about. Matter of fact, even if the women is not that hot.

But women care about race and they care about it HEAVY and women's worship for white dudes on dating apps is just on another level.

I've seen from a white friend on tinder, they go on it. Do a few swipes, go on dates. Women respond very quickly (Under n hour) they don't say "Let's talk more" matter of fact, they suggest the date to him !!

With me ? Very few swipes, Very few dates. I get the "Let's talk more" or the ghosting silence when I ask for a date.

Now granted I ain't no male model looking black guy. But my white friend wasn't no male model looking white dude either. But the difference between his and my experience on a dating app was night and day.

For black guys on dating apps unless your have the kinda male model looks that are absolutely irrefutable then you are going to be feeding on scraps on dating apps.

Really so u just have to be white will u say its the majority of all wkmen that r like this
 
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I did online dating (and personal ads in weekly papers, back in the horse-drawn carriage days.) I never shopped guys' adverts, initiated, or wrote to any men, period so I wasn't waiting for them to respond. Most of the men who contacted me were WM. That might have been due to the demographics where I lived and then, the numbers online in the late 1990s-2001? I always wrote something like ' "race" open ' or ' any "race" ' in my text.

The whole idea of JBW(just be white) game is stupid and loser-y. I never responded to a man simply for being white. WTH? White men aren't rare. If a BW is actually open to marrying one, it's not a feat to do so, esp. in the US and Europe. I've been married to two of them (still married to #2) and turned down proposals from two others before meeting my current.

& What exactly is the payoff for shouting from rooftops that BW aren't marriageable? It's one of dumbest things I've ever seen. I'm glad that I'm experienced enough to know that it's a bunch of crap. I hope the younger women don't let this poison soak in.
So what's up with all these women craving wm for
 
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Listen. If this is true, it's disturbing. I'm all for divesting but I don't think many black women understand that divesting doesn't mean date white men only.

Pretty much does because BW who do divest want the top guy and most women across world view white dudes as the top guy

@FullWolfMoon
There are other races in this world.

But 95% of men are invisible to women. Women only want to fk the top 5% to 10% of men.

@FullWolfMoon
I don't know why some black women are willing to subject themselves to such embarrassment just to say they have a whyte boyfriend.

Because they are white. When you have worked as a doorman as I have on nightclubs. You really get to see who really get's the women. A white man doesn't even have to be good looking or rich to get woman because when your white the looks thing is already met to most women
Do bm have as much luck as wm
 

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This is not true. On most of the dating apps I'm on, yt men send me messages constantly. I get more matches and messages from them than black men.
 

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This is not true. On most of the dating apps I'm on, yt men send me messages constantly. I get more matches and messages from them than black men.
When I was on them it was white and Asian men, oh and Hispanic. The Black men I saw were either unattractive, played games, or were using the app as their personal brothel.
 

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