incogneato
No face, no case.
This guy introduced me to his mom today but I’ve been planning to end things for some time now.
He’s great and nice and we get along but that’s not enough. I’m a free spirited, passionate person and he’s not. I don’t want someone as hyper as me, I like reserved guys but I wish he could match my energy sometimes. On rare occasions he shows some personality but I’m very much the ‘life’ of the relationship. I feel like our relationship is so routine now. We chill on the weekends. We have gone on a some trips and we do things for birthdays/v day but it’s nothing spontaneous anymore. I think he’s got so accustomed to this boring rut and he enjoys it.
My friends are telling me he’s a great guy and I know the dating streets are beyond bleak but there’s just something missing. If he proposed to me tomorrow I wouldn’t say yes.
I know I have to tell him soon…I’m just waiting on a good time.
Also I’ve told him countless times I like flowers and he’s very resistant to get them for me. He’s only done it once after we had an argument and we almost broke up (the argument was over the lack of flowers lol)
I just needed to vent because my friends seem to think I’m just being dramatic. I don’t want to settle
He’s great and nice and we get along but that’s not enough. I’m a free spirited, passionate person and he’s not. I don’t want someone as hyper as me, I like reserved guys but I wish he could match my energy sometimes. On rare occasions he shows some personality but I’m very much the ‘life’ of the relationship. I feel like our relationship is so routine now. We chill on the weekends. We have gone on a some trips and we do things for birthdays/v day but it’s nothing spontaneous anymore. I think he’s got so accustomed to this boring rut and he enjoys it.
My friends are telling me he’s a great guy and I know the dating streets are beyond bleak but there’s just something missing. If he proposed to me tomorrow I wouldn’t say yes.
I know I have to tell him soon…I’m just waiting on a good time.
Also I’ve told him countless times I like flowers and he’s very resistant to get them for me. He’s only done it once after we had an argument and we almost broke up (the argument was over the lack of flowers lol)
I just needed to vent because my friends seem to think I’m just being dramatic. I don’t want to settle