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The fact that you even have to tell your man “Yes I’ll sleep over but I don’t want to have xes”. That leads me to believe this isn’t the first time this has been an issue with y’all.

Yet you still went over there the next day is just baffling to me.

You don’t see anything wrong with this sis?
 

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Sis, you’re supposed to refuse the xes after he’s entertained and fed you, not before.

But anyways this is mad childish of him lol. Don’t you know this is a ploy so that you chase him down and give him guilty xes? You don’t know? And it’s working, you talking about “Shall I go to his house?”

Oh dear.
some men invite you over and expect xes and dont even wanna entertain or feed you. and even so, it's best to say no xes to the guy if that's not what you want so he cant say he "did this and that for you".
 

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Yesterday, he wanted me to sleep over. I said yes,but I don't want xes. He repeated, "no xes?" I said no.

He never called me back,And he refuses to take my calls. He has been,doing that since last night.
I texted him this morning, because I saw him online. He didn't even open the message,I called and he declined it.
I'm considering showing up to his house. What would y'all do?

Or am I wrong?

1) Clearly he is not willing to see you unless you have xes
2) This means he does not care about you ... he is trying to USE you for xes
3) He is ignoring you because he has dumped you
4) Your texting and texting him is chasing him .. so now he has lost respect for you
5) But ,... you want to turn up on his doorstep? What for? He does not want you and is avoiding you. All heś gonna do is leave you out there knocking on his door and looking like a fool.

How come you don't have any pride in yourself?
 

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The fact that you even have to tell your man “Yes I’ll sleep over but I don’t want to have xes”. That leads me to believe this isn’t the first time this has been an issue with y’all.

Yet you still went over there the next day is just baffling to me.

Girl I just didnt want xes.
 

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Yesterday, he wanted me to sleep over. I said yes,but I don't want xes. He repeated, "no xes?" I said no.

He never called me back,And he refuses to take my calls. He has been,doing that since last night.
I texted him this morning, because I saw him online. He didn't even open the message,I called and he declined it.
I'm considering showing up to his house. What would y'all do?

Or am I wrong?
He knows that bothers you and do it on purpose. Don't be pressed and ghost him. He can't act like that just because of xes that's super childish and disrespectful.
 

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If that's her man why wouldn't she do a pop up?
 

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Not in heah snapping after asking LSA what to do with her FWB lol

In your feelings with the wrong ppl, how much smoke did you have for him?

He didn't even want to see you unless y'all was fµck!ng. You really need to reread that.
 

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Yesterday, he wanted me to sleep over. I said yes,but I don't want xes. He repeated, "no xes?" I said no.

He never called me back,And he refuses to take my calls. He has been,doing that since last night.
I texted him this morning, because I saw him online. He didn't even open the message,I called and he declined it.
I'm considering showing up to his house. What would y'all do?

Or am I wrong?
“Boyfriend”
 

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1) Clearly he is not willing to see you unless you have xes
2) This means he does not care about you ... he is trying to USE you for xes
3) He is ignoring you because he has dumped you
4) Your texting and texting him is chasing him .. so now he has lost respect for you
5) But ,... you want to turn up on his doorstep? What for? He does not want you and is avoiding you. All heś gonna do is leave you out there knocking on his door and looking like a fool.

How come you don't have any pride in yourself?
I don’t understand why women don’t get it. All the points you made were self evident before your post.
 

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You sure this is your man and nobody else is on his line. If you over there let us know what happens.
 

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No xes is a deal breaker so he broke up with you. N
 

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Yesterday, he wanted me to sleep over. I said yes,but I don't want xes. He repeated, "no xes?" I said no.

He never called me back,And he refuses to take my calls. He has been,doing that since last night.
I texted him this morning, because I saw him online. He didn't even open the message,I called and he declined it.
I'm considering showing up to his house. What would y'all do?

Or am I wrong?
You single now. He’s probably having the xes that you didn’t want to have with someone else honestly
 

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How old are you? Why are you trying to reach to someone who clearly doesn’t want anything but xes with you?
 

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Yesterday, he wanted me to sleep over. I said yes,but I don't want xes. He repeated, "no xes?" I said no.

He never called me back,And he refuses to take my calls. He has been,doing that since last night.
I texted him this morning, because I saw him online. He didn't even open the message,I called and he declined it.
I'm considering showing up to his house. What would y'all do?

Or am I wrong?
Time for you to start dating until you find out what the situation is… You will feel a lot better.
 

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I hope the Original Poster of this thread.

Ain't "trolling" us, on this Platform.

If what you say is true, Op.
If he wasn't gravely ill, barely able to move, or had phone issues that prevented him form communicating with you.

I'd suggest you end whatever arrangement you had with him.
Cause it seemed like he was overlooking your personhood.
Personhood Definition:

1. The state or condition of being a person, especially having those qualities that confer distinct individuality.

2. The state or period of being a person.

personhood — definition, examples, related words and more at Wordnik
If I was in a "relationship" with a lady.
I wouldn't mind just spending some quality time together, outside of xes.

Especially during the Coronavirus Pandemic.

Playing some board games, coloring pictures, listening to some Music, conversing gone be fun; to me.
However, if lady I'm in a "relationship" with, withholds xes for like 6 Months.

I'm ending the "relationship" and moving on.
Because that's not the type of "relationship" arrangement I agreed to or want.

Withholding xes for such a long time, would be a clear sign I'm not compatible with the lady.
Hopefully you'll have a quality "relationship" in the near future, Op
Just my personal thoughts and views (05/09/2021).
Peace.
:peace
 

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Sis, he isn’t the one. Get sexy, post pics on ig and drop that wasteman
 

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