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No face, no case.
So my boyfriend and I have been together since sophomore year of high school, 7 years. We've had issues for a while, but over the summer I got too tired of him not even trying to please me how I wanted to be pleased xesually, and I slept with someone else behind his back.
The dick was fire, and I thought he was cute at the time, so I broke things off with my man, but after a week we started sleeping together again. At this point, he knew I didn't want to be in a relationship with him but he was still trying.
About a week later, I caught an STD from guy. I told my ex immediately and he caught it too. At that time, he knew I was sleeping with other people but didn't know about new guy. He was upset, but not angry with me. Some time after this incident, I told him about the new guy, and he got really upset and that's when he really started trying to get me back. Putting in more effort, showing interest, offering favors, even offered couples therapy.
Well, sh!t started going way left with new guy. He basically moved into my mom's house because he said his ex girlfriend kicked him out and he was homeless and had no where else to go, subsequently he started getting his mail sent here which I still get to this day. He was in a domestic violence situation with this girl, and I assume he was still sleeping with her while he was shacked up with me. Anyway, he ended up getting locked for selling and asked ME to pay half of his bail. Even tried to get me to meet up with his ex girlfriend so we can go halfsies on it. I said no, not after you made me argue with this girl after manipulating me into thinking she was this crazy, abusive, obsessed stalker. He ended up calling me from jail blacking on me talking about if you guys can't put your differences aside to get me out of here we're gonna have problems when I get out. Like hold up is it my fault you got locked? He knew I didn't even have bread like that either.
Chile, I just sent my half of the $500 he was asking for to ole girl and kept it moving. When he got out, he called me to black on me AGAIN telling me that I was moving grimey when he was in there and how he's deading me. I just let him talk and hang up but I know his dumb ass was bluffing because he still be calling me on Facetime Audio, and all this happened back in September. He also left his raggedy ass piece of junk car with me that he eventually came to pick up when I wasn't even here.
Back to the point I took my man back and we were working on things and had just gotten to a great place in our relationship, and then he found out from people that I was sleeping with guy though he doesn't know details people in our small town know him because he was a dealer. Now he's broken things off with me and I know what I did was horrible but he won't understand why, and when I try to tell him he just gets angrier and angrier. I need him, he's been taking care of me for years, and has seen how toxic my family can be and has encouraged me to leave them for so long, idk why I never listened before. I even told my mother about the cheating and she told me not to tell him. Last week she kicked me out because my therapist called the cops on me and her and my brother were pissed talking about how dare I bring the cops there. But I'm back home now and so depressed because I can't trust them after I see how they really move, and I miss my man and feel so alone.
He says he wants his space, he says he's gonna let me know if he sleeps with other girls. We've still been sleeping together but I cut it off this weekend because I wanted us to be all or nothing and don't wanna just wait around and watch him fµck other b!tches while I'm at home. Smh I tried to do the right thing.
I just needed to vent yall. My man is white BTW, and guy was Puerto Rican.
The dick was fire, and I thought he was cute at the time, so I broke things off with my man, but after a week we started sleeping together again. At this point, he knew I didn't want to be in a relationship with him but he was still trying.
About a week later, I caught an STD from guy. I told my ex immediately and he caught it too. At that time, he knew I was sleeping with other people but didn't know about new guy. He was upset, but not angry with me. Some time after this incident, I told him about the new guy, and he got really upset and that's when he really started trying to get me back. Putting in more effort, showing interest, offering favors, even offered couples therapy.
Well, sh!t started going way left with new guy. He basically moved into my mom's house because he said his ex girlfriend kicked him out and he was homeless and had no where else to go, subsequently he started getting his mail sent here which I still get to this day. He was in a domestic violence situation with this girl, and I assume he was still sleeping with her while he was shacked up with me. Anyway, he ended up getting locked for selling and asked ME to pay half of his bail. Even tried to get me to meet up with his ex girlfriend so we can go halfsies on it. I said no, not after you made me argue with this girl after manipulating me into thinking she was this crazy, abusive, obsessed stalker. He ended up calling me from jail blacking on me talking about if you guys can't put your differences aside to get me out of here we're gonna have problems when I get out. Like hold up is it my fault you got locked? He knew I didn't even have bread like that either.
Chile, I just sent my half of the $500 he was asking for to ole girl and kept it moving. When he got out, he called me to black on me AGAIN telling me that I was moving grimey when he was in there and how he's deading me. I just let him talk and hang up but I know his dumb ass was bluffing because he still be calling me on Facetime Audio, and all this happened back in September. He also left his raggedy ass piece of junk car with me that he eventually came to pick up when I wasn't even here.
Back to the point I took my man back and we were working on things and had just gotten to a great place in our relationship, and then he found out from people that I was sleeping with guy though he doesn't know details people in our small town know him because he was a dealer. Now he's broken things off with me and I know what I did was horrible but he won't understand why, and when I try to tell him he just gets angrier and angrier. I need him, he's been taking care of me for years, and has seen how toxic my family can be and has encouraged me to leave them for so long, idk why I never listened before. I even told my mother about the cheating and she told me not to tell him. Last week she kicked me out because my therapist called the cops on me and her and my brother were pissed talking about how dare I bring the cops there. But I'm back home now and so depressed because I can't trust them after I see how they really move, and I miss my man and feel so alone.
He says he wants his space, he says he's gonna let me know if he sleeps with other girls. We've still been sleeping together but I cut it off this weekend because I wanted us to be all or nothing and don't wanna just wait around and watch him fµck other b!tches while I'm at home. Smh I tried to do the right thing.
I just needed to vent yall. My man is white BTW, and guy was Puerto Rican.